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Cabbie21 Sat 13-Jul-19 13:37:16

It really annoys me, when I tell someone I am about to go on holiday and they ask “ going anywhere nice?”
Of course I hope where I am going will be “ nice”!
I usually answer “ I hope so”, and get a mystified look.
Any other good answers?
I suspect they are being a bit snobbish and think certain places are “ nicer” than others.
I suppose it is less blunt than asking outright, Where are you going?

MawBroonsback Sun 14-Jul-19 13:50:08

Victormeldrew1 confused
Was this meant for another thread?

Callistemon Sun 14-Jul-19 13:50:58

Beammeupscottie grin
It wasn't funny, but the way you put it is hilarious!

Rufus2 Sun 14-Jul-19 13:55:32

www.thesenior.com.au/story/6268165/funerals-the-times-are-a-changing/
Thought someone might be interested, but don't forget to add on airfare! grin

Minniemoo Sun 14-Jul-19 13:55:49

Glad that you wouldn't be offended gillybob. And I'm glad you have a great hairdresser. Very important! Thinking about it the 'anywhere nice' comment is a bit of a throwaway remark. I think people say things without thinking. Just a conversation starter I suppose. What I dislike, yet am guilty of saying it many times is, ' to be honest' ... as if sometimes I'll be lying!

MawBroonsback Sun 14-Jul-19 13:58:02

A bit out of place Rufus ? confused

Norah Sun 14-Jul-19 14:17:42

"Somewhere with perfect weather, I hope. Do you have recommendations?

LightAmber Sun 14-Jul-19 14:32:30

I've not had a holiday in 7 years but am ridiculously excited about going to my home town to see my daughter tomorrow grin haven't seen her since Christmas what with one thing and another!

VIOLETTE Sun 14-Jul-19 14:39:37

I just say NO ha ha ...that puzzles everybody !

petra Sun 14-Jul-19 15:20:13

Beammeupscottie
I know exactly what you mean. I saw more of the Terraccota Army on television than I did at the site in China.
Being 5' I was forever on tip toe trying to look through the crowds.

grandtanteJE65 Sun 14-Jul-19 15:26:09

Asking "are you going anywhere nice?" was a standard way of showing interest when I was a child in the Glasgow area, so I suspect it may be the phrase is restricted to certain parts of the country and people from other parts find it strange.

We always answered the query be saying where we were going, and nobody found the question odd.

What they would have found odd, perhaps even rude, was if we hadn't told them " where we were off to".

Beammeupscottie Sun 14-Jul-19 15:38:54

Oh my God, Petra. All that money and effort! These sites of antiquity are much better seen on tv. However, in Egypt I was offered some dirty postcards by a hawker - by dirty he meant covered in sand. He also told me I STILL had a fine body. You can find humour in all Countres ,which make my hols. and not the tourist stuff which is better on screen.

knickas63 Sun 14-Jul-19 16:17:31

I afraid I am guilty of using this phrase. No snobbishness or agendas behind it. Just a phrase, usually followed by how lovely! Enjoy yourself!

chrissie13 Sun 14-Jul-19 16:49:17

I would take it to mean are you going somewhere nice that you've chosen to go, or are you just going to visit relatives perhaps which may be somewhere not that nice!

Pix5 Sun 14-Jul-19 17:11:28

A holiday is a holiday no matter where. I've been to a lot of places and wherever I go, I get just as excited whether Bognor, or Barbados, been to both.

Marydoll Sun 14-Jul-19 17:28:40

On a more sombre note, my sister in law was buying new underwear today to dress my brother in law before he was buried, as she wanted him to look "nice". The assistant asked her if she was going on holiday to somewhere nice! She replied, "No!", rather sharply.
The poor assistant didn't understand why my sister in law was upset.

4allweknow Sun 14-Jul-19 17:30:41

I occasionally ask if a person is going somewhere exotic. If they say no only eg Majorca I say well that is exotic compared to here! Not always a snobby enquiry I feel.

sharon103 Sun 14-Jul-19 18:04:38

Only a one-way ticket for that one Rufus. smile

sharon103 Sun 14-Jul-19 18:09:22

I don't fancy it though, I can't stand the heat.

KatyK Sun 14-Jul-19 18:15:27

Apologies gilly Yes I get what you are saying. At the time we were broke and hadn't travelled much at all, just Butlins etc.

Danlan Sun 14-Jul-19 18:53:53

I’m hoping to go to India and tbh some of it won’t be at all “nice”, but thanks for asking!

gillybob Sun 14-Jul-19 18:58:49

No need to apologise at all KatyK smile

sharon103 Sun 14-Jul-19 19:12:58

If anyone asks if you're going on holiday gillybob just say (the place name where you live) and add -on-sea. That's what I do.

gillybob Sun 14-Jul-19 19:26:19

I’ve done that lots of times sharon103 the funny thing is that where I live really is close to the sea, so I’m not lying . smile

Only downside is that it’s the North Sea and it’s damned freezing !

sharon103 Sun 14-Jul-19 20:42:17

Oh gawd lol gilly

cas58 Sun 14-Jul-19 21:05:45

I always thought it was a dumbass question. I always want to say no I'm going somewhere horrible. Sake!