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Harry’s dilemma

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Davida1968 Sat 01-Jun-19 13:06:58

I suspect that our own dear Queen is in a bit of a quandry at the moment, to say the least. (Has any other "head of state", when invited to meet the Queen for a formal state visit in her own country, announced that they will bring along half a dozen members of their family? Could Trump be any more crass?) I think Harry will simply do what is expected of him (by the Queen) which probably means just turning up, taking very much of a back seat, then legging it as soon as is politely possible!

Callistemon Sat 01-Jun-19 12:57:36

Keep Philip at arms length, hahahaha.
Now, that could be very interesting!
Let's hope he is there
grin

Gonegirl Sat 01-Jun-19 12:50:31

Hello Merlot how're you doing? x

Gonegirl Sat 01-Jun-19 12:50:08

I think the royals are well versed in how to divide themselves in two. The real them and the official version. Harry will do what he has to do.

EllanVannin Sat 01-Jun-19 12:44:33

Keep Philip at arms length, hahahaha.

Anniebach Sat 01-Jun-19 10:46:15

Callisttemon. I was referring to him not attending causing a diplomatic incident, it wouldn’t.

My reference to the others was the royals turn out for royal duties

Callistemon Sat 01-Jun-19 10:39:39

Maternity leave is the perfect excuse, Merlotgran.
Is Harry on paternity leave or could he claim that?

Callistemon Sat 01-Jun-19 10:38:50

I didn't think that Harry is a minor royal, Anniebach - certainly he is higher ranking than Anne, Edward and Sophie.

He should go, be extremely polite and show by example (not that Trump will learn any manners at this late stage in his life).

merlotgran Sat 01-Jun-19 10:24:22

Meghan is officially on maternity leave so has the perfect excuse not to meet him. Harry will know what's expected of him.

Urmstongran Sat 01-Jun-19 10:04:27

Harry is going apparently.

Anniebach Sat 01-Jun-19 10:03:27

I am sure William and Kate, Charles and Camilla ,Anne and
perhaps Edward and Sophie will attend the banquet , duty first,

Anniebach Sat 01-Jun-19 09:59:10

If he didn’t meet Trump it wouldn’t risk a diplomatic incidence, Harry is a minor royal

lemongrove Sat 01-Jun-19 09:57:58

I don’t see any real reason that Harry should meet him,
The Queen, obviously will, and possibly Charles and if anyone else, then William surely, but why Harry?

DoraMarr Sat 01-Jun-19 09:46:31

www.cbsnews.com/news/meghan-markle-will-not-meet-president-trump-during-his-upcoming-uk-visit/

EllanVannin Sat 01-Jun-19 09:38:45

I didn't think either Meghan or Harry would be around anyway as Harry has an engagement somewhere and I knew that Meghan refused a meeting from the start.

Sara65 Sat 01-Jun-19 09:37:34

I’m sure Harry will be the bigger man, as stated previously, the Royals are trained to rise above silly little men like Trump!

BlueBelle Sat 01-Jun-19 09:37:31

Well he can always spit in his tea when his backs turned

janeainsworth Sat 01-Jun-19 09:35:43

Is Harry expected to go for tea with him?
Given that Trump has just interfered in a U.K. domestic political matter (election of next Tory Leader) I don’t think Harry not having tea with him would count as a diplomatic incident.
Trump will incite plenty of those all by himself!

ditzyme Sat 01-Jun-19 09:34:34

Duty calls. I am sure the Queen would probably rather not have to meet the man, but duty is inbuilt with her position as Queen. There have probably been lots of people she didn't like and didn't want to spend time with, lots of things she's had to do out of duty, but she just puts on that lovely smile and gets on with her job. There already seems to be some friction between certain Royals and Meghan, why make things worse by not 'grinning and bearing it' for an hour or two. Think of that lovely feeling of relief when it's done with.... like coming home from the dreaded dentist!

DoraMarr Sat 01-Jun-19 09:31:42

Now, I can take or leave the royal family, but I can see that it might be difficult for Harry to have tea with Donald Trump next week, given that he called Meghan “nasty” in an interview with the Sun. Does he go and accord Trump some degree of politeness commensurate with his position as President of The US, can he shake his hand and engage in small talk like he would with any other visiting head of state, or does he treat him to a frosty silence, or turn his back on him, or not go at all and risk a diplomatic incident?