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ninathenana Fri 10-May-19 14:06:57

Yes, I admit it. I'm nosey smile but am also slightly concerned about our neighbour.
We share a path to the front doors with the neighbours in the other half of our semi detached.
Right now there is an ambulance, two pollice cars parked in the street and 6 officers milling around the pathway and sitting on the dwarf wall.
We heard no sirens and they all seem relaxed and just chatting.
No point in asking, as I know they can't tell us.
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ninathenana Sat 11-May-19 12:35:39

The police are not permitted to tell you what is happening due to confidentiality which is why I didn't go and ask.
Our neighbours are 50ish not old and frail. DH has since heard that it was a pedestrian walking along that happened to be taken ill outside our houses.

Gottalovethem Sat 11-May-19 12:23:26

I also think you have a right to feel concerned, especially with there being 6 police officers there as well. You honestly never know what is happening nowadays and I think it’s perfectly ok to see if your neighbours are ok and also if there is any risk to you and your family.

tiredoldwoman Sat 11-May-19 11:27:41

Daddima, you made me laugh !

Daddima Sat 11-May-19 11:25:34

When we moved here at first, I became convinced that the sweet old lady across the way was a master criminal, as the polis were regular visitors to her house. It transpired that she was a kiltmaker, and made the kilts for the police pipe band!

Silvermane Sat 11-May-19 11:13:57

Just read that all is ok! Phew!!

Silvermane Sat 11-May-19 11:11:36

I had the same thing with a neighbour last year. He had passed away in his sleep - The police came first as another neighbour had reported to them that he hadn't been seen for a couple of days. I hope this isn't the same thing?

jaylucy Sat 11-May-19 11:08:28

Margs - you are obviously one of those people that should be living on an isolated island completely on your own !
I'd much rather have people curious about me than not - whether it is because they care or being nosey, I don't care, I have nothing to hide!

harrigran Sat 11-May-19 10:59:56

Ambulances and police cars were an everyday event in our street, we had some real charmers living in rented accommodation. I could sit in the study and watch it unfold courtesy of my CCTV cameras, no dialogue of course. We are lucky that the police often visit us and give us an update especially in the run up to the tenants being evicted.

sylviann Sat 11-May-19 10:58:48

I'd be out asking what was going on rather than wait for a second hand version from a neighbour

FarNorth Sat 11-May-19 10:54:03

Maybe they should have been at Acacia Drive instead of Acacia Road, say?

crazyH Sat 11-May-19 10:51:41

I admit, I am caring/nosey. Nothing wrong with being nosey and willing to help if needed.

Margs Sat 11-May-19 10:46:51

Faking "sympathetic concern" when the true motive is plain noseyness is quite vile.

Too many of us are blighted with neighbours who have noses longer than Pinnochio's.

Privacy is a precious and - sadly - hard to come by commodity these days.

Butt out.

Legs55 Sat 11-May-19 10:17:19

Oh the excitement & frustration. Where I live I have several elderly neighbours, although many are in better health than me. The sight of an ambulance always raises interest but not one but two Police cars would be very curious they're a rare breed down here hmm

sarahellenwhitney Sat 11-May-19 09:57:09

Could be ? on standby should they be needed as support for an incident taking place not far from your location. I could not bear the suspense so would have to stick my nose in and ask what was going on.

CaroleAnne Sat 11-May-19 09:48:18

I too am on tenterhooks. Like everyone else I am not at all nosey but interested in the wellbeing of others.

nanee Sat 11-May-19 09:33:37

I'm surprised they didnt knock to let you know what's going on or ask questions? Sounds like someone got there first with the cuppa!

Auntieflo Sat 11-May-19 09:28:20

Seeing that we have had at least two serious incidents in the past, concerning neighbours, i would like to hope that yours is not too worrying.

sodapop Sat 11-May-19 08:53:26

Any more news ninathenana not at all nosey you understand just interested.

BradfordLass72 Sat 11-May-19 07:47:18

I'm convinced she's an international arms trader, masquerading as a harmless suburbanite.

Meanwhile, how on earth do you expect us to sleep with this sort of mystery hanging over us?

Pressing the "Watch This Thread" button grin

lemongrove Fri 10-May-19 19:28:49

nina pop round and ask if there is anything you can do.
It’s the police cars that make it intriguing isn’t it? grin

midgey Fri 10-May-19 19:23:44

There is nothing worse than not knowing what the excitement was! grin

Lily65 Fri 10-May-19 17:33:23

You could say " are you OK? do you need any help?"

ninathenana Fri 10-May-19 17:30:25

Ambo went after about 15 mins. Then cops 10 mins later. We saw our neighbour out the front just now. She was smiley and waved but was getting in her car. So, so far none the wiser.

kittylester Fri 10-May-19 17:23:01

What nonnie said. Then come back and tell us cos we are ever so nosey!!

Nonnie Fri 10-May-19 15:52:17

Oh, and use of your loo.