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Colverson Sat 23-Mar-19 09:59:57

Listen I live on my own and have a small glass of wine acouple of times aweek at home while watching a saved prog on TV and I enjoy it.I do not drink when I go out as I drive and just having a drink at home is no problem unless its when you are feeling low and have more than one.Have a drink if its to relax and enjoy it when you feel good BUT I would advice you not to drink when feeling low or have more than one as things can get over the top and the one small glass becomes a large one and more than one

ToadsMum Sat 23-Mar-19 09:58:29

Cardiff blues ?

Miep1 Sat 23-Mar-19 09:56:18

I've lived alone for large periods of my life and am not averse to opening a bottle of wine - say at 2pm on a hot day in the garden - and might even finish it off by 10pm. I do not consider myself to have an unhealthy relationship with booze!

Bennan Sat 23-Mar-19 09:56:10

Was it Saints?

NotSpaghetti Sat 23-Mar-19 09:53:11

Teetime grin

KatyK Sat 23-Mar-19 09:37:20

I know a few people who live alone and enjoy the odd tipple.

BlueSapphire Sat 23-Mar-19 09:11:57

I still keep to the routine DH and I had when he was still here.
A glass of sherry to watch Eggheads and a glass of wine with dinner. I still raise my glass to him every evening! And at the weekends I might have a liqueur as a nightcap. I certainly had one last night as my rugby team had a fantastic win!winewinesmile

DanniRae Sat 23-Mar-19 09:10:27

Oh kitty don't say that............I bet I'll be getting a tattoo next and having facial piercings (or worse)!! Is there no hope for me???????? shock

lovebeigecardigans1955 Sat 23-Mar-19 09:10:15

My dad used to say that drinking alone was akin to being on the slippery slope to alcoholism - so he'd go down the pub to drink, argue and annoy people.
I sometimes open a beer, put lots down for the slugs to drown in and I drink what's left in the bottle (not from the bottle) which is very little. Has it turned me into a raging alcoholic? No. Cheers!

Carolina55 Sat 23-Mar-19 08:57:05

Ha ha kittylester - enjoy a nightcap if we’ve been out and I usually drive home as my DH won’t go to a bar and have a soft drink. He once stated that it would be like visiting a house of ill repute and not availing himself of the contents!

Teetime Sat 23-Mar-19 08:41:40

I am always with you!

kittylester Sat 23-Mar-19 08:31:44

Theres no hope danni, it's the slippery slope for you.

You are definitely not alone if you are on gn, Carolina, though I hope you are not still drinking!

DanniRae Sat 23-Mar-19 08:23:57

Hi, I don't drink much usually but last night I was on my own and had 2 glasses of sherry.......living life on the edge, eh? To add to my bad girl image I also had 2 (yes 2) bags of crisps........ winewinewink

sunseeker Sat 23-Mar-19 08:13:03

I live alone and enjoy a glass of wine in the evening now and again. I think many people drink alone without it being a problem (in my case a bottle of wine will last me a week). Don't feel guilty, relax and enjoy

RosieLeah Sat 23-Mar-19 06:58:54

I've never regarded drinking a glass of wine as something which must only be done in the company of others.

BradfordLass72 Sat 23-Mar-19 06:49:18

I don't have much choice smile

I live alone and if I want a beer on hot day; and we've had 3 months of temperatures which would suit a Bedouin; then I'm the solitary drinker your mothers warned you not to become.

Suits me just fine. Cheers ! wine

Carolina55 Fri 22-Mar-19 22:23:58

Thank you grumppa..... and I’m watching the news while I finish the drink and of course I’m drinking with all the grans still up!

My daughter once Skyped me and instructed me to open a bottle of wine so that we could have a drink together.... I called a neighbour to help me finish the bottle!

boheminan Fri 22-Mar-19 22:18:14

'Cheers' grumppa and Carolina55 wine. It's been a long day....

grumppa Fri 22-Mar-19 22:09:22

Technically, you're finishing a drink after your drinking companion has deserted you, having been abstemious all evening. One vodka tonic hardly constitutes opening a bottle, unless of course you plan to finish it tonight.

I raise my beer tankard in your honour - you're never alone on Gransnet.

Carolina55 Fri 22-Mar-19 21:51:29

Never done it..... started with friends in the pub/party, wherever, and it’s always been a social thing for me, something I’ve only done in company. Simply doesn’t occur to me to open a bottle unless there’s some one to share it.

But tonight we’ve come back from the quiz and I was driving so not drinking (another rule) and the football is on and I’ve poured a vodka tonic and England are winning and he’s decided they’re fine and buggered off to bed! So ..... am I drinking alone......? Feels strange!