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EllanVannin Sat 02-Mar-19 14:17:14

No property should be anyone else's responsibility. I'd have refused the keys point blank for a start especially as the place isn't exactly next door or even a few doors down.
I feel so sorry that you have been put under this obligation and hope the owners realise that any missing items were by no means your fault you've done all you can.
Go carefully if you do happen to venture near the place. There'll be squatters in next and it's damned difficult to remove those slobs.

BlueBelle Sat 02-Mar-19 13:57:08

I agree hand the keys back by ‘signed for’ post with a nice letter saying you ve done all you can bearing in mind you could walk into to find people in there putting you in danger
Is there a neighbourhood watch you can alert as you don’t want squatters moving in next door
What a terrible shame

Jalima1108 Sat 02-Mar-19 13:40:11

This is not your worry, it's not your house and they are not your possessions - you have done all you can by informing the police and the owner. The owner is expecting far too much of a kindly neighbour, unless he/she has employed you as caretakers.
I agree - send the keys back by registered post.

Something similar happened near us, although the house was not furnished, as drug users got in. One policeman showed a bit of interest but we were thankful when it was sold for development.

sodapop Sat 02-Mar-19 13:18:47

I agree with everyone else, its unfair to put you under this sort of pressure. Send the keys back with an explanation. This won't solve the problem of vandals, speaking to the council seems to be the next step with that.

Grammaretto Sat 02-Mar-19 10:32:21

All good advice. Let's hope it does get sold and either restored or redeveloped soon. The sooner the better. It must be hugely worrying for you.
Is the owner far away?
A historic house in Edinburgh, Cammo, belonging to an eccentric aristocrat was left to rot until eventually it was set on fire. It's now a pile of stones.
There's a cautionary tale for you!! Sorry no help at all.
When we had our windows broken by vandals, the police suggested we get CCTV and a Rottweiler. Seriously.

Nannarose Sat 02-Mar-19 10:11:00

I agree with Massimo & Dora, you can add a kind notes saying that you are sorry, but cannot take any more responsibility.
I would also look out how to contact your local PCSO (council website usually has this information, or call 101. Here, there are PCSO surgeries monthly in our village, weekly in the area generally, so we can easily get to one, and have a chat, or leave a message asking them to call you. Explain that you have done as much as you can, but that you are also concerned for your own safety & well being.
I would also inform your local councillor (whichever council deals with housing and streets in your area) that you are concerned about anti-social behaviour.
Hope it is resolved soon.

Gonegirl Sat 02-Mar-19 10:03:40

Oh yes! The keys.Definitely send them back.

Gonegirl Sat 02-Mar-19 10:02:59

I certainly wouldn't photograph them. Don't do anything to get on the wrong side of them. I doubt that they are interested in you or your property so don't draw attention to yourselves. The whole lot should be boarded up though. I would get on to the local council.

DoraMarr Sat 02-Mar-19 09:59:40

I agree, send the keys back and say you want no further responsibility.

Mamissimo Sat 02-Mar-19 09:56:31

I think the owner is putting you under very unfair stress. I think I would tell him that his property is not your responsibility and send the keys back by signed for post.

Sending ? for being such a good neighbour!

DanniRae Sat 02-Mar-19 09:54:25

I agree with Humberbear.

Humbertbear Sat 02-Mar-19 09:49:48

I have a lot of sympathy for you but you have fulfilled your duty. You have informed both the police and the owner of the house. Your only concern now should be with your own property and safety.

ninathenana Sat 02-Mar-19 09:43:29

I didn't want to read and run. I'm sorry I have no advice but you have my sympathy. It's an awful situation.

chicken Sat 02-Mar-19 09:38:52

We (both ancient) live next door to a huge old house out in the countryside, It is due to be put up for sale but there are legal difficulties causing this to be delayed. The owner moved out over a year ago but left most of his possessions in the house. We hold the keys. Recently, intruders broke a window, got in and turned the place into even more of a tip than it was in the first place. The broken window was eventually boarded up . Within the past few days, there have been several more break ins and it's obvious that the place is being systematically robbed, A ladder has been brought in to access the attics, suitcases and trunks are now in the living rooms having been brought down from the (dangerously unstable) bedroom floor. We have called the police, having seen and photographed one group of these thieves leaving the property, but they weren't interested---just logged the information. Obviously we have phoned the owner who expresses concern, says he will come to inspect, but never turns up. We are very worried about it all , losing sleep and feeling very insecure. Thieves one day, probably squatters or the local hooligans to come as the word gets round. What can/should we do? I must add that although the house is only a few yards from ours, we can't see into it. To do this , we have to walk up a long drive, go along the road then down their overgrown driveway. OK, it's not our responsibility but it's really upsetting to know that these scumbags are there , just a few yards away, stealing at will.