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Meghan's Baby Shower.

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merlotgran Fri 22-Feb-19 13:05:25

The flowers from guests' bouquets and items from a 'flower arranging course' were reworked after the event by a firm that then passes them on to charity'.

I don't know what you think but having read details of the 'no expense spared' extravaganza, isn't this just a modern day version of 'crumbs from the rich man's table?'

I do think it's a good idea but I can't make up my mind about her motives. Showing off her vast wealth in the company of celebs like the Clooneys is not going to endear her to hard-up folk who normally turn out to support the Royals. Has nobody warned her it could all come crashing down?

hmm

Anniebach Fri 22-Feb-19 20:40:28

That’s the difference Jalima , the royals are wealthy but their private celebrations are private

Jalima1108 Fri 22-Feb-19 20:34:11

I think that the RF, although privately wealthy, do not flaunt their wealth.
Being ostentatious is not their style.

Telly Fri 22-Feb-19 20:18:38

She's rich. Her friends are rich. This type of event goes with her life style, surely she is entitled to some private life?

Sparklefizz Fri 22-Feb-19 18:15:20

Wasn't Princess Margaret a lover of the high life?

That was decades ago. I had hoped we'd moved on since then!

Jalima1108 Fri 22-Feb-19 18:13:42

Day6
I imagine Kate had baby showers.

Possibly not though; they are a very American thing and unfortunately has crept over to Australia too.

Do many British people go in for this kind of thing?

Beammeupscottie Fri 22-Feb-19 17:54:49

Apparently the flowers were pale pink and gold!
A little girl with golden hair! At some American Baby Showers they cut into a cake to reveal a pink or blue sponge inside. I don't think they did that. Meghan will never be a Windsor (too, too dull) so let her be a Celebrity, I say. Wasn't Princess Margaret a lover of the high life?

merlotgran Fri 22-Feb-19 17:50:47

I think Meghan is making it perfectly clear that the royal advisers can go hang because she's going to do what she wants regardless of how the public might react.

Nothing wrong with having a baby shower - even if Amal Clooney hogs the limelight by making sure everyone knows she paid for it. grin Donating flowers to charity rather than have them wasted is a lovely idea so why not do it in this country? It would have been a great chance to merge American excess with British restraint.

Self indulgence is a big mistake and hypocrisy an even bigger one.

BlueBelle Fri 22-Feb-19 17:48:18

I too think Baby showers are an awful import I m glad they weren’t around when I had babies and thankfully none of my children had them hopefully the grandkids won’t either

LullyDully Fri 22-Feb-19 17:40:21

Luckily no-one had to deliver the baby mid flight as happens in disaster movies. Now that would have been a story to tell.

EllanVannin Fri 22-Feb-19 17:14:51

ginny you can fly up to 37 weeks providing you're fit and healthy------but alas who's to know while sealed in pressure and at 35,000 feet ?

Sparklefizz Fri 22-Feb-19 17:13:48

One of Meghan's friends at the baby shower is quoted as saying this about the regifting of the flowers:

'It just speaks to who she is. She's kind, she's very generous. And a really, really sweet person.'

Now I am getting angry How can this be considered "kind" and "very generous"?

It's like that stupid writing on the bananas that was considered "empowering" for the sex workers who received them.

I'm speechless! (and that's unusual grin )

knickas63 Fri 22-Feb-19 16:53:34

All a bit over the top and showy for me. I have tried to give her the benefit of the doubt, as the press give her a hard time, but this hasn't helped her image. Although we do have Baby Showers over here, they seem to be far bigger in the states. Brits never like this sort of excess, especially in the current climate. Perhaps that is was held over the pond, rather than here.

ginny Fri 22-Feb-19 16:33:04

I’m just surprised that she is flying so late in her pregnancy.

Gonegirl Fri 22-Feb-19 16:23:50

I agree about the private plane though.

Gonegirl Fri 22-Feb-19 16:21:56

I think baby showers are lovely. A good girls' get-together of celebration and joy. What's not to like?

Sparklefizz Fri 22-Feb-19 16:21:33

I agree that it's good that the flowers were put to another use but this smacks of a poorly-thought-out PR job in the fact that this was photographed in great detail with the recipients (children who had cancer and adult men with learning and behavioural difficulties - all of whom looked bemused - after all, we know that those children will have said "No, I don't want any toys, I'd much rather have flowers" [I am joking, by the way grin ).

Why create all that publicity around the giving away of some flowers? We have all done this with flowers from our own celebrations or from funerals. It's no big deal.

And how hypocritical when one is supposed to be "saving the planet" to fly by private plane for a short stay. I am disappointed that Harry flew in a private plane to get home for Valentine's Day recently too. Kate and William have been photographed in the past on Easyjet.

Will Meghan have a complete new wardrobe for their trip to Morocco tomorrow?

I am totally disappointed in them. Sigh.

Gonegirl Fri 22-Feb-19 16:20:13

She can't just change from being the person she was, and is, to someone the British public feel is fitting to her present position, and why should she? She's got wealthy friends. Good for her.

EllanVannin Fri 22-Feb-19 16:06:23

I too think baby showers are ridiculous paddyann

Lily65 Fri 22-Feb-19 15:24:45

No, Eloethan because its all over the news. I'm sort of neutral on the RF.

I think out present queen is hard working and has some grip of what's what for non royals. I'm not too sure about some of the others.
I think M and her baby shower is in bad taste.

Eloethan Fri 22-Feb-19 15:19:49

I think it's a terrible extravagance but no worse than the profligate spending and heedless use of resources that the royal family engages in.

In my opinion, the monarchy is an outdated institution which enshrines the sort of values a forward-thinking country should be leaving behind - but why is everything this woman does picked to pieces? Because she is American? Because she is mixed race? Because she is not from an aristocratic background? What is it that so annoys some people?

Lily65 Fri 22-Feb-19 15:17:34

I think its so sad to be so wasteful.

paddyann Fri 22-Feb-19 15:13:59

I think the whole idea of baby showers is ridiculous.As someone who lost babies quite far on in pregnancy I can think of nothing worse than still having tons of stuff to come home to after a loss.Much more sensible to wait until it arrives and give gifts then

Maggiemaybe Fri 22-Feb-19 15:09:44

I'm puzzled by this. My invitation must have got lost in the post.

Anniebach Fri 22-Feb-19 15:03:15

Would a Hollywood actor and a civil rights lawyer have spent much time with a tv actress in Canada ?

EllanVannin Fri 22-Feb-19 14:50:52

Day6 I imagine that the Clooney's were still friends of Meghan's when she was in Suits. Actors/actresses seem to befriend their own types. I doubt that they've " suddenly " become friends.