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Panache Fri 22-Feb-19 12:17:15

Always a warm hearted and uplifting welcome awaits and whatever your difficulties, you leave fully enrapped in the warmth of Soop`s Kitchen with a smile and hope in your heart.

Urmstongran Thu 28-Feb-19 19:05:45

Thank you Maw and dragonfly
Who knew?

annodomini Thu 28-Feb-19 20:04:58

I'm pleased that Panache still has PIP as it is now because, as I understand it, she's better off with that as it has a mobility component which AA doesn't. Although it's about 8 years since I ceased to be a CAB adviser, I think it's still the case that although AA can be claimed after 65, if you're already on PIP, you don't need to transfer. Galen will correct me if I'm wide of the mark.
soop, thinking of you tomorrow and hope you see this before you turn in for the night.
Drizzly today. If it's going to rain, I want it to rain properly and then brighten up. Trying to up-root a couple of hellebores for a friend, was quite a task because the ground is so dry. However, I managed it. I have masses of hellebores which seem to love my garden and seed freely.

harrigran Thu 28-Feb-19 20:07:05

Best wishes to soop for tomorrow in case I don't manage online later.

Nannytopsy Thu 28-Feb-19 23:43:40

Congratulations GG on your happy news. Thinking of you and Mr P, Panache and all the best Soop. Thank you Kitty, I am amazed at how quickly this tooth is healing and the tinnitus has gone too! ?

Fennel Fri 01-Mar-19 11:51:55

Thinking of you soop, and Macsporran.
Safe journeys.

Galen Fri 01-Mar-19 11:55:44

Annod you are correct. If it was given as a life award it carries on. Although the DWP can and do, review at any time.
( they quite often revoke or alter it when they do, you then MUST APPEAL)

Panache Fri 01-Mar-19 13:20:31

“Dydd Gŵyl Dewi Hapus” to my many GN friends indeed yes the flags are flying high in Wales and there are celebrations galore for our St David`s Day.

The briefest of visits again but firstly wishing our dear Soop and stalwart, as well as dear Synonymous and your very gallant husband the very best on your very difficult missions.

I was awarded DLA for care & mobility at the highest rate as a lifetime award many moons ago;(Though some 12 years AFTER our sition had become deplorable,I was far too proud to go asking.......)) it then helped fill in the depleted savings pot and simply existing, because my husband was forced into early retirement at 55 and become my sole Carer.
He lost out of some 10 years at least of luctrative wages.
AA has often been mentioned in days passed but always bypassed.
I did reply to you earlier Kitty.......after you brought this up.

It is true Maw that we have both been far too independant and I have retained my dignity latterly rather than simply own up to how bad our situation has become.Whilst quite frankly up to latter years we were absorbed in helping and reaching out to others with life threatening disabilities, following on from my long stint in our Cancer Care Centre...........and our own situation sort of gradually worsened.
However thanks to you all for the chivvying up and pointing me.....an d us.....in the right direction, I am now going all out to get every sort of help available,whilst of course, with my own dear man truly struggling still, it is now a case of us both in need.

I can assure you Soop that positivity has been the name of the game since 1984, when this fiasco and broken health first reared its head.........I did sink deep when my dear husband........and sole Carer.......ended up with a Stroke,but I soon rallied and am fighting like a good `un for our survival!!!
Wishing you and.... all with a fight on their hands...... just the same strengths indeed.

Hospital appointment calls.............must dash.

Mamissimo Fri 01-Mar-19 18:11:53

While the kitchen has been so quiet this afternoon I’ve dusted and mopped, lit a fresh fire and plumped everyone’s cushions. Brownies and Baileys on the table and the teapot’s warming on the aga. Only thing missing is a purring ?.... help yourselves to some peace and comfort.

soop Fri 01-Mar-19 19:11:05

This is a flying vist for today. We well over three hours in the breast clinic. MRI showed shadowy grouping of cells between lump and nipple. I had ten more biopsies taken. Result is to be a mastectomy possibly week we return from family meet-up. Could have been Wed next! Totally confident of a successful outcome. All my jitters have disappeared. Now we are home and have a few things to attend to. Back again tomorrow for a more fulsome catch-up. Big hugs xxx

janeainsworth Fri 01-Mar-19 19:25:06

I’m glad you are feeling so positive Soop x

Bellanonna Fri 01-Mar-19 19:26:56

I echo Janea’s comment. X

Marelli Fri 01-Mar-19 19:28:49

Soop, you are a strong and very feisty lady. We’re all rooting for you. You know that, though. ???

Marydoll Fri 01-Mar-19 19:29:47

God bless Soop. I have been checking all afternoon to see if there was any news.

MawBroon Fri 01-Mar-19 19:30:16

Big but gentle hugs back to you Soop flowers

Alygran Fri 01-Mar-19 19:32:23

Soop pleased you are feeling so positive. Sending love and prayers for you. flowers

Urmstongran Fri 01-Mar-19 19:33:52

It’s grand soop to hear you’ve been reassured today. I’m glad you now have no jitters. You are inspirational.

Cherrytree59 Fri 01-Mar-19 19:43:16

My best wishes Soop.
Your positive outlook will hold you in good stead.
I wish you both a happy and joyful meet up with your family.
thistle thanks

Susan56 Fri 01-Mar-19 19:52:18

Glad the news sounds positive soop.Sending loving thoughts and prayers your way.?

Greyduster Fri 01-Mar-19 19:57:41

Very good to hear the medicos are positive about your treatment outcome, Soop. We all admire your equanimity, and will be thinking about you every step of the way.?? Xx

I have been a sluggard today. Mr SnotandWoe had a terrible night, so by lunchtime today I was weighed down by lack of sleep. I am ashamed to say I spent the entire afternoon reading a book while he went to get his head down. What is more, I rather enjoyed it! Tomorrow I am having a baking day, so I hope there will be something to contribute to the kitchen cake tin!

Nothing else to report. Have a pleasant evening, folks.

dragonfly46 Fri 01-Mar-19 20:01:30

So pleased to hear from you soop and to know you are so positive. You will crack this. Sending lots of love and support xx

Doodle Fri 01-Mar-19 20:12:00

soop you are amazing! What a positive approach. Hope all goes well. Rest tonight. You must be exhausted ?

Doodle Fri 01-Mar-19 20:13:43

Thank you mamissimo. Nice for soop and the rest of us to come into a cosy kitchen ?

annsixty Fri 01-Mar-19 20:28:34

soop flowers

kittylester Fri 01-Mar-19 20:31:25

What a clean and tidy kitchen, mamissimo. Thank you!

Thank you soop for the update and glad to hear that things are being treated quickly. Enjoy your trip to the Rutland - but please don't get too raucous.

Mamissimo Fri 01-Mar-19 20:36:13

Doodle I’m a doer and I’m rubbish at kind words! I’m the one who just does stuff but who thinks a lot! When I was really ill I couldn’t cope with kind words at all but I valued the thoughts and prayers of others beyond all. If we all play to our strengths we can be stronger together. Now pour me a large one please while I get a grip for soop and all others suffering buggerations! ?

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