Absolutely archetypal Aries here... married to a an archetypal Taurean. Oh how I know that feeling of trying to get him moving facter... hr's slow and methodical, a perfectionist.. someone who thinks things over before acting. Loves his home and surroundings , hates change, and very careful with money!!
Me OTOH, a fast paced, fast thinking, impatient, too honest for my own good, give someone my last penny , generous but easily angered by any kind of Lies, criticism or unfair treatment ... but any flashes of anger or arguments are over within minutes, so I hate that my taurean will hold a grudge for days!!