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A little achievement today.

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tanith Sun 27-Jan-19 10:09:17

Have to tell someone ? , I’ve never bothered figuring out how to use cruise control on my car, DH and I always shared the driving on long journeys and honestly I tried it once and it felt weird not to be in control. Anyway as I’m now having to drive myself I woke this morning the sun was shining so I thought today’s the day.
Jumped in my car and took myself onto the M25 and finally got the hang of it, and actually enjoyed it, also figured out why my phone wouldn’t connect itself to the car handsfree, I’d turned the Bluetooth off on my phone.

Really happy with myself and had to tell someone as if I mention these small accomplishments to my family I know they’ll pat me on the head and say well done dear and smile.?

kittylester Mon 28-Jan-19 06:40:13

I'm not sure that tanith's car took her anywhere. I think it is just the speed that it controls.

BradfordLass72 Mon 28-Jan-19 05:54:57

Gosh how brave of you tanith it sounds scary to me.
I don't think I could bring myself to sit back and let a car take me somewhere, much as I'd enjoy that. I take my hat off to you!!

tanith Sun 27-Jan-19 18:26:39

I’m happy some of you are inspired I think we women give up too easily when it comes to cars I know I did.

Grannynise ??

Grannynise Sun 27-Jan-19 18:21:39

I'm truly impressed Tanith. I don't have all those clever features on my car but I sometimes struggle to know whether I've got the headlights dipped or full beam. I might have to copy your idea of reading the manual.

Luckygirl Sun 27-Jan-19 18:17:12

Blimey - that is an achievement in my book!!!

My car just has wheels.

BlueSapphire Sun 27-Jan-19 18:15:26

Know what you mean Tanith, I had to tell all my family when I renewed my passport on line! Was so proud of myself!

sodapop Sun 27-Jan-19 17:01:30

Definitely well done Tanith as Alima said achieving all those three things is great. I must stop wimping out ( sorry pedants ) and sort out all the things I don't use on the car.
You have inspired me smile

kittylester Sun 27-Jan-19 16:57:58

Heated seats and steering wheel were among the first thing I worked out!! Baffkingly, the heated seats come back on if you restart the car but the steering wheel doesn't.

janeainsworth Sun 27-Jan-19 16:41:57

Well done tanith.
I don’t think our car has cruise control grin
But I ‘get’ the feeling of achievement - I feel like that when I’ve discovered a new trick on my iPhone grin

midgey Sun 27-Jan-19 16:29:30

Heated steering wheel? Oh what a complete joy that must be!

DanniRae Sun 27-Jan-19 14:59:41

I don't drive but my moment of triumph was working out how to reread a book on my Kindle! It took quite a few attempts but I did it. grin

tanith Sun 27-Jan-19 14:10:44

So I now know how to turn the fog lights on, sounds rediculous as I’ve had the car 4 yrs but I don’t remember having to drive in the fog I think OH must of driven in those circumstance.
The satnav does need investigating too, I can do the basics and but I’ve yet to be able to see my destination, yes Auntieflo I have just glance at it very quickly as it can be distracting.

Auntieflo Sun 27-Jan-19 13:27:07

Tanith well done, and you certainly deserve a pat on the back, if not on the head, from family.
We haven’t got cruise control on our elderly lady, just my right foot!
DH uses a sat nav, and I sit and listen to her, when she condescends to work, but I have never used/ programmed her myself. Does anyone else find it a bit distracting, having the screen and the road maps in front of you?

mumofmadboys Sun 27-Jan-19 12:56:18

I like cruise control on long journeys as it stops your right foot getting stiff or going into cramp!

Jessity Sun 27-Jan-19 12:56:06

Well done tanith. You’ve inspired me to look again at cruise control, I’m the only driver now thanks to DH’s sight loss. My latest discovery is that my phone contacts are actually there on the car screen. Who knew! One day I’ll use them. Or not.

tanith Sun 27-Jan-19 12:48:48

Well done Beechnut I’ve looked half a dozen times for my fog lights I think it’s time for google or my handbook lol.

Thank you Alima I appreciate your thoughts.

Alima Sun 27-Jan-19 11:58:00

Really admire what you have achieved! The Bluetooth, cruise control and the M25. Respect!

Beechnut Sun 27-Jan-19 11:44:40

I had a look for fog lights a while ago tanith. My car achievement this week was the heated steering wheel switch.

tanith Sun 27-Jan-19 10:47:23

Now I just need to find how to switch on the fog lights ???

Mapleleaf Sun 27-Jan-19 10:45:00

Well done, Tanith! ?

tanith Sun 27-Jan-19 10:43:53

Thanks everyone I knew you would appreciate how hard these small things seem when there is no one holding your hand anymore although I feel DH was right there willing me to get the hang of it and cheering me on I know he would want me to carry on carrying on. ?

kittylester I thought it was so much more complicated than it was once I’d turned it on set the speed that was all there was to it. I’d assumed I’d have to disengage to change lanes etc but it wasn’t so and if I needed to speed up I could just press resume and it went back to the previous set speed. I cruised for a good 45 mins with it on and it was just very simple don’t know what I was so worried about.

Culag I feel the same as you I’ve struggled with simple things since DH died recently but like you I’m slowly getting there.

Thanks everyone.

megan123 Sun 27-Jan-19 10:39:24

Well done Tanith

GrannyGravy13 Sun 27-Jan-19 10:35:58

Well done tanith ????

DoraMarr Sun 27-Jan-19 10:33:13

Well done, that has inspired me to work out how to use the cruise control on my car too. It’s amazing what we can do when we have to, and I know how hard it is to suddenly have to work out all those little things someone sle has been doing. You have a right to feel proud of yourself. flowers
My mother was widowed at 85. She never drove, leaving that to my dad, and in fact was known to drop off to sleep as soon as she was settled in the passenger seat. After he died she took some refresher driving lessons, bought herself a small, easy to park car, and now drives herself to U3A meetings, church, various committees etc.

Day6 Sun 27-Jan-19 10:27:06

Well done Tanith! Enjoy the glow of success.

I felt mightily pleased with myself when I sorted out the sat-nav. It had delighted in taking me the long and scenic route to every single place I wanted to visit. Being a huge fan of maps I tended to ignore it and do my own thing. (I love my maps. I like to know where I am in relation to other towns, villages, cities etc. It helps when all you have to guide you is a road sign.)

My sat nav now does my bidding as I have altered its settings. (cough) I think I secretly enjoyed it blowing its top and screaming "Recalculate, recalculate!" rather like a Dalek when I ignored it's instructions before. grin