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soop Sun 20-Jan-19 11:31:49

Here we are again. Happy as can be. All good friends and jolly good company.

WELCOME!

MawBroon Tue 29-Jan-19 18:11:46

Shoulder hurting so not typing too much but I didn’t want you to think I am not caring, so love and positive vibes to you all - and a safe journey for Soop and MacSporran
I too know how knackering these medical appointments can be especially with all the travelling and particularly in winter -so, haste ye back!

NanaandGrampy Tue 29-Jan-19 17:18:36

Afternoon all !

Sorry to hear about all the health issues Soop hopefully they can get it all sorted but if your hospital gave loyalty points you'd be on a winner ;-)

I love your sense of humour kitcheners- they need you lot to create a comedy for the TV !!

Eilyann , I like the afternoon tea , experience type voucher thing. Ideal when they don't need 'stuff' !

Mim is a cutie mamissimo !!

We have done our shopping and we're all ready for whatever the weather might throw at us.

I have added a picture of a letter I received this morning from my naughty boy Cooper aged 4. To celebrate his recent certificate we sent him some modelling clay which is his current favourite thing and according to his Mummy when he got it he thought he should write a thank you letter. I had a proper chuckle over his letter , ( he spelt it all himself ) and I shall be writing Facq u instead of thank you on all correspondence from here on in!! ( Especially as Grampy upon reading it said.....WHAT is that??? LOL

soop Tue 29-Jan-19 16:28:37

Izabella Is it any wonder that ward was eerily quiet when you peered around the door? The tykes...they are taking advantage of your good nature. Chanel No 5!!! That can't be right. Carbolic soap is more in keeping. Both you and Matron are duty bound to give that lot a good talking to. Check under the duvets. You never know what 'anky panky is going on right under your nose. Early night is a must. Lights out at 16:00 hours.

Ann That's cats for you. They have their own agenda. Never as much as a mew of an apology. wink

eilyann I also think that a special, unusual photo frame would be welcome. It's a tough ask when both parties have almost definitely accumulated all that they need.

MacSporran is at the surgery having the second injection. We will need to make a prompt getaway for Oban appointments in the morning. I shall do my best to update you when we return. It would be grand if the weather decided not to be too wintery.

Love to you all. Stay safe and keep warm. smile moon

Greyduster Tue 29-Jan-19 16:21:02

Damn! I don’t need the pliers then!?

Charleygirl5 Tue 29-Jan-19 16:02:43

GreyDuster I only discovered 2 beds had not been slept in because the sheets were in pristine condition so no way were they attached and hanging out of the window.

dragonfly was your OH checked out properly? It could well have been his bed which was not slept in. It does not explain the other empty bed.

We on GN I think are keeping many staff in local hospitals and also hospitals a distance away in gainful employment. I have 3 on my personal list.

soop I agree, you are so lucky with a GP who is on the ball. I do hope that the weather is okay when you make the trip tomorrow. The last thing you want is snow.

Nannytopsy Tue 29-Jan-19 15:57:30

Eilyann I too thought of a photo frame or a voucher for afternoon tea.
Toothache ? so dentist first thing tomorrow. I think it’s an infection under an old root filling. I feel this could get expensive!
Good luck tomorrow Soop. I hope the roads are OK for you. Your photo was beautiful.
Mim looks a dear!

dragonfly46 Tue 29-Jan-19 15:41:08

A beautiful view Soop. What a wonderful GP you have - I do hope they can sort Macsporran out. I hope your trip to Oban is easy. We were up there in September for a wedding at Achnacloich. It was so beautiful up there.

Gorgeous little girl Mamissimo.

I am pleased I removed DH from the men's ward, I am not sure how I would feel if he was subjected to a young girl wearing red kitten heeled shoes and wearing Chanel! It might all be too much for him!

Twin2 Tue 29-Jan-19 15:16:24

Eilyann how about:-
a photo frame for a picture from the wedding
A rose bush or planted bowl
A hand embroidered card which could be framed after
A hand written poem

Take care everyone friend just called in ?

Bellanonna Tue 29-Jan-19 15:13:28

Soop I must have missed some of your earlier posts. I am so sorry that you are faced with this possible health problem although you appear to be facing it with your usual stoicism. The kitchen dynamics have changed a lot in recent years and it’s sometimes difficult to keep up with news. You also have the added worry about MacSporran so there’s a lot going on.
That is a beautiful view from your window. I can just imagine looking out at that every day along with those incredible sunsets. I’m sure your view brings you both a lot of joy.
Grey I think that’s so sweet that your husband checked the bird bath temperature, bit like a baby’s bath!
eilyann I can understand how the newlyweds probably don’t need anything as they will have all they need between them. NT membership if they don’t have it already? Magazine subscription? Theatre or concert tickets depending on where they live? A weekend somewhere? I hope you find something for them.

eilyann Tue 29-Jan-19 14:55:33

And to all other kitcheners facing buggerations! flowers

annsixty Tue 29-Jan-19 14:54:08

Oh dear soop your problems are just multiplying, I feel so frustrated for you.
These hospital visits are getting routine.
Synonymous your DH is also coping with far more than he should in a fair world.
My most troubling thing today is so minor I feel ashames to mention it( but I will).
Molly jumped up onto the raised hearth and brought a vase of pink oriental lilies down all over the carpet, one area is soaked, I have it covered with towels, partly to keep me from stepping on it and partly to soak up as much water as possible.
She was not one bit sorry, just strolled away looking totally unconcerned.

eilyann Tue 29-Jan-19 14:52:07

Sorry Soop missed your post. Will be saying a little prayer for you andMacs Thank goodness you have a GP who seems to be on the ball. Safe journey tomorrow. flowers

Izabella Tue 29-Jan-19 14:49:47

Oh dear, so many buggerations again in the kitchen. My complex and long dental history mean I have the utmost sympathy with anyone in pain, awaiting treatment and so on. Also my heartfelt sympathy for other kitcheners and their varied and distressing situations/waiting for results/bereavements/bad backs/hospital and so on. Testing times for all. It certainly makes a poorly hand seem of minimal importance. However the sling is now off so I went into the poorly wing earlier to assess the situation.

Eerily quiet and everyone very attentive and polite. So my suspicions were raised immediately. I had to attend to some urgent paperwork regarding funding issues so was busy for an hour or so in the office. Also reading the reports from Charleygirl (excellent staff we have) and filing some blood reports. HOWEVER on re-entering the main ward I noted the following. A strong suspicion of Chanel No.5 hanging in the air and a pair of red leather shoes with kitten heels stuffed into someones locker (for reasons of patient confidentiality I cannot say whose at the moment.) I have absolutely no doubt that the shoes will not fit any of the present ne'rdowells patients. I have requested security camera footage from the relevant department and will report back. If any other staff members are aware of anything untoward please let me know as this is a SERIOUS INGRINGEMENT OF THE RULES and may result in compulsory closure.

eilyann Tue 29-Jan-19 14:16:17

Suggestions please. DH's brother (widower 75) is marrying lovely lady (widow 74) in June. They don't want gifts but we would like to give them a memento of some kind. Would be grateful for any ideas.

soop Tue 29-Jan-19 14:12:10

The view through the window...

soop Tue 29-Jan-19 14:09:34

Charleyg It states clearly on the rules for occupants of the not-too-poorly ward NO rumpy pumpy!!! The very idea of it makes me shudder. wink

We have snow. I shall share today's photo through the window with you.

As we were preparing our meal late yesterday afternoon, a phone call from the surgery was for MacSporran He was needing to go directly to see the GP. His legs have been swollen since that awful rogue rash (which is almost gone). GP took more bloods and gave him an injection to counteract thrombosis. He needs to return this afternoon for a second injection. The hospital rang a short time ago. Would he attend Oban hospital late morning for a scan to see if there are any clots. Then, two hours plus later, at the same hospital, he attends the haematology wing for further consultations regarding the lymphoma. A busy day awaits us tomorrow. An early start and a tricky drive to Oban. All in a good cause.

Greyduster Tue 29-Jan-19 13:04:45

Hello the kitchen. We were caught on the hop having a crafty lie in this morning when the window cleaner put his ladder against the bedroom window! blush Since the Christmas/NY holiday his visits are completely out of synch, added to which he doesn’t usually come so early! Sooner him than me - it is freezing out there!

Charley have you checked the windows for knotted sheets? It may be a breakout! Someone will know and is not talking. I may have to come and threaten to pull a few fingernails out! Pliers please......

NannyTopsy what an absolute charmer. He looks so calm, and I love his haircut! My GS likes the swept over look too! Wait till he is asking for hair gel!

Mammissimo, Mim is just lovely and I wouldn’t worry about her having no teeth yet. They should be all the stronger when they do come through. And it certainly doesn’t spoil her smile.

Soop I am sorry to hear that buggerations are still being heaped upon you. I hope you get a swift assessment of your lump. I will keep everything crossed for you.

We are expecting snow sometime today, but forecasts differ as to how much and when. It is the same weather - why can you never get the same forecast? We have stocked up on bird food and de-iced the bird bath this morning. DH went out and tested it with his elbow to make sure it wasn’t too cold for them......?! They have been queueing up to get in there, so can’t be finding much at the moment.

I had better get on. I will look in later.

soop Tue 29-Jan-19 12:32:58

Mamissimo...Oh that gorgeous wee girl. What a little charmer. She is delightful. smile

Nannytopsy That garage door will still be there when the better weather arrives. Stay put! Stay warm!

Synonymous I totally understand why your husband wishes to "keep going". His positivity is a bonus. Yet, he also needs to recognise that he should not wear himself to a frazzle. Keep a sideways beady eye on him. wink

Charleygirl5 Tue 29-Jan-19 10:55:05

oh yes, I could not agree more- what a lovely smile.

Synonymous I would put money on it that a few days in the wing and Mr. S would be more than happy to sit in your home with feet elevated, logs and wood burning stoves very far from his mind.

May I say that judging from the state of a couple of the beds a couple have not been slept in. Where are they going? Lady friends are not allowed to visit beyond 21.00 hours.

Bellanonna Tue 29-Jan-19 10:44:22

Mamissimo, she’s just gorgeous. ?

Mamissimo Tue 29-Jan-19 09:28:08

Good Morning to the kitchen....I crawled in during the night to sleep in the soothing comfort of the conservatory when DH’s snoring and snorting was making me murderous!

For those of us with dental buggerations I have just received an indication of divine retribution....a text messsge telling me that my dentist can’t see me today because he has flu. The receptionist thinks he may be better in a few days but I think I’m off the hook for a couple of weeks ?

My GD, Mim, has no teeth at 10 months - I kind of envy her! As you haven’t met her before I’ve added a photo.

I’ve tidied up a bit and popped some ? into a jug to cheer everyone up. I hope you all have a little bit of light and warmth in the struggles today.

dragonfly46 Tue 29-Jan-19 07:09:23

synonymous flowers

Nannytopsy Tue 29-Jan-19 00:10:34

I keep telling myself that after this snowiness (is that a word?) we shall start to get some better weather. I have a garage door to rub down and paint! By then I hope the teeth and backs and lumps and bumps have been attended to and are responding to treatment. thanks to all x

Synonymous Mon 28-Jan-19 23:19:37

soop love x and flowers and keeping you (both) very much in our thoughts and prayers. I hope that all goes better than you could ever have dreamed possible. Really glad you travelled in the best of the weather, they tell us it is going to be bad and so I am hoping our hospital trip on Wednesday afternoon will be ok weather wise too.
DH hasn't really been Himself for a little while and I thought he was going to collapse in Chrch on Sunday, good job we have a plethora of medics in the congregation! His emotions are also swinging from one side to the other which isn't surprising really. He isn't exactly being kind to himself either as our gardening friend brought us a big trailer load of huge logs/chunks of trees so Himself has been in the garage using the log splitter, then limping round to the wood shed pushing barrow loads of logs and stacking them in there to finish drying them off for next winter. He can't do it for long and has to keep resting and I dare not even look sideways with any degree of concern. Our friend would do it for us but Himself just says he wants to do it while he can. Makes me realise what is going on in his head and just so sad for him but that sheer determination is what will get him through everything that is to come so I am not knocking it. I just wish I could help him, I am just keeping it zipped atm which seems best.
I do enjoy the goings on in the wing for poorly menfolk! If I could I would kidnap Himself and stick him in his jolly old barrow and trundle him round - that would teach him! grin

I do feel for you poorly bunnies with ouchy tooth problems as it is the sort of pain you can't even get to so that you can give it a wee cuddle. Hope you find some relief or at least a dram or two so that you no longer care as much. confused wine

So lovely to see the pictures of all the little ones with such lovely smiley faces. The sunset photo soop was gorgeous, we had beautiful skies too.

Today has been so beautiful and sunny and I hope that it won't be too long before the expected snow and ice has come and gone and the sun is back again. Just stay warm and keep safe dear kitcheners! smile

cornergran Mon 28-Jan-19 20:24:50

Pleased you returned safely soop, it sounds as if you found the NHS at its best today. Rest well. You deserve it.

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