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soop Sun 20-Jan-19 11:31:49

Here we are again. Happy as can be. All good friends and jolly good company.

WELCOME!

annsixty Tue 12-Feb-19 13:20:31

The vet rang at 10.30am to say Molly was fine and already awake.
I could pick her up earlier but the care home have rung to say my H has had another fall, he is ok but I am going shortly to check for myself.

Greyduster Tue 12-Feb-19 13:04:04

Hello the kitchen! My, my, we are fairly galloping along in here!
Gq I am fascinated by the photography sphere! Is it the same as a fish eye lens? I was trying to take ‘candid’ photos of small boys and guinea pigs yesterday and they were hopeless. It doesn’t help if the guinea is the same colour as the small boy’s sweater, mind!

Ann we had two cats spayed and one neutered (why does that still send shivers through me?). Molly will be sore for a bit, but she will be over it in no time, and it will be one less worry for you if it keeps the bully boy away (unless it’s not that that is on his mind!).

N&G I would send you my list, but it would be exactly the same as the boys’, so I will just say “double up on everything and I’ll be down next week to claim my share!”?

Synonymous I send you and your husband every good wish with his forthcoming medical appointments. He will be in good hands I’m sure.

We have started up our weekly swimming regime again. DH needs to strengthen his ailing back muscles and I cannot get into any of my good trousersblush so need to shed some weight. I’m hoping exercise and a watercress diet will do the trick ?. When we came out to the car park, DH said “I’m just going to nip into the village.” Now, this is Mr Duster speak for “I am going to the bakery where I will buy custard slices and other sticky goodies that my wife says I should not be eating!” Sure enough....... but he is learning; he didn’t bring me anything! One of us has to be good!
I will look in later.

soop Tue 12-Feb-19 12:50:05

N&G You gotta love those boys. I know that I do. grin
My list...bread and butter pud with really thick, proper custard. Boozy sherry trifle. Macaroons and sticky date flapjacks. Okay? And some of that Cranachan as mentioned by mumofmadboys. Thank you.

granniequeenie I want one of those thingymajigs. Please.

EllanV Get thee to a GP for a proper MOT. That's an order. wink

Synonymous Tue 12-Feb-19 11:56:37

Ellan you might be helped by a very noisy tablet dispenser like the one Himself has. You can not ignore it because it will not stop until you take the meds! grin

EllanVannin Tue 12-Feb-19 09:51:21

Doodle, I'm only surmising that the nausea is connected to kidneys but have also toyed with the idea that it could be anxiety related. The reason being is that I keep and have kept a lot of problems inside due to my " stiff upper-lip " background both at home and also with my job in the NHS where strength of character is/was necessary.

Consequently I've been like this all my life but never suffered nausea or real illness. I can't even blame the medication I take because I've taken it for years without any such problem. I did have a TIA appx 18 months ago, though hadn't realised until I visited the GP 12 months ago with a balance problem, when she'd told me that a CT scan that I'd had in November 2017 showed slight damage.

I suppose because I have warfarin and statins would have been the reason that I hadn't realised about the mini-stroke which saved me from long lasting damage.
No treatment was necessary just a stick if necessary----it wasn't, because I battled on and it righted itself.

I would say that it was possibly around that time that the nausea kicked in. Strangely enough I was given anti-sickness medication from the hospital when I had the scan but didn't take it at the time-------I've actually just remembered that, so yes, perhaps a trip to the GP for some of those. I can but try but I'm a bit hopeless at taking medication though if it's going to help I'd be silly not to try.

Bellanonna Tue 12-Feb-19 09:30:07

Ah, I wish you both well Ann! ?

annsixty Tue 12-Feb-19 09:28:14

I also hope things are improving for the Panaches.
I havejust dropped Molly at the vet's, I don't know who felt worse, probably me.
They will ring me when she has had it done, she is the only one today and I can pick her up at 4pm.

Bellanonna Tue 12-Feb-19 09:20:16

I don’t know if anyone’s heard from Panache? I suspect they are being temporarily cared for away from home. They really were at the end of their tether. I’m sure it’s thanks to other GNs that the long overdue ball finally started rolling.

Nannytopsy Tue 12-Feb-19 07:45:32

Galen you are another one that I would rather feed for a week than a fortnight! I am with you apart from the caviar.

mumofmadboys Tue 12-Feb-19 00:00:29

It is called Cranachan.

Galen Mon 11-Feb-19 22:43:57

Ooh! Mine is
Lobster Thermidor
Caviar (lashings of it )
That great Scottish desert made with raspberries, whisky, toasted oats and cream (?crannach)
Good champagne.
I’m very easy to please!?

Charleygirl5 Mon 11-Feb-19 22:33:36

N&G reading Jackson and Cooper's extensive lists I do not think there will be space for even one meal a day never mind three!

Maybe you should be making dental appointments now- at least you will not have to pay anything!

Could I send my list in please? Cherries, grapes, grapefruit, tangerines, kale, sweetcorn, carrots, smoked salmon, haddock, prawns maybe for starters? I will bring Tara's because hers is prescription food. Sam would not say no to extra cuddles and walks.

grannyqueenie Mon 11-Feb-19 22:20:53

Evening all! As always there’s so much going on here, I really don’t stand a chance of catching up.
Sounds like a good decision Ann
No pressure there then, n&g, my mum used to say about ours when we visited “I’d rather keep those children for a week as a fortnight!”
Synonymous I hope your family visitors arrive just when they’re needed most, you will appreciare their care I’m sure. You must be relieved that things seem to be moving ahead at last for your dh’s op.
I had a day to myself today so took myself off to experiment with my Christmas present from dd2 - a glass photography sphere. It’s amazing how much a familiar view changes when it’s viewed with a new perspective. Hmm, maybe theres a “life lesson” there!
Wishing you all a refreshing nights sleep, especially those with worries and sore hearts. x

annodomini Mon 11-Feb-19 18:08:54

Ann. I hope Molly won't hold it against you! I expect you will have to keep her housebound for a few days after the op while she is feeling a bit delicate. Good luck with that!

NanaandGrampy Mon 11-Feb-19 17:41:34

Evening all !

Oh no Nannytopsy I feel your pain. I am prevaricating about making the necessary apt now Ive had my check up but I will have to do it....just not today :-)

That's very worrying Dragonfly I hope he is found safe and well.

Sorry to hear your photo shoot was delayed. I had one the year before last- best present ever ! Hope you can reschedule it kitty .

Sorry to hear about the never ending nausea Ellen I am lucky I'm pretty symptomless . I'm sure you have tried everything but what about a natural remedy- or homeopathic? Believe it or someone I know had pretty good results with the seasick bands you wear- something to do with acupressure points.

Glad to hear things are moving forward Synonymous .

We have visitors from this Thursday in 3 lots and I got a text from young Jackson this morning with the list for his and Coopers 4 day stay...…

He would like cola chewits, rich tea biscuits, rich tea biscuits with chocolate on the bottom and mint ice-cream. Cooper would like big jammie dodgers, ice lollies on a stick and gummy worms and gunny bears !

ALSO they would both like Doritos , strawberries, purple grapes ( not too big ones) blueberries and watermelon !!

That's in addition to three meals a day. I love these boys but thank god they don't live with us - I cant afford to keep them lol

Thanks for the cake ladies ….. pass me a chunk !

soop Mon 11-Feb-19 17:22:43

I have gifts to wrap. I shall therefore say goodnight, and will do my best to return tomorrow after the care home visit.
smile moon

Doodle Mon 11-Feb-19 17:20:12

ellan I believe there are many people diagnosed with CKD stage 3 as it is common with people suffering from diabetes, stroke and heart problems. I don’t wish to question (you know your own health better then anyone) but are you sure your nausea is linked to this? I have friends with CKD stage 3 and none of them seem to have this trouble. I am so sorry for you, constant nausea is such a debilitating thing to suffer from. Please see your GP and find out if there is anything you can take.

synonymous do hope things move ahead quickly for your DH. Waiting is often the worst bit. Hope your DS and DD will be there to help.

soop Mon 11-Feb-19 16:37:29

ann Molly will recover quickly from her op. We had three feral she cats spayed. They were returned after staying a few days with a kindly volunteer of the Cats Protection League. They were returned to our back garden, the cages placed against the fence leading into the forest, and they dashed through "their" opening and disappeared into the forest. Rory, on the other hand, was a right pain in the butt. That's some chaps for you. wink

Bully cats can be a nightmare. They are always bigger and bolshier than the cat they "pick on".

Synonymous Thank you for your interesting post. I am also pleased to hear that everything is now on track. You've been through a very trying time. All good wishes to you and I'm also pleased that you will have support from your lovely family.

Charleyg I am trusting that you are recouperating. That lot in the ward for not-so-sickly chaps are bound to be up to no good. It seems far too quiet for my liking.

Charleygirl5 Mon 11-Feb-19 14:38:41

dragonfly I am not too sure if the bully boy will lose interest once Molly has been spayed. The male cat who makes Tara's life a misery I think is only spoiling for a fight with a cat smaller than he is and that is most.

That was a good move ann.

dragonfly46 Mon 11-Feb-19 13:43:59

synonymous I am so pleased things are now moving along. As you say the waiting is the worst. It is much better when you know what you have to deal with and begin to move forward again. So lovely your DS and DD will be around.

I am sorry Ann you have to battle with SS - not a pleasant task. I have just received a letter from the tax office re my mum's tax. She has never paid tax but now my father has died and she has some of his pension apparently she owes them money. It seems so unnecessary when she is already paying extortionate fees in the care home and she is 98.

Good idea getting Molly spayed - the bully cat may lose interest.

annsixty Mon 11-Feb-19 12:36:47

After the episode with the "other "cat, I have just spoken to the vet and Molly is being spayed tomorrow.

soop Mon 11-Feb-19 12:03:13

Good morning to our amazing Granspals. I am in awe of the positive attitude that oozes from every pore. Well done, you lot, we are here for each other...through celebratory times and the testing times that can knock the wind from our sails. So to speak! hmm You know what I mean. grin

Loving vibes from the West Coast of Scotland to all points on the compass.

annsixty Mon 11-Feb-19 11:13:10

Synonymous I am so pleased to read that things are finally happening quickly for your DH.
You have a long haul ahead of you and the sooner the journey is started the better.
I send very best wishes to him.

Ellan I think nausea is one of the very worst feelings, I suffered it through my second pregnancy but at least there was end to it and a happy one.

To all others not feeling well or otherwise troubled I send you best wishes. It is a beautiful day here and I am feeling slightly brighter myself, a lot of wishing things were different
all weekend but knowing they will never be and trying to come to terms with it all.
Lots of sadness and feeling low but I will come out of it I know.
Battling with SS and Finance dept about top up fees is not helping.

Synonymous Mon 11-Feb-19 10:50:04

Good morning the kitchen! Such a lot going on in here that I know I will never manage to catch up! (((hugs))) and flowers to all those who are needing them to help cope with all your happenings! X Isn't it amazing how we all manage to work our way through everything and how, providentially, help comes at just the right time - thank God!

We had a blank calendar this time last week (as we do at present for this week hmm) but we have had so much happening. We have had so many visitors and we have all talked our heads off! We had a phone call from the hospital as they had a cancellation so we were able to get the vascular scan done and now there is just the MRI to be done before Himself's pre op assessment. Since the xrays it has now been classed as urgent which I had thought it already was but clearly the penny has dropped somewhere. confused So grateful to be given the cancellation anyway and the ladies in the vascular laboratory were very nice, interestingly they are scientists and are not 'medical' staff. Amazing machines and extraordinary noises, Himself got the giggles at the weird noises his body seemed to be producing and it was so good to hear him laugh. I think the op has to be carried out within a 3 week time frame of the pre-assessment so I am praying that it will be soon, the waiting is almost the worst part isn't it!
DD is coming for her half term and DS phoned to say he will be coming across at the beginning of next month so we are thrilled at that and I really hope that DS will be here around the time of Himself's op as that would be such a blessing. They are both so kind and caring and we are both really looking forward to them being with us, joy days indeed!
We were invited out for lunch and tea yesterday and had a really enjoyable day - much to Smokey's disgust. He had to have triple play time to make up for being left on his own for such a long time. He was jumping so high he could be an Olympian!
The sunshine on the red stems of the bushes and trees this morning is quite spectacular, just wish I could get out to photograph it to show you. Your photographs are all so lovely - thank you one and all! smile
soop I can't get over how much ironing you do! I have some ironing to do today so am planning to watch a film so I won't know I am doing it! grin
Must get cracking or my lovely cleaning lady will be here before I have got going at all today and that will not do at all.

GrannyGravy13 Mon 11-Feb-19 10:00:22

Ellan, pop to your GP there are several medications available for nausea which can be used long term ?

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