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Esspee Mon 31-Dec-18 16:02:20

When I was engaged to my late husband our neighbours asked my parents if my fiance could first foot them. My parents had a list of requests and future husband was sent round the doors clutching a bottle of Whisky, cake, and coal.
Poor darling hadn't a clue.
My father took him to each door, instructing him on what was expected. He had the most tremendous welcome and forged long term friendships.
Just shows you what being tall and black in Scotland was like in the 70s. grin

Teetime Mon 31-Dec-18 15:12:22

My father was very dark and so was asked to first foot all the neighbours...once we moved out of the East End to Essex that all stopped.

Marydoll Mon 31-Dec-18 15:01:47

We are going first footing with our neighbours tonight, as we have done for the last twenty five years.
I have to go in last, as I have red hair! grin

sodapop Mon 31-Dec-18 14:55:36

That's what I remember too PECS another old tradition has almost died out now.

PECS Mon 31-Dec-18 14:31:40

We always sent someone outside just before midnight with a piece of coal for warmth, bread for food and a shiny coin for good fortune. If the first person in the house was carrying these it ensured a good new year!

Esspee Mon 31-Dec-18 14:28:50

Sorry about the extra alive. smile

Esspee Mon 31-Dec-18 14:27:31

In Lidl today I noticed you were invited to take some coal. (Bags and coal provided free) and I thought what a lovely gesture.
In the past when first footing was the norm everyone would have had access to coal. By doing this they are keeping alive a Scottish tradition alive.
Well done Lidl. Lang may yer lum reek!

aggie Mon 31-Dec-18 14:21:32

the sing and dance thing was Halloween with us

aggie Mon 31-Dec-18 14:20:48

It was an adult thing as far as I remember ,
first foot was the first person over the doorstep after midnight , had to be dark haired and bearing gifts of bread/cake , coal , and alcohol , bread was put on the table , coal on the fire and booze was drunk .
If one was male and dark it involved a lot of visiting and drinking wink

Charleygirl5 Mon 31-Dec-18 14:11:58

I only did it as a child obviously living at home with my parents and going out with my friends locally. We had to sing and/or dance- in my case dance before we were given orange juice or whatever. We knew everybody so there were no security issues in those days.

I have never done it as an adult in Scotland and certainly not in London.

Teetime Mon 31-Dec-18 14:02:10

Does anyone do this now - anyone in your house planning to do this tonight? DH and I discussed that we both grew up with this tradition when we lived in London but here in the east Midlands it doesn't seem to happen- seems like quite a nice tradition - we might revive it but tomorrow morning we shall be tucked up at midnight.