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The Minister for Loneliness shares her thoughts.....

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sunseeker Sun 30-Dec-18 09:50:43

What about those of us who don't have family? I find most people don't want to have to rely on their families for help and company, why are there not more daytime clubs and activities for older people. There may be things in cities but not if you live in a rural area.

Jane10 Sun 30-Dec-18 09:50:04

Fair enough Maggiemaybe. Good points.

Charleygirl5 Sun 30-Dec-18 09:48:58

I do not have any family- who should I go on holiday with?!!!

Maggiemaybe Sun 30-Dec-18 09:47:33

It’s probably more to do with how her ideas have been reported/headlined. Yes, it’s patronising to imply that all grandparents should be carted round with their families (whether they want to go or not, seems to be the sub-text smile), but this was only a small part of the whole.

Had the article been slanted more towards the need to consider and include isolated and lonely older people (and there are plenty of them, some of the GN forums testify to that), which is what she’s advocating, it would have come over differently.

The Minister is an ex-carer, she will “have a clue”, and she’ll have seen a lot of loneliness and family neglect.

grannydee123 Sun 30-Dec-18 09:40:18

Why would I want to b with family who only invite me because the government tell them too - how depressing?

EllanVannin Sun 30-Dec-18 09:19:03

These people definitely live on different planets ! They haven't got a clue so should keep their mouths shut until they can say something worthwhile.

I don't know what these so-called ministers get paid for at all because none of them can get their positions right.

dragonfly46 Sun 30-Dec-18 09:07:11

I find it exhausting going on holiday with the AC and GC!

Iam64 Sun 30-Dec-18 09:02:27

Very patronising, unhelpful and I'm tempted to grumble about the money being spent on that, rather than on decent public services.

kittylester Sun 30-Dec-18 08:57:08

Quite! On both counts. Very patronising.

I don't actually want to go on holiday with my children and grandchildren but I would love the Panaches to be cared for properly.

Mamissimo Sun 30-Dec-18 08:53:31

Mims Davies heads the Commission for Tackling Loneliness and today suggests that Grandparents should be taken on family holidays “like Europeans do”.

She also suggests ways younger people can help the elderly. I’m a bit surprised by the patronising tone of the piece and think that maybe we should give her our ideas for cutting isolation.

With everything that’s NOT being done to provide basic help to the Panaches I think her priorities need shifting!

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-46713493