EllanVannin, I think originally the mother WAS going, and originally Kate and William WERE going to stay with the Middletons. And Harry WASN'T going to shoot. But I think someone in the royal firm was so determined to prove the rumours of a rift wrong, that they completely overruled all the plans, and then Doria didn't fit in any more. The thing is, it was a total waste since the body language just wasn't convincing. Also it simply isn't important to force Meghan and Kate to get on. a) it's not relevant to the monarchy or the constitution, and b) who cares if they like each other? It only affects them, no one else.