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mcem Mon 15-Oct-18 08:57:39

Anyone ready to start knitting royal baby jackets?

Rufus2 Tue 16-Oct-18 14:05:41

we don’t know exactly what was said
Mapleleaf: I'm studying lip-reading and Harry was saying "thank goodness we've got away from that b....y English weather" grin

Mapleleaf Tue 16-Oct-18 13:35:30

I agree with all you say, eazybee. It’s so easy to make assumptions from our armchairs, isn’t it. As none of us were there, we don’t know exactly what was said and when it was said. Let them be.

Anniebach Tue 16-Oct-18 12:13:38

My younger daughter and I were watching the wedding and chatting on the phone, my daughter said ‘ look at her coat, she’s pregnant . As Megan always wear figure hugging clothes or coats with a belt I thought the same. But agree with Annsixty, after seeing her in the tight white dress yesterday , why a very loose coat.

Brunette10 Tue 16-Oct-18 11:59:37

Annsixty - exactly what I thought! Think Megan will have a very neat bump.

Bridgeit Tue 16-Oct-18 11:59:13

I must live in a different world, I didn’t pay any attention to her undone coat & if I had I would not have put those connotations that you have mentioned - Annsixty- am I being naive, do people play such games? ?

annsixty Tue 16-Oct-18 11:52:57

After seeing the photographs of the Duchess in a tight white dress yesterday , there was certainly no need for the big unfastened coat on Friday.

Rufus2 Tue 16-Oct-18 11:32:35

I am quite sure they will be ignored
Not by Aussies, that's for sure! grin Day 1 was so stunning in Sydney, with perfect weather, harbour views, ecstatic crowds at the magnificent Opera House, marvellous crowd reception. And it will soon be our turn in Melbourne. Can't wait! I was glued to the TV all the way; so much more to come, all live. Awesome!
Back home, I suppose all fashionistas have snapped up all army-surplus trench-coats and thrown out their beige cardies.! wink A wonderful opportunity to forget your troubles, for a while at least, and relax. OoRoo

Bridgeit Tue 16-Oct-18 11:00:46

I’m sorry I just don’t get it, which I have already said in an earlier post, perhaps it us Grannies that think of it in a negative way.
In families I know everyone is happy for each other’s Good news, now if someone had bad news to depart, then that would be a reason for waiting until a happy occasion had passed before announcing it.

Anniebach Tue 16-Oct-18 10:49:49

I am quite sure they will be ignored. Anyway Americans are already claiming a stake in the British royal family ?. They have forgotten the American buried in Frogmore where many Windsors are buried

Margs Tue 16-Oct-18 10:38:48

All the best - I wonder if HRH will beat Queen Victoria's record for Great Grandchildren at this rate!

A small caveat though: How will Buck House deal with Meghan's grumpy Dad and free-loading half siblings who will surely try to cash in on the advent of a new Royal? It seems like the only relative she can count on is her Mother who exemplifies discretion, diplomacy and dignity.

Jalima1108 Tue 16-Oct-18 10:33:39

hmm

Strong insect repellent? but I'm not sure if that is a good idea when you're pregnant.

Anniebach Tue 16-Oct-18 10:33:06

I think so mcem , nothing happens in the Windsor family without queenie being in the know. I realy do believe it was all arrange to announce it in Australia .

mcem Tue 16-Oct-18 10:17:01

Rather than distract from his sister's wedding day, my son and DiL announced their engagement exactly one month later.
I'd bet close family knew before the wedding day.

merlotgran Tue 16-Oct-18 10:15:30

Apparently Meghan will still travel to Fiji and Tonga despite risks from the zika virus. She will avoid rain forest areas.

They've obviously taken medical advice but I'm not sure I'd want to chance it.

Jalima1108 Tue 16-Oct-18 10:02:49

I would be concerned about any woman who was flying, particularly long-haul, in her first trimester, so presumably she is further on that 12 weeks and the medical advice was that it was fine to go.

Anniebach Tue 16-Oct-18 10:00:56

I would say the same of anyone who announced a pregnancy on their cousins wedding day.

It was the media who said the announcement was made at the reception .

Jalima1108 Tue 16-Oct-18 10:00:51

eazybee I agree

We only know what the msm has told us. Perhaps they had already told close family beforehand, quietly, not wanting to steal the limelight, but, as travelsafar has said, other members of the wider family, friends etc were asking her why she wasn't have a wine at the reception.

maddyone Tue 16-Oct-18 09:57:33

I agree with you totally easybee.
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Parsley3 Tue 16-Oct-18 09:54:52

Well said,eazybee. Which of us was there to witness the announcement? Why invent scenarios to criticise the couple? Why feel aggrieved on behalf of the newly weds? I don’t understand why energy is expended on these activities. Personally, I get on with my own concerns.

Anniebach Tue 16-Oct-18 09:23:19

I don’t think they had a choice as to when the pregnancy was announced , it was timed to be announced when in Australia

eazybee Tue 16-Oct-18 09:18:29

Poor woman.
Whatever she does people find cause for complaint.
Constant criticism of her since the engagement was announced: her choice of clothes,colours, hair, wedding dress, family relationships, too clingy, even the set of her eyes and now the timing of the announcement of the birth. It was communicated privately to senior members of the royal family, not a public announcement at the reception, and possibly it was Prince Harry's choice to break the news then.
She is now pregnant, and getting on with the day job, as most of us did. Good luck to her and her husband.

maddyone Mon 15-Oct-18 23:29:48

I know Chucky that pregnancy is not an illness, having had three pregnancies myself. None the less some people are unfortunate enough, and I was one of them, to suffer from horrible morning, and indeed all day, sickness. I believe Kate was admitted to hospital with her first pregnancy due this horrible condition. Looking at the way Megan has been behaving, both at the wedding last week, and as she arrived in Australia, it would appear that she is not suffering from sickness. She has looked both happy and healthy, and ready to get on with the job. Good for her.
However, as pregnancy is also a tiring time for the mother to be, I hope she doesn’t get too tired with a very demanding three weeks in front of her.

Chucky Mon 15-Oct-18 21:26:38

Maddy
Pregnancy is a condition not an illness. Most pregnant ladies have to carry on with their job, which is what Meghan is doing by going to Australia. She shouldn’t be wrapped up in cotton wool. I admire her for just getting on with her work. A lesson for many!

maddyone Mon 15-Oct-18 21:18:40

I admire her for getting pregnant knowing she had this heavy schedule in Australia coming up. I hope she doesn’t suffer from morning (all day) sickness as I did, and apparently Kate did too. Up to now, she appears to be glowing so she’s probably lucky and not experiencing morning sickness. I still think this trip will be very tiring for her though, I hope she doesn’t get too tired.

Anniebach Mon 15-Oct-18 21:11:22

But it wasn’t a family celebration, there were more guests than family .

Come to think of it, they announced it Friday, all those guests yet it wasn’t leaked to the press , photographs taken on mobiles were on line on Saturday . !