Annsixty, I'm so sorry to hear about your difficulties. It's quite wrong to be removing money/funding from people in your position. This will have a huge impact on your life, isn't there any way for you to appeal this decision?
I agree with you Annie, I shall 'look in' at the wedding tomorrow, I like to see what everyone's wearing. However, I do think that Andrew and his ex wife are responsible for the somewhat inflated arrangements, although Eugenie must have agreed to them. All brides deserve a happy day, but a big, almost state wedding, doesn't necessarily equate to happiness.