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Willow500 Tue 02-Oct-18 11:36:14

I agree but unfortunately I'm one of the online shoppers. I work from home so am unable to go out shopping regularly and our local town doesn't have any of the bigger shops. I do try to buy locally when I can and have in fact just bought furniture from our local small shop to be delivered 60 miles away. We don't have clothes or shoe shops here so if I want something it's easier to look online when I have time and the fact that Amazon Prime deliver the next day makes shopping for other items too easy. I've also had to do an online grocery shop for the first time this week as we haven't been able to get to the shops for food and the cupboards are bare.

My mother ran a shop years ago and was extremely concerned when a Spar shop opened two doors up and started to sell tights - that was probably the very beginning of the end of small independent shops each selling their own goods. It is sad that the internet has now taken over our shopping habits and consequently is forcing shops out of business and our High Streets to be full of empty shops - I'm not sure what the answer is but unfortunately I'm part of the problem sad

aggie Tue 02-Oct-18 11:22:55

I am "parcels central " for our family ! and judging by the state of my hallway they do a lot of online shopping , but .... if it is any consolation Cakebaker ...... most of it is then waiting to be uplifted and returned ! , whereas high street shopping , most stuff is kept

GrannyGravy13 Tue 02-Oct-18 11:22:10

I ageee with you in principle.

Unfortunately several posters on here are housebound, some without cars and having to rely on public transport, which in rural areas is not reliable or in some cases nonexistent.

Internet shopping and the internet in general is their lifeline and I respect that.

I do get to the shops as frequently as my GC duties let me, I use Amazon when there is no alternative. I do use JL and M&S online shopping sites, as they often have items which are only available online.

Anniebach Tue 02-Oct-18 11:17:34

Not everyone can ‘go shopping’

cakebaker Tue 02-Oct-18 11:15:11

I apologise in advance if this turns into a bit of a rant but I found myself getting quite hot under the collar yesterday when I read a simple post from somebody about fitted sheets. As I read through the replies I noticed more and more that people were suggesting Amazon or eBay - and we wonder why our high streets are dying. Bear in mind that this is from people brought up in a pre internet time and the lady was looking for sheets, for goodness sake! Not exactly hard items to find. Does nobody just go shopping any more? I suppose I feel this more keenly as my husband has always had a retail shop and we still run it as a sort of hobby. But if we go to trade shows we quite often have sad conversations with people who run small businesses and have to watch people come in, take note of things they like, even take photos sometimes, and then leave obviously to do their research on line. Price seems to be the only criteria. We have friends who are relatively well off but still go to John Lewis or similar if, for example, they want a new washing machine; they then pick the salesman's brain who is usually very knowledgable, and then go home and order on line.
When our high streets are devoid of everything except coffee shops, charity shops and empty shops people might regret not just "going shopping" as we used to, and our mothers used to - but it'll be too late. Thanks for listening and I'm so happy to have got that off my chest!!!