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'Addictive' Sweets?

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Lyndiloo Sun 09-Sept-18 02:05:15

My husband gave our granddaughter (4-years old) her Ribena in a little sherry-glass last week. She was delighted, as it looked like, 'Mummy's red wine'. When my daughter found out, she asked him not to do this again, as it might encourage her to drink later on. I can see her where she's coming from, (although she likes a glass of wine now and then, and they sometimes buy my granddaughter a child's 'cocktail' when they are out at restaurants. This isn't the issue here. But it got me thinking ...

Does anyone remember sweet cigarettes? They came in little pretend fag-packets, and were red at the 'lit' end. Oooh, I can remember the taste and the 'snap' of them, as you bit a piece off! Also, the sweet tobacco that we could buy. It was coconut strings, covered with a brown sugary stuff, that was absolutely delicious. Both of these sweets have disappeared now. (Social manipulation?)

I'm a smoker, and have been for years - and now roll my own, with real tobacco for economic reasons.

So perhaps my daughter has a point ...?

lizzypopbottle Wed 12-Sept-18 16:29:35

Also, playing devil's advocate, my parents rarely drank anything stronger than tea but it didn't stop my sisters or me enjoying a drink.

lizzypopbottle Wed 12-Sept-18 16:26:59

I suppose what I meant was that if mummy has been observed having a glass of wine, then objecting to Ribena in a sherry glass is akin to shutting the stable door after the horse has bolted! It's rather hypocritical too. Don't do as I do, so as I say! (Where would we be without our fantastic English language?)

notanan2 Wed 12-Sept-18 15:02:14

Yes Lizzy
But rather she tells teacher that mummy drinks wine to "I drink wine" wink

lizzypopbottle Wed 12-Sept-18 13:08:01

Apologies if this has been pointed out already: surely mummy's glass of red wine will be the biggest influence on the little girl? If mummy does it, it must be OK, mustn't it?

Nanna58 Tue 11-Sept-18 23:10:37

Used to eat a lot of those chocolate tools, spanner’s , hammer’s etc as a child - unfortunately never turned me into a DIY ‘ er!!????

notanan2 Tue 11-Sept-18 22:23:17

You can still get candy fags theyre just not called that any more they are packaged as superhero stick candy. Taste the same as I remember smile

Jalima1108 Tue 11-Sept-18 19:32:20

You should be able to google a recipe, but be warned!
Perhaps at Christmas GillT57!

Caledonai14 Tue 11-Sept-18 19:31:31

I, too, remember the sweet cigarettes and the chocolate ones. There were fake cigarettes which were filled with something like talc so when you blew gently, a puff came out of the tip. I have never smoked but one of my sisters smoked from a very young age. I don't think the sweets had any influence, but friends, funds and opportunity certainly did.

Deedaa Tue 11-Sept-18 18:44:57

When I was very young my grandfather used to give me a glass of orange with a drop of gin in it when we had Sunday lunch. There was always a very small glass of cherry brandy at Christmas and none of it turned me into an alcoholic. I also smoked many, many sweet cigarettes and liquorice pipes, but never the real thing.

Baggs Tue 11-Sept-18 18:37:29

We called Minibaggs's Ribena "children's wine" when there was a celebratory meal and adults were drinking wine. Even at a very young age I think kids can understand that some things are suitable for an adult and not for a child, especially if you explain why. They might not understand the details but they understand the concept.

Mine all did anyhow.

What's wrong with drinking wine 'later', like when she's an adult?

GillT57 Tue 11-Sept-18 12:05:11

Tablet is crisp, not soft and fudge like, absolutely packed full of sugar, but delicious. You should be able to google a recipe, but be warned!

JessK Tue 11-Sept-18 11:55:39

I love Fisherman's Friend, I could eat a whole packet.

Also remember as a child buying Barley Sugar Sticks that you could suck for hours - really bad for your teeth!

Bijou Tue 11-Sept-18 11:36:02

On rainy days when we were children my mother would help us make coconut ice as well as fudge.

pensionpat Tue 11-Sept-18 08:55:26

Tablet is very crumbly, sugary fudge. The recipe was given to me by a Scottish colleague. The problem is the quantity you make!

Lyndiloo Tue 11-Sept-18 01:43:11

So many memories ... I'd forgotten all about tiger nuts - I loved them! And to make one or two of you jealous, I can still buy flying saucers here (The Range - if you have one near you.) And what about spearmint cushions, and fairy cushions (which tasted of perfume)? Palm Toffee - which came in bars that you could suck into a point. I think this came in chocolate, strawberry or banana flavour, and was like a toffee sandwich with dark brown, pink, or yellow toffee in the middle. I wonder why confectioners stopped making these sweets ...?

And - please help - what is 'Tablet'? I seem to remember my mother-in-law talking about it. She came from Durham - is it a Northern thing? hmm

Bijou Mon 10-Sept-18 23:02:16

In the 1930s my mother gave my sister and I a halfpenny each to spend on the way back to school after lunch. I well remember the sweet cigarettes, liquorice boot laces, tigernuts, etc and all the sweets that were in glass jars and sold in paper bags.
When I was in the WAAF during the war we had a ration from the NAAFI of cigarettes and chocolate. I always swapped the cigs for chocolate.

GabriellaG Mon 10-Sept-18 18:02:56

I well remember the sweet cigarettes. They were sold in packs of ten in a sweet shop near my school.
Haha...I can almost taste them while typing and can certainly remember the owner asking if we wanted the 1d or the 2d tray. There were big sweet jars with twisty sticks of barleysugar and papery flying saucers with sherbet inside. My favourite were Squirrel dolly-mixtures, 2oz in a conical paper bag. Walls briquettes for 3d, where you tore off the cardboard strip round the slice after sandwiching it between 2 wafers. So many great memories.
As for Ribena, Tesco removed it because of the high sugar content. Not a great drink and the percentage of blackcurrants is about 5.

Neilspurgeon0 Mon 10-Sept-18 16:34:54

@Auntieflo “My mother says licorice gives you a good run for your money” Eccles, the Goon Show circa 1955. I also adore licorice.

GillT57 Mon 10-Sept-18 16:03:43

I loved the chocolate cigarettes with rice paper, I think they came in a realistic packet, soft like the Peter Stuyvesant cigarettes? Christmas always brought licorice and chocolate smokers' sets too, and I still love licorice. We too had a small glass of home made ginger wine at New Year, with shortbread, and I daren't make tablet.......it is like crack, immediately addictive!

ladycatlover Mon 10-Sept-18 15:41:07

I used to get given a cocktail glass (one of those sort of triangular from where it joined the stem, but round glasses like a wine glass IYSWIM) of Crabby's Ginger Wine by my (very strict!) Grandmother at Christmas... Probably from about 7 or 8 years old! My Mum used to give me a dip of her finger of sherry too, from a much younger age.

My Mum's friend, an honorary Auntie, used to give me Babycham when we went there for meals, probably from when I was about 10+.

How life has changed!

I do remember the candy and the chocolate pretend ciggies. I can't see how they would encourage kids to become smokers - the taste is so VERY different! LOL. Regret to say that I am a smoker, but I think that's more down to the fact my Dad smoked and I wanted to be like him rather than like my Mum, who did housework all the time (he went out to work in an office). Sigh. Still trying to give up with the help of e-cigs, but it's a long process.

Jalima1108 Mon 10-Sept-18 15:23:23

DN wasn't sick - just very giggly. Although I think she had a couple of accomplices in the form of little brothers!

millymouge Mon 10-Sept-18 15:15:43

At a family wedding when DS1 was about 6 we didn't realise that he had spent quite sometime going round drinking the dregs from wine glasses. One of his sisters spotted him, and thinking we would be cross told my BIL. He was a lovely old fashioned policeman and found him looking very poorly. Took him outside,
held his head while he was sick and gave him a short lecture before returning him to us. Never knew if it was the sickness or the lecture but to this day DS1 rarely drinks any alcohol!!!

grandtanteJE65 Mon 10-Sept-18 14:37:47

Grey duster, don't throw the liquorice root away. Boiled up in water the juice can be strained and sweetened with honey to make a really good cough mixture for the kind of hacking cough that sadly is bound to come along sometime in the coming autumn or winter.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 10-Sept-18 14:30:43

I have never smoked, but I simply loved the pretend cigarettes, both the white kind with the red tip that tasted as if they were made entirely of sugar and the chocolate ones which came in a very fancy box. The others could be bought in packets with five or ten.

The Danish version were made of liquorice with rice-paper "cigarette paper" and they were sold in packets that were practically identical to grown up Camel cigarettes.
At my Danish grandmother's we had special coloured glasses on a stem that we were only allowed to drink from on Sundays, or birthdays. We pretended our diluted homemade red currant juice was wine.
Daddy's parents were teetotallers, so no "wine" or cigarettes there!

sarahellenwhitney Mon 10-Sept-18 13:52:04

SueDoko I was born and raised in a house of smokers I married a smoker and my in laws and their relatives were also smokers. What is the fascination for such an unhealthy habit?