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What makes the British British ?

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NanKate Wed 22-Aug-18 09:31:54

Yet another topic from local radio. Here are the few I can remember.

Apologising when you bump into someone even though it is their fault.
Queuing
Roast beef, Yorkshire pudding and gravy. Yummie.
In days gone by men wearing a hanky as a sun hat.
Talking about the weather.

Over to you.

Parsley3 Wed 22-Aug-18 15:43:19

Yep, Paddyann. I would agree with a good cup of tea though and talking about the weather.

paddyann Wed 22-Aug-18 15:39:50

TravelsafarCricket on the village green followed by afternoon tea made by little old ladies in pinnys.

Cream teas with scones and jam.

Wimbledon and strawberries and cream

Buttered crumpets or toast done on a toasting fork in front of an open fire for tea in the Autumn after a long walk with the dogs.

Being snowed in at the slightest fall of snow in the Winter months."
I think you'll find that these are English and that really is what most people on here think British is !!You wont find much cricket on greens in Scotland for example .

PECS Wed 22-Aug-18 15:28:52

Here is one answer!
www.gov.uk/british-citizenship

& of course being able to answer the silly questions on the British Citizenship test... which I am sure many 'born British' would not be able to answer!

Personally I would say the British are as diverse as any other national group but f I had to choose one thing it would be a love of 'a good cup of tea'!

ChaosIncorporated Wed 22-Aug-18 15:26:14

According to the Dowager Lady Grantham: "...people say it's our history, but personally I blame the weather"!
grin grin grin

jenpax Wed 22-Aug-18 15:18:56

Always saying sorry and being too polite to complain

grannysue05 Wed 22-Aug-18 14:55:19

I agree with Fennel ....solid and calm disposition.

Just been to Sainsburys and while queuing at the checkout a Klaxon sounded and a loudspeaker announced that all staff should stand by for a security announcement. The Klaxon and message kept repeating, and after a few moments all the shoppers just calmly continued to shop or put their items through the checkout tills. Nobody seemed bothered at all .......at least outwardly.

Solid and calm ...thats what we are!

travelsafar Wed 22-Aug-18 14:36:02

Cricket on the village green followed by afternoon tea made by little old ladies in pinnys.

Cream teas with scones and jam.

Wimbledon and strawberries and cream

Buttered crumpets or toast done on a toasting fork in front of an open fire for tea in the Autumn after a long walk with the dogs.

Being snowed in at the slightest fall of snow in the Winter months.

sassenach512 Wed 22-Aug-18 14:20:46

We Brits tend not to complain about poor service, duff products etc. We'd rather grumble about it to someone but not do anything about it.

gillybob Wed 22-Aug-18 14:18:17

I love Bubble & Squeak Bridgeit and always make sure I do plenty extra vegetables whenever I make a roast dinner. The left overs all get mashed together and popped into bags for the freezer. Ideal for a midweek meal.

Bridgeit Wed 22-Aug-18 14:11:48

Bubble & squeak
Cottage/ Sheperds pie made from left over Sunday Roast
Wash house complete with mangle & boiler
Blue cube rinse for whites

Squiffy Wed 22-Aug-18 13:04:26

Holding a door open to let someone through? Not sure if other nations do that.

mrsmopp Wed 22-Aug-18 12:48:09

Good manners - please, sorry, thank you, general politeness.

sodapop Wed 22-Aug-18 12:20:36

Definitely humour and self deprecation. Stiff upper lip, no blatant emotion from us.
Princess Diana's death excluded.
Just reading back and seems we mostly agree on things including discussing the weather and dogs.

OldMeg Wed 22-Aug-18 12:15:49

NanKate that always makes me laugh too. Your friend and I must be thinking the same thing ??

HootyMcOwlface Wed 22-Aug-18 12:12:19

I was waiting at a bus stop a while ago (don’t usually use the bus) and was getting a little anxious about people not queuing properly, just standing wherever. However, was relieved to see when the bus arrived everyone seemed to remember where they should be in the ‘queue’!

NanKate Wed 22-Aug-18 12:09:33

A caller on the show last night said that she was talking to a foreign friend who was a bit down and she said to him ‘keep your pecker up’ which caused her friend to laugh who said it meant something quite different in his country. ?

HootyMcOwlface Wed 22-Aug-18 12:08:25

Being over optimistic about our nations’ teams’ chances in international games!

Menopaws Wed 22-Aug-18 12:02:10

Do yo know the bit in the film Notting Hill when Hugh Grant can't climb over a gate and keeps saying oops a daisy, and Julia Roberts can't stop laughing at how British that was. Very funny and made you hear it differently

M0nica Wed 22-Aug-18 11:50:40

I think it is humour. I understand, we use humour in advertising far more than other countries.

We are, usually, self-deprecating, and tend not to make mountains out of molehills.

We do not over emote, Sparklehills comment about Antiques Road Show is a classic example. If that had happened in the US everyone would be screaming and OMG-ing.

Fennel Wed 22-Aug-18 11:16:55

ps stiff upper lip as Squiffy says.

Fennel Wed 22-Aug-18 11:16:01

I do that OldMeg.
Also phlegmatic -
" (of a person) having an unemotional and stolidly calm disposition. the phlegmatic British character"
The french lady who took on our cat said she's a british cat. Very phlegmatic. I had to look it up. Like stiff upper lip as
Though that has changed a bit recently, since Diana?

MaizieD Wed 22-Aug-18 11:11:07

Being born in Britain?

OldMeg Wed 22-Aug-18 11:00:01

Not stopping to talk to strangers we meet unless they have a dog, on which case it’s perfectly acceptable to stop and strike up a conversation about their dog ??

JessK Wed 22-Aug-18 10:57:45

Discussing the weather and complaining if it's either hot, cold, wet or dry.
Queuing and letting others push in.

toscalily Wed 22-Aug-18 10:55:32

The ability to laugh at ourselves.
Always talking about the weather.
Queuing.
I would have said our sense of fair play but not sure it is so evident now.