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Baggs Sun 12-Aug-18 06:57:05

I think women should stop curtseying. Men don't curtsey. What's wrong with a handshake?

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 12:50:29

The crazy rules for the royals are for themselves only , not for the public , thank heaven

JenniferEccles Thu 16-Aug-18 12:36:08

There certainly are some crazy rules regarding curtseys and bowing to the Royals.

Apparently Meghan has to curtsey to Andrews daughters if she is on her own, yet when she is with Harry, they have to curtsey to her!

Interestingly our dentist is, I think Iranian. Whenever he greets me, and when I leave he puts his hands together and bows his head to me. A lovely gesture.

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 12:33:54

A royal biographer , forgotten his name, was given time to speak to Anne , whilst they were talking Anne took a phone call, she answered and did a bob, then had a quick exchange of words, it was her mother on the phone ?

janeainsworth Thu 16-Aug-18 12:06:49

That makes sense annie

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 11:42:56

I asked someone who works in the Windsor household about the curtsying and bowing. It is to do with ‘the crown’ , when Charles becomes king Harry will be expected to give William a nod because William will be heir to ‘the crown’ .

janeainsworth Thu 16-Aug-18 11:30:28

Mapleleaf that’s interesting. Perhaps it follows that when someone curtseys to the Queen they aren’t curtseying to her as a person but to the office of Head of State?

Mapleleaf Thu 16-Aug-18 11:20:14

Thank you Annie - it was something at the back of my mind which came to the fore, so to speak, after reading the other post. It’s many years ago when DM said it, and I was wondering if I’d perhaps got it a bit mixed up!?

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 10:36:27

I think you are right Mapleleaf

Mapleleaf Thu 16-Aug-18 10:27:34

This may be incorrect, Annodomini; but my DM, who was in the WAAFS during the war, said that when saluting, you weren’t saluting the person, but saluting the uniform and that it was wrong to make a salute if the complete uniform was not worn. Perhaps someone who has been in the forces can say whether this is correct or not.
I know she used to get irritated when watching some war films if the actors portraying members of the forces made a salute to someone else in the film not in full uniform! ?

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 09:10:14

I had forgotten Brenda ?

janeainsworth Thu 16-Aug-18 09:07:01

I rather like Brenda (as in Private Eye) for HM.

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 08:40:29

Yes Gilly, I loved Blackadder, no difference saying queenie to saying i’ve got a cunning plan, ?

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 08:36:58

OldMeg ?.

I don’t call the queen queenie as an insult, some think I do.

gillybob Thu 16-Aug-18 08:35:56

Can’t see a problem with “Queenie” at all, it’s from Blackadder isn’t it Anniebach ?

gillybob Thu 16-Aug-18 08:34:52

Makes her sound like an old barmaid OldMeg grin

OldMeg Thu 16-Aug-18 08:33:34

‘Queenie’ is quite mild. My BiL calls her Betty Windsor!

Anniebach Thu 16-Aug-18 08:28:03

Sorry you don’t disaprove tassiegran

tassiegran Thu 16-Aug-18 05:30:16

Anniebach - I don't like the way you refer to The Queen as queenie.

Foxyloxy Mon 13-Aug-18 16:35:43

I don’t feel they are Superior, but the title or position deserves acknowledgment and I don’t feel too Superior to acknowledge it.

Jalima1108 Mon 13-Aug-18 14:51:18

When someone called Boris Johnson one of the ruling elite on another thread, they misunderstood totally the role of our MPs:

MPs are servants of the people and should never forget that, said ANN WIDDECOMBE

Baggs Mon 13-Aug-18 13:26:05

Technically and democratically, PA, the people are 'sovereign' throughout the UK. And the Queen is our figurehead, admittedly whether we like it or not. I think most people do like it or, at least, happily put up with it because a good alternative is not on offer.

gillybob Mon 13-Aug-18 13:08:57

I agree Jalima I think that most Americans perhaps have more respect than to greet a head of state in such a way . Doesn’t say a lot for some of us Brits though .

Jalima1108 Mon 13-Aug-18 13:00:59

I wonder if he'll come back?
Perhaps he's enjoying himself too much now, and leaves the serious stuff to his wife!

muffinthemoo Mon 13-Aug-18 12:58:28

I did, Jalima. I’ve been enjoying the series, actually. Balls has the (more awkwardly expressed) gift of Louis Theroux for winning people’s confidence regardless of their circumstances.

Honestly, if he had run for election as himself rather than his own image of a serious politician, he would have been returned comfortably. God knows we need people of strong intellect now from across the party political spectrum.

Jalima1108 Mon 13-Aug-18 12:55:40

I'm not sure why HM would be greeted by something like that gillybob as Americans seem to love our Queen - and even more so now they have their own Duchess