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Tissues v handkerchiefs

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PenJK50 Sat 11-Aug-18 11:33:45

My sons in law both use handkerchiefs for the purpose for which they were intended and anything else they see fit to do such as wipe a child’s nose. I haven’t used a handkerchief for about 40 years as tissues seem so much more hygienic if less eco friendly. I remember my mother boiling hankies in a galvanised bucket on the stove in order to kill the germs. She didn’t approve of tissues until her latter years. When did you last use a hanky for blowing your nose? My husband always has one in his pocket in case he needs to wipe his brow but never blows his nose on it.

Grandma70s Sat 11-Aug-18 16:14:26

Because a tissue is disposable, pollyperkins. I put them down the loo, and they have never caused a blockage.

I haven’t used or owned cloth hankies for as long as I remember.

kittylester Sat 11-Aug-18 16:17:27

I'm with you polly! Not everyone disposes thoughtfully. Yuck!

chicken Sat 11-Aug-18 16:38:52

Hankies all the time. During the hot spell, a large white hanky was always at hand to mop the sweat from my brow, A tissue would have left little white tufts --not a pretty sight. And how about that emergency sun-hat, a large white hanky with a knot at each corner? Try doing that with a tissue!

DanniRae Sat 11-Aug-18 16:40:10

chicken - smile

pollyperkins Sat 11-Aug-18 16:48:59

Many loos say toilet paper only. Tissues are more difficult to flush and can cause blockages. Yes they will flush away often but can build up over time.
And sirely you are not always near a loo when out and about and therefore have used tissues in your pocket/up your sleeve etc. I often see them on the floor or blowing around outside. What is the difference to having a cloth hankie in your pocket? Except that gets properly cleaned in the wash and doesn't hang around.

Eilyann70 Sat 11-Aug-18 16:50:16

When MIL died we found several gift packs of pretty hankies in her bedside drawer. S'sIL didn't want so I inherited. Only kept for 'going out' but never a blow - only a discreet wipe! But always there for weddings and funerals! Happy memories of her whenever I use one.

annep Sat 11-Aug-18 16:51:19

I buy cheap small tissues for home use that I use once and bin. Also carru better ones in bag. Often use my husbands hankie (which he always carries- I think he just likes to have one -neatly ironed by moi) to dab my nose as I have forgotten tissues. He uses it to clean specs or wrap small change when emptying pockets in hotels. such a funny little habit.

Jalima1108 Sat 11-Aug-18 17:01:03

All my used kitchen towels go in to the compost container and then onto the compost heap.
Kitchen rolls can be hard on the nose particularly if you have a rotten cold - I prefer tissues with balsam if I have to use a lot. They were binned.

However, I do like a nice hanky to dab my eyes, another to dab my nose if I don't need to properly blow it.

rubysong Sat 11-Aug-18 17:16:41

Hankies, washed at 60 degrees and ironed with a hot iron, so perfectly sterile and germ free. I'm trying to minimise anything disposable on eco grounds. I do resort to tissues for a heavy cold.

pollyperkins Sat 11-Aug-18 17:19:41

Agree Rubysong. Glad Kitty agrees too!

Grandma70s Sat 11-Aug-18 17:44:00

I’m not going to iron hankies, thank you. Tissues will do me.

mumofmadboys Sat 11-Aug-18 20:23:27

There is little difference to putting hankies in the wash to pants as far as bacteria are concerned.

Jalima1108 Sat 11-Aug-18 20:25:25

Put them in with the towels on a hot wash!

Beau Sat 11-Aug-18 21:06:54

Balsam tissues (normal ones peel the skin off the end of my nose if I have a bad cold) - I blow once then throw away. A certain person I know uses the same tissue repeatedly until it's a sopping mess - that to me is as germy as carrying round a germy handkerchief and makes me cringe a bit ?

SpringyChicken Sat 11-Aug-18 21:11:40

We’re like you, Jalimal. Cloth hankies, washed with the towels at 60 degrees. I always put disinfectant in the fabric softener compartment, to be certain no germs survive and to keep the washing machine sweet. I hate bins full of dirty tissues.

grumppa Sat 11-Aug-18 22:00:40

You can't beat a gentleman's handkerchief for dabbing away the tears of a weeping lady, absorbing spilt liquids (of all sorts), wiping a dipstick, mopping a fevered brow, intercepting coughed sputum, and, er, blowing one's nose. Who needs tissues?

Luckygirl Sat 11-Aug-18 22:03:50

Tissues for us.

And I can definitely say that if anyone here chose to use a hanky, they can blooming well wash it themselves! grin

Chewbacca Sat 11-Aug-18 22:06:24

My ex H always used "proper" hankies. He always seemed to be full of a cold or hayfever and when he blew his nose, half the street would hear him. I used to dread finding one of his scrunched up, hard as concrete hankies in the washing pile. They were gross and I'm delighted I no longer have to touch them! Bleurgh!

annep Sat 11-Aug-18 22:17:21

Ughh!

Mapleleaf Sat 11-Aug-18 22:18:04

Tissues only, here!

MissAdventure Sat 11-Aug-18 22:58:39

Ah, a trumpeter, chewy
Its amazing, the noises mens noses make!

Chewbacca Sat 11-Aug-18 23:02:51

The noise wasn't the worst part MissA; not by a long chalk! I could have coped with the noise. It was the "outcome of the noise" that was the disgusting worst bit. ?

PenJK50 Sat 11-Aug-18 23:18:16

Thanks everyone - fascinating that we have such differing views. No one is right or wrong - it’s a matter of preference I guess.

pollyperkins Sun 12-Aug-18 08:54:58

Grumpa you sound like DH with your handkerchief use.apart from the sputum (yuk) . The nose blowing doesn't bother me but the occasional oil or blood are difficult to get out.

travelsafar Sun 12-Aug-18 09:27:13

Either suits me, better than 'cuffing it' which i remember children doing when i was at school!! smile