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Have you been on a journey?

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Anniebach Thu 12-Jul-18 10:12:29

Am I the only one who hasn’t ‘been on a journey’? A celebrity reality programme and someone will declare ‘I have been on a journey’ . A chap who had suffered bankruptcy declare in an interview ‘I have been on a journey’. This morning a female who had watched the England team in the World Cup declared ‘I have been on a journey ‘ , no she hadn’t been to Russia.

There must be someone here who like me hasn’t been on a journey ?

MissAdventure Thu 12-Jul-18 15:44:20

I'm on a journey now. Fraught with danger and obstacles.
The school run!

sodapop Thu 12-Jul-18 15:32:36

Oooh Teetime would you send a custard tart over to France please, I love them .

Jalima1108 Thu 12-Jul-18 15:19:36

Jalima, I for one cannot claim to have found myself,I didn’t know I was missing ?
Anniebach grin

SueDonim Thu 12-Jul-18 15:19:06

I've been on a trip. It was right outside my house and the trip ended up with me breaking my leg in two places. I then went on a journey in an ambulance to hospital. grin

Jalima1108 Thu 12-Jul-18 15:18:12

'It is better to travel hopefully than to arrive'
as someone said once, but I have never thought that on a long-haul flight.

Jalima1108 Thu 12-Jul-18 15:16:58

Teetime grin
enjoy the custard tart

Kateykrunch Thu 12-Jul-18 14:52:06

Me and Hubby often go on a ‘journey’, it involves exploring a new place and often includes a picnic, sometimes the ‘journey’ is better than the destination, as I can be quite lazy and dont want to trot around, so I hate it when please want to talk to me about my cancer journey!!!, but I aint letting them spoil my exploring, adventure, picnic journeys, they can find another adjective!

Teetime Thu 12-Jul-18 14:37:18

No me either - been on a 'journey' that is. Neither have I 'ever been to me' 'found myself' or 'known who I really am'. I shall however 'try to be the best version of myself' and 'embrace life's opportunities'. Now I shall have a cup of tea and a custard tart.

MissAdventure Thu 12-Jul-18 14:25:18

It reminds me of a song from a good few years back..
"I've been to paradise, but I've never been to 'me'
(Vomit-icon)

ginny Thu 12-Jul-18 14:19:15

I agree, such ridiculous phrases. ‘ Find myself’. ? Well here I am right here, and so far I know who I am .

Auntieflo Thu 12-Jul-18 13:52:20

Anniebach ???

Anniebach Thu 12-Jul-18 13:48:55

Jalima, I for one cannot claim to have found myself,I didn’t know I was missing ?

Anniebach Thu 12-Jul-18 13:46:14

Auntiflo, thank you, but is was you all here who led me through, I just stumbled and without all here I would have fallen and not got up again.

Yes i have my table, younger daughter had one delivered to me?

Auntieflo Thu 12-Jul-18 13:38:52

Annie, you do yourself down. We who went with you recently. You found strength, and "just got on with it", but I believe that you did journey through all that was thrown at you, and are still managing, doing your bit and coping every day. You are an inspiration to many of us.
By theway, did you ever sort out your need for a small table? Just wondering. ?

Maybelle Thu 12-Jul-18 13:37:58

meaningless phrases, one my line manager was found of in meetings was "blue sky thinking" .
My idea of blue sky thinking was to lay back, close my eyes and snooze in the sunshine !

Jalima1108 Thu 12-Jul-18 13:36:22

We have a younger friend who has been 'finding himself' for a long time.
He has journeyed all around the world, not sure if he found himself anywhere on his journey.

(he is lovely though, so we will just smile)

Anniebach Thu 12-Jul-18 13:35:15

So I am not the only one ?

downtoearth Thu 12-Jul-18 13:33:12

Havent been on a journey,been led up the garden path once or twice and round the block more than once ,does that count??

sodapop Thu 12-Jul-18 12:34:56

That phrase is becoming so hackneyed and wearisome now. I really don't want to hear another tearful reality show contestant use it or I will scream. Not that I watch reality shows you understand.

gillybob Thu 12-Jul-18 11:22:51

Does to hell and back count?

kittylester Thu 12-Jul-18 11:14:55

That's how I look at it Annie! More a case of 'what the hell!'

Luckygirl Thu 12-Jul-18 11:06:49

"Been on a journey"!!! - laughable.

Anniebach Thu 12-Jul-18 11:05:31

Panache, I never, ever, think I have been on a journey, I have just muddled through ups and downs in life.

Panache Thu 12-Jul-18 11:02:41

Sometimes we need a new kind of dictionary telling us in plain english exactly what is meant by these stupid words or phrases!!
Though Annie we are all on a journey actually...............since the day we were born!!!
Many of us.......like yourself.........have many colourful chapters therein!
Thing is we choose not go on a public stage..............telling all and sundry the details of what is after all,our private journey!!!

Iam64 Thu 12-Jul-18 10:15:14

We could organise a coach trip, full of people who have focussed on never going on one of those 'journeys'. It's one of those management speak, nonsense phrases, used to control staff who complain about constant changes, the reinvention of the wheel etc. Yes, I have been told "we're on a journey". No, we weren't, we were in a nightmare.