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soop Thu 28-Jun-18 16:41:24

Here we are again
Happy as can be
All good pals and jolly good company.
Never mind the weather
Never mind the rain?
As long as we're together
Here we go again...
Welcome and please feel free to open the Bubbly and tuck into a virtual Magnum choc ice. smile

soop Tue 24-Jul-18 13:34:29

Good afternoon dear peoples. Haven't you lot been busy. I first read Greyduster's account of her experience with her grandson, and felt in the need of a lie down in a dark room. You are obviously gifted with boundless energy and patience to match. Well done, you. flowers
Now to wend my way through all your other updates. wink

soop Tue 24-Jul-18 13:49:21

kitty That was one hugely successful money raising event. I would have loved it. Candy floss was a huge favourite way back when...

Mcem Oh the joy of gentle rainfall. Our garden is twice as green as a result of an overnight shower. Charleyg I could not cope with the high temperatures you are experiencing. It's comfortably sunny and there's a refreshing breeze. I wish you respite in the not too distant future.

Ann I wish you many, many more delightful outings/treats/restful nights. You have recharged your batteries. Bravo!

N&G Us lot eagerly await a picture of you in the paddling pool. I would join you if I could.

More posts yet to read. You never give up, thank goodness. Should I ever pop into our kitchen to find it empty...hmm I would be a very sad bunny.

Last night's sunset is for all those of you in need of comfort. Back a little later.

annodomini Tue 24-Jul-18 14:43:19

Updating my morning's weather report: the big clouds gathered ominously and it looked as if we might have a deluge. Well, about four drops fell on this part of North Cheshire before lunch, but the clouds have massed again and the breeze is getting up which sometimes presages a squall. I've just received a blueberry bush I've ordered and twelve plugs of catmint. Both impregnably packaged! The catmint is now in bigger plugs and waiting for that rain hmm. I hope that ginger tom keeps his distance! The blueberry is waiting for me to go and buy a big pot for it to grow into with the ericaceous compost I've already purchased. Why would I suddenly sprout greenish fingers in the middle of a drought? Remains to be seen how green are my fingers.

soop Tue 24-Jul-18 16:57:46

anno Very funny. Good luck. You never know, the rain may happen along sometime soon.

Away to attend to the boring stuff. Somebody has to do it.

Love to one and all. Back with you tomorrow after ironing duty. smile moon

Panache Tue 24-Jul-18 17:57:52

I don`t know where you get the energy from soop although when younger you would never find me standing around ......always up to usually two or more things at a time......but I do wonder about your good self I have to say,especially after your latest little "escapade"!!

However I certainly know my age and all parts of me constantly give me a nip as if to remind me!!

Even so I suppose we are the more fortunate here on the west coast of Wales,having the sea breezes and a slightly lower temperaute means we are not having the torture many of you face.
Nevertheless the perspiration is dropping off me regardless,I dread to weigh again as I surely must be losing yet more weight.

Delighted with all you have managed this past week Ann........and lets hope those inner batteries are charged to the full......ready to welcome H home again.

Your exploits Kittytruly make me feel ashamed at my laziness,you are deserved of a nice cool evening.

Ever hopeful for a nice sleep,and anything not resembling a lettuce leaf might be enjoyable...........I think I may dream of Sam tonight having his shower or and a good bath,or GreyD out there rowing on a lake...........lovely cooling thoughts..............however just saying my good nights to you one and all,hoping there is some area of coolness within your homes,allowing you a nice long rest overnight.

cornergran Tue 24-Jul-18 18:28:58

Didn’t quite manage a canoe or any sort of boat on a lake but am pleased Mr C insisted on driving a grumping me across the county to Wells. Spent a long while in the Bishops palace garden and after a very nice lunch in the shade mooched the little shops on the way back to the car.

Delighted to report I finally came across an everyday, cool, long enough cotton summer dress with short sleeves. The purchase could well trigger the end of sunshine and warmth in our part if the country smile.

Why not go and see that ideal apartment panache. Sounds superb. If you aren’t tied to your agent maybe a change would help. Hold onto hope. There will be someone who will love your home as much as you have. Try to stay cool if you can. There’s a breeze here, no rain but it’s pleasant.

Hope today has been good ann and it will help having your daughter with you.

Have you survived without melting charley? The meal out sounds just right, lift your spirits.

How’s the paddling pool n&g? Suitably road tested? I’ve also been trying to grow things, anno. Parsley is thriving, phew, basil has been eaten by the slugs hmm.

Here’s a couple of photos from today's outing. I really must try to be less grumpy tomorrow for Mr C’s sake, suspect he’s used up this weeks patience quota today.

MawBroon Wed 25-Jul-18 06:51:22

I don’t normally dare to disturb you all so early but I wanted to say something now and if t’were done, t’were best done speedily so I can have my little weep before facing the day and facing the future.
On what is the 48th anniversary of our wedding I would like to focus on all the good things of our marriage until death “did us part”.
There was lots of better and there was sometimes worse, not a lot richer, and yes, times when we were poorer and sadly latterly, more sickness than health, which he faced with quiet and uncomplaining courage.
But we were blessed with our three amazing daughters, their lovely menfolk and our four wonderful grandchildren.
Above all I was blessed to know the faithful love of a good and brave man.
RIP dearest Rupert ( Paw )

Gagagran Wed 25-Jul-18 07:04:00

Oh Maw that lovely tribute to your DH brought a tear to my eye to join the one already there, as I remember my dearest brother-in-law who died 1 year ago today.

I hope your day is filled with happy memories as you recall the good times and the wonderful legacy he left behind in your loving and close family. In fact I wish you a Happy 48th Anniversary even though it may be tinged with sadness that he is not there with you. flowers

kittylester Wed 25-Jul-18 07:19:34

What a lovely post, maw. flowers

annsixty Wed 25-Jul-18 07:36:19

Maw flowers and the kindest thoughts I can send.

aggie Wed 25-Jul-18 08:07:07

Hugs xxx

cornergran Wed 25-Jul-18 08:17:34

Sending love, maw, a beautiful post. I understand you are off to meet with other Grans today, hope that helps flowers. A sad day for you as well gaga, hope there are happy memories too. flowers.

Greyduster Wed 25-Jul-18 08:38:52

That is a lovely post, Maw at a sad time for you. Dwell on the many happy times.

annodomini Wed 25-Jul-18 09:29:32

flowers and ((((hugs)))) Maw. ?

Pittcity Wed 25-Jul-18 09:33:45

Popped in to give Maw a ((hug)) and say what a beautiful couple you looked 48 years ago.

Panache Wed 25-Jul-18 11:01:45

I don`t know about each one of you but indeed that beautiful heartfelt tribute to your dear departed husband has truly brought out the waterworks in me Maw.

I truly feel something of a bond,strange though that might seem because we have never met and only exchanged a few words but I think its your dear Paw`s long term suffering that rings such a cord with me.Few understand how certain illnesses affect lives, but I feel you do with mine to some extent because of what you went through as his carer.
Hence this picture and your tribute has really touched my heart.
Such a lovely picture too, and now a host of beautiful and precious memories to enjoy.
Thank you for sharing Maw. I feel privileged.

NonnaW Wed 25-Jul-18 11:13:50

Lovely post maw, the love you had for each other lives on flowers

grannyqueenie Wed 25-Jul-18 13:58:35

On my way out, so no time to look further, but just wanted to say thank you to maw. Your honest posts about the man whom you have loved and lost are so moving for us all to read, and especially for those of us fortunate enough to have our special someone still by our sides. Thank you so much for sharing so much of your heart with us all. Sending you love especially on this poignant day. x

grannyqueenie Wed 25-Jul-18 14:00:16

And I should have said continue to love.... you’ll never stop loving him.

soop Wed 25-Jul-18 16:02:15

Maw Your post is straight from the heart. Us lot are grateful to you for sharing your feelings. You are inspirational. flowers flowers flowers

Welcome Pittcity Take a comfy chair and stay awhile. smile

corner the photos are beautiful.

It's sunny but not overpoweringly hot. Ironing duties done for another week. My "wages" are in the tin in the knicker drawer. All in a good cause. hmm Did I mention that we're to have a four day break sometime? Bet I did. wink

mrshat Wed 25-Jul-18 16:26:24

Oh Maw. Love and prayers flowers. X

Greyduster Wed 25-Jul-18 16:35:28

Well the dust has just about settled here. GS has gone home; DS has gone home; and, lovely as it was to have them both, I am now enjoying the peace and quiet. Neither of them stop talking from the moment they get up to the moment they go to bed, and, especially with DS, I have to gallop to keep up with every change in subject. Nice to have some interesting and erudite conversation, though!
We took the little lad canoeing yesterday and, true to form, he managed to drop his paddle in the lake (fortunately they float). Turning a canoe around is rather tantamount to turning an aircraft carrier, but on a much smaller scale, especially when the remaining paddlers are paddling in the wrong sequence and Captain Bligh (grandad) is cursing Fletcher Christian (Nanny) from the stern! We got there in the end. Photo of Midshipman Duster after we got back to port.
Corner I loved your photos of Wells. We stopped there one year on our way to Cornwall and always said we would go back again, we liked it so much. We stayed in a B&B in Wookie and the owners’ daughter was getting married and having her wedding reception in the grounds of the Bishop’s Palace. It was going to be some ‘do’ by the sound of it.
Soop I hope you are looking forward to your holiday as much as I am looking forward to mine. Five days - and a great pile of ironing - to go! Any offers? I could pay you in Magnums!
I will look in later.

Panache Wed 25-Jul-18 16:53:28

Having had time to retrieve my equilibrium after that moving tribute by Maw
Here I am still in one piece after a reasonably cooler night which allowed for some sleep.

I hear your kind and uplifting words of wisdom Corner and I know you mean well, but sadly ideal though this Apartment is, we have dropped our asking price substantially because of our need to move on,therefore this place is now outside our remit.
Having visited beautiful Wells ourselves whilst we stayed a few months in Watchet, I can rather imagine your lovely day out yesterday and the pictures were a super momento.
Poor Mr C..........you make it sound as though he has a hard life!
I have a feeling you two get on like a house on fire ...... you are just kidding us!!

The meeting of the Grans today I hear and are you in charge of the unruly lot Kitty.??.......I hope the weather is not overwhelming and you are able to get them into line!! How I wish I lived nearer these gatherings.However much we need to move I rather think that may well be a move too far!

It is one of those weeks where I think nothing is exactly going to go right.............and I need an escape route!

Hope you have managed to slide back into action again Ann with H back under your care.One day at a time is one of my favourite mottos and I think it might just serve you well.

Trusting your “Green fingers” triumph Anno with your catmint and Blueberry plant, which if it does well will provide you with great health giving benefits.

Loving your descriptions of life with the young ones
GreyD.....they are prone to this non stop chattering,I wonder, were we like that back then?
Very adventurous too on that lake.....but nice and cool I would imagine?!!!
My man has just completed our ironing,well those things that are a must,he was well trained in the R.A.F.......... so if you speak nicely.....he might just help you out!!

Still rather hot around the collar..........and I feel rather swamped, so I think time to devour one cold magnum...........have a lovely evening folks.

soop Wed 25-Jul-18 17:23:30

Greyduster
Aww! What a cherub. Feet up and... BREATHE
I'm on my way. Double choc Magnum in the freezer please. grin

Panache Take it easy. Don't overtax yourself. You know it makes sense. wink

Until tomorrow smile and moon
I would have been meeting Baggs but MacSporran has an appointment early afternoon in Campbeltown. Regular scalp zapping procedure to look forward to.

harrigran Wed 25-Jul-18 17:33:28

Thinking of you today Maw and sending best wishes.

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