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Do you think this is dangerous?

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Kerenhappuch Fri 08-Jun-18 09:48:23

My MiL gave my small an adult darts board one Christmas without consulting us, and I'm afraid I had the same reaction - as a mother of small children you are used to foreseeing the worst case scenario and trying to head it off. I don't understand your objection to children's scissors, but if that's the mother's wish you should abide by it. It only takes a second to have an accident with sharp scissors, and then how would you feel?

wildswan16 Fri 08-Jun-18 09:46:18

I think it is important that small children are allowed to use scissors and other tools whilst being supervised. That is how they learn how to use them safely. I've known ten year olds who aren't allowed knives to eat their dinner with!

However, mum's word is law I'm afraid. Maybe she would feel happier if you included her in one of your sessions so she can see how the children are capable of using them.

gillybob Fri 08-Jun-18 09:28:11

Children using scissors is not dangerous when they are used correctly and supervised by an adult GrannyGrey so I think maybe your daughter is overreacting a little. She really should be happy that you are interacting with them and entertaining them with craft instead of plonking them in front of the TV like plenty others might do . My DGC love cutting and sticking and have done so since being very small . They have created some wonderful scrapbooks . We have always used small proper scissors, safely supervised . I can’t see a problem .

GrannyGrey Fri 08-Jun-18 09:21:24

I look after my dgds twice a week and yesterday I had them and we did our usual arts and crafts. I've got loads of ribbons and glue and we just cut out pictures from magazine and stick them down. Keep them entertained for ages.
I let them use my small (adult) scissors but I'm always at the table with them when they're using them. They are 3 and a half and 5. They're very confident and I can see the 3.5 year old has got better at using them over the past few months. At no point are they in danger that I can see - they don't run around with them. But my daughter came to pick the girls up yesterday and got very carried away by how dangerous it was allowing them to have scissors and I need to be more responsible. hmm What do you think? I hate the plastic kids' scissors because I think they're a con and kids are perfectly capable of learning to use proper things if done safely.