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Willow500 Sun 22-Apr-18 07:20:53

No not that! I've been idly looking through Right Move at properties way out of our league financially but suddenly realised if we miraculously won the lottery I no longer would want to buy a 6 bedroomed luxury house with vast acres of garden or dozens of rooms. Gone are the days when a huge house even appeals. All that cleaning, all that gardening - although I guess if you did win the lottery you'd be able to employ a little man grin

Are there things you once desired but now feel too old to want or need?

BBbevan Sun 22-Apr-18 16:14:02

I used to love all the 'dangerous ' rides at fair grounds. I recently went on a chairoplane with GD1. I was terrified. One for her safety and two for my own. I was so so relieved when we were back on solid ground Never again

sharon103 Sun 22-Apr-18 16:02:52

Direne3 that made me chuckle.

Lona Sun 22-Apr-18 16:02:48

Sitting on one of those low, sloping roundabouts at the children's playground with my dgd. I fell off sideways and cracked my ribs!
Now I'm much more careful and dgd always checks which is my bad knee grin

Marg123 Sun 22-Apr-18 15:52:37

Climbing through the soft sand of the sand dunes to get off Harlech Beach. Adore Harlech beach but now need walking poles, or a kind SiL to get me up.

muddynails Sun 22-Apr-18 15:50:37

I only want this because I am too old to do many of the things I previously could, I would like ====
To be young again BUT
Knowing what I know now of course

newnanny Sun 22-Apr-18 14:47:04

I have always dreamed of going to Australia to see the boxing day ashes. My children do not like cricket so have never wanted to go. Now I wonder if I will ever go At Christmas I like to cook up a feast for all the family to enjoy and I enjoy doing it. This year with the cheating fiasco I wonder if I will ever do it or not. Even though my sons have grown up now they still live at home and I can't imagine leaving them to fend for themselves over Christmas even though they can both cook a roast.

mabon1 Sun 22-Apr-18 14:39:38

My home is a modest three bed dormer house semi detached. I would like the same house in a small plot on it's own in the country.

tubbygran Sun 22-Apr-18 14:38:42

marionjean54 Thank you for your suggestion, we’ll look into it.

Direne3 Sun 22-Apr-18 14:30:15

I used to love lying on our lawn and watching the clouds - I worry now that my (nice) neighbours would be ringing for an ambulance.

hildajenniJ Sun 22-Apr-18 14:25:48

tubbygran I know exactly how you feel. Our lovely little dog was euthanased just after Christmas. I'm too old now to have another. The house is empty without a dog though.
I always wanted to travel the world, most of Europe will have to suffice, I'm too old now to be off around Asia and the Americas with a backpack!

annodomini Sun 22-Apr-18 14:09:54

I used to fancy a nice speedy convertible car, speeding around the country with the wind in my hair. Then I thought a large, comfortable SUV would be ideal for going to visit my grandchildren. Now? I'd settle for a small automatic with air conditioning, like a Smart Car. And hopefully no more speeding tickets. blush

Marionjean54 Sun 22-Apr-18 14:01:19

Try the Cinnamon Trust Tubbygran

BRedhead59 Sun 22-Apr-18 13:54:45

I've lived in the country most of my life and now want to escape to the town where there are bus stops, and things going on I can get to if I can't drive at some point. ...Oh and no gardening!

tubbygran Sun 22-Apr-18 13:50:41

PS please feel free to dm me if you know of such a dog.

tubbygran Sun 22-Apr-18 13:49:17

We have had a dog since we married 48 years ago. Unfortunately, our lovely Labrador died last October.
I feel too old to take on a puppy and the dogs in rescue homes all appear to have problems. If only we knew of someone who was unable to continue looking after their dog for genuine reasons.

Nannylovesshopping Sun 22-Apr-18 13:16:58

MawBroon hahaha I still scrub up quite well, was out with dd last week, she said ye gods mum you’re flirting with him, he’s half your age, omg he’s flirting back!!grin

Chinesecrested Sun 22-Apr-18 12:20:13

I'd like to catch up on all the travelling that I didn't do when I was younger. Not too old yet, and in reasonable health. I suppose when I had the money I didn't have the time, OR spent it on other things eg the house. Now that I'm retired, I've got the time but not enough spare money unless I borrow. And DH is still working. Must start doing the lottery!

nellgwin Sun 22-Apr-18 12:16:10

Sex grin

dbDB77 Sun 22-Apr-18 12:12:15

I love cooking - when I was younger I wished I could afford genuine Le Creuset pots & pans - now the children are grown up and gone and I could afford to buy them, my poor old hands and wrists can't lift the d**n heavy things grin

millarhandbags Sun 22-Apr-18 12:00:59

Never to old to look. However thats as far as it goes.

sweetcakes Sun 22-Apr-18 11:50:48

When the lottery first started I remember an rather elderly couple won and the first thing she was going to buy was a decent set of teeth for her husband at the time I thought what a waste BUT now I kind of understand she was content with life and that's all she needed to buy!
But yes I too have dreamed of the big house lots of money so no to the big house but I would like a smallish one where I didn't have neighbours so close by the sea would be nice......

henetha Sun 22-Apr-18 11:36:51

I always had two dreams. One was a cottage in the country and the other was a holiday home in France.
I partially achieved the first one, except that it's a Park Home instead of a cottage. The second one I honestly think I'm now too old for. Not sure I could be bothered with setting up a new home and all that entails. Instead I would travel the world staying in nice hotels and being waited on.

GabriellaG Sun 22-Apr-18 11:24:57

Er...'two of hers'? I should have mentioned they belong to a friend. blush

Peardrop50 Sun 22-Apr-18 11:23:39

I do have my dream home, four bed rectory with a view of the church. An acre of manageable garden. We have recently completely gutted the house and made it very user friendly and uncluttered so that we can continue to enjoy it for a while longer.
We are currently making more gravelled parking area to cut back on garden maintenance and have requested very raised raised beds for flowers and veg.
We have decided that one car is enough now that we’ve retired and have gone for a Skoda yeti so that I can get in and out without bending. Marvellous.
So hopefully we can continue to entertain family and friends for another ten years or so before looking at retirement homes.
By the way, my physiotherapist friend says that moving to a bungalow too soon is not wise, she treats lots of what she calls bungalow knee.

DoraMarr Sun 22-Apr-18 11:23:27

To Welshwife: you're describing my home! I sold my big suburban house, much to the concern of my children (I"d lived there 30+ years) and that's exactly what I have, with a park, a cinema and an arts centre on my doorstep-and a supermarket-and a JL ten minutes away.
I think I'm too old for running, though. Tried it last week, to catch a bus, and could hardly lift my feet of the ground. And what a sight I must have looked! sedate walk from now on.