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Women in the gents!

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henetha Sun 18-Mar-18 12:12:26

Yes, that does seem odd, Nonnie. I wonder what they were up to?

Bibbity Sun 18-Mar-18 12:10:50

They may have identified as male confused

Nothing is private any more. And if your DH wanted to go into a women's toilet now he could not be challenged.

Nonnie Sun 18-Mar-18 12:09:27

Yes, *henetha I understand it as a mistake, I think we have all done that but these girls clearly knew as they had to pass the men using the stalls. Not sure why they needed to go into a cubicle together!?!

henetha Sun 18-Mar-18 12:03:42

I blushingly admit I've been guilty of this. Accidentally of course.
I once walked into the sailor's toilets on HMS Fearless.
(at Navy Days in Plymouth). I came out very fast after various comments from the sailors.
My friend Mary and I walked into the Gents at the Dover Ferry Port. Again, a fast exit was necessary!
And, more recently, I was amazed when a man walked into what I thought was the Ladies in our local Sainsbury's.
It turned out it was me that was wrong, - I was in the Gents.
Yes, I am short-sighted. And yes, I am bonkers.

Chewbacca Sun 18-Mar-18 12:00:42

I think I'd agree with you Nonnie. Did none of the men in the gents at the time say anything to the 2 girls? My OH would have been very embarrassed if he'd been "caught in the act"!

SpanielNanny Sun 18-Mar-18 11:58:08

I’m not sure if this is exclusively the domain of the young. I must confess, in my younger days, to nipping into the gents when the queue to the ladies was too long. I suggested this once to my dil at the theatre when the ladies were very busy and she was absolutely horrified by the suggestion. I’ve never really thought about the double standard, although I can see exactly what you mean.

Nonnie Sun 18-Mar-18 11:45:31

In the interval at Symphony Hall recently DH went to the loo and while he was standing there doing the necessary some girls walked in and two of them went in one of the stalls. He was too surprised to comment.

I appreciate that there may be places where the Ladies is too busy but SH does have enough to cope even at its busiest. Is this another sign of the young having to have everything instantly?

If a man had gone into the Ladies would security have been called and would he have been labelled a pervert? I think it is worse for a woman going into the gents as far more is exposed!