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jordana Tue 06-Feb-18 15:32:58

I wonder just how many of us have most things we use often within easy reach of our usual chair? Looking over at hubbys chair ... he has newspaper, specs, pen, tea cup, medicine tablet box. Me... I thought didn't have anything till I looked and saw much the same! Do we really get so lazy as we get older or is it just us two? I remember my mum having everything to hand

allule Fri 16-Feb-18 14:51:48

Not quite the same thing, but I have devised a useful improvement.
We bought adjustable beds, but they bring you forward when you sit up, and put the bedside cabinet out of reach.
I got my sil to cut me a piece of board which fits on the inside rim of the top drawer. (Could have done it myself, but didn't have a saw!)
Two strips of beading underneath hold it steady, and it's perfect to hold cups of tea etc.
I use the drawer for medicines which are best kept out of sight, till the lid is lifted.

jordana Thu 08-Feb-18 14:30:14

I guess hubby and I are not alone then in keeping things within easy reach of "our" chairs and not lazy either. Which brings me to another question - if you have your own chair, can you take a moment to observe if it faces a door or window? I read an article ages ago where a psychologist states that a woman sits where she can either face a door or window. Reason being that she looks for a means of escape for her and the family if danger is imminent

annodomini Thu 08-Feb-18 12:00:26

Elrel - a woman after my own heart. I must remember that carrier back tactic!

Saggi Thu 08-Feb-18 11:05:34

Jordana....I don’t consider it laziness just good sense to have things to hand...having just come home from walking 2 miles to the gym...swimming 40 lengths...and walking the 2 miles home vis Sainsbury’s to do bit of shopping I don’t consider myself lazy ,as I sit surrounded by my ‘stuff’.

Elrel Thu 08-Feb-18 10:39:53

sometimes forget.
I’d better go ... ?

Elrel Thu 08-Feb-18 10:39:03

I have 3 hotspots (as Flylady.com dubs them). I shouldn’t be online, I should be tackling one. I sit by a large coffee table which has a jumble of books, pens, notebooks, essential scraps of paper, junk mail and other things. The sideboard and hall table are similar. When I’ve tidied for expected visitors I clear a surface into a carrier bag (easy to sort later) which I hide and

hazel311259 Thu 08-Feb-18 09:26:00

Nanny mc geek it all makes sense now ?

Witzend Thu 08-Feb-18 09:22:56

Gosh, I think I'm very lazy, but all I usually have is remotes and tissues if I've got a cold (too often lately). iPad as a rule only if Dh is watching some programme I'm not interested in.
My laziness consists (among other things too numerous to mention) far more of still being in dressing gown at 10 am - and furthermore no longer even being embarrassed if I have to answer the door in it.

GrandmaL Thu 08-Feb-18 08:19:12

We used to laugh about my late mother in laws piles beside her chair, she used to call it Paddy’s Market!
Now we both find we have Paddys Markets of our own beside us!!

Synonymous Thu 08-Feb-18 00:38:39

I am normal too but I don't have any skeletons by my chair though! grin
Since DH has become pretty much chair bound over this last year we have resorted to a basket beside each of our armchairs with pretty much the same selection of things as everyone else.

In the interests of having everything much tidier I have been trying to find the kind of side table which one of my American friends has. It is a 3 drawer chest with the top drawer containing a recharging station for all things technological. It has an extendable table on the very top so that you can put out more than just a couple of cups and biscuits and just under the table top there is a very shallow pull out tray which holds pens, pencils and other small useful objects. I can find similar available in USA on the internet but apart from wanting to support British businesses the shipping costs make it prohibitively expensive. Unless any of you know where I can get one in UK?

starlily106 Wed 07-Feb-18 23:12:56

Good grief, after reading all of this I now realise I am normal. I thought I was the only one, now I know I'm not.

Fairydoll2030 Wed 07-Feb-18 21:39:36

me
iPad & stand
iPhone
Handcream
Nail oil
Nail file
Notebook
Pen
Calculator
Small tray
Half bar dark chocolate
Bottle water
DH
Nothing!

Hm999 Wed 07-Feb-18 21:22:38

Having everything to hand sounds very sensible to me, getting out of the comfy chair is hard work.

Kim19 Wed 07-Feb-18 20:48:38

W11girl, this is neither a competition or an either or. I'm markedly older than you and manage to do both quite successfully. I enjoy the success of renovation with the regular seat at the end of all chores.

Lilypops Wed 07-Feb-18 20:38:15

Reading all the posts about your clutter and what you have on your table next to your chair , I think it all sounds homely and comforting, I think that rooms with no books, knitting iPads etc don't look like a home , I have my weekly magazine, pens , 2pairs of glasses , one for reading /knitting and a pair for watching telly, a nail file , 3 books I will get round to reading, and the daily paper , it's my clutter that makes me feel happy,

Cherrytree59 Wed 07-Feb-18 18:52:20

00mam00 I try hard to be minimalistic but I love your table!
Are you a Natural History professor??
Your table makes me think Indiana Jonessmile

pollyperkins Wed 07-Feb-18 17:28:34

I think I'll show this thread to DH who is meticulously tidy and puts away anything I leave about. He thinks I'm dreadfully untiday but reading these comments shows me Im not too bad . I usually just have a couple of pairs of glasses , my IPhone, book and the Radio Times near my chair. Oh, and the remote control. He keeps putting the last two items away which defeats tge object of having them really!

travelsafar Wed 07-Feb-18 17:21:08

iIhave my handbag at the side of the settee where i sit, my knitting bag on the floor and the newspaper or the tv mag sits on the cushion beside me and my knitting or crocheting that i am actually working on is lying on top of said paper or mag along with a pattern.The remote controls for tv and virgin box are there too and on the little table beside me is a bottle of water and usually a cup of tea or coffee. I think i must look like a 'clutterbug' to anyone entering the room. Do i care?Not a hoot!!!!smile

NanaMacGeek Wed 07-Feb-18 17:11:35

hazel311259 Wed 07-Feb-18 11:03:13
You have asked how having the remote helps my OH to doze? It's quite simple, he asks me if there is anything in particular I want to watch, then takes the remote, changes the channels a few times, then finds something he wants to watch (but keeps hold of the remote in case he wants to try something else). The next thing I hear is very gentle, regular breathing, his eyes are closed and he is still clutching the remote. It works every time! hmm

Marmight Wed 07-Feb-18 17:05:34

I've always had my 'stuff' to hand. Late DH used to call it my nest. I feel comfortable and cosy when surrounded by my bits & pieces. My bed is now the same; a bit like an office grin. And, yes I am lazy but I always have been!

W11girl Wed 07-Feb-18 17:03:55

I’m 65, have just got off a ladder having painted a window frame. Don’t think I’m ready for the cosy setting yet!

lizzypopbottle Wed 07-Feb-18 16:58:14

I get 10,000 steps in most days looking for my reading glasses! Obviously, this is a gross exaggeration but you get the picture ? I don't lose them deliberately to get me out of the chair. I just put them down and then have to look for them.

annemarg Wed 07-Feb-18 16:28:29

This is my clutter:
knitting bag,
tissues
cardigan (in case the temperature drops!)
newspaper
magazine
tablet

Husband's clutter
remote contnrol
teacup
mobile phone
glasses (2 pairs)
tissues
house phone

The other sad thing is that the magazine with the TV programmes in it lies on a table near the window. One of us asks the question "What's on tonight?". Then we both look at the magazine which is about 5 steps from where we sit and big sighs from us both - who is going to get up and get that magazine?

inishowen Wed 07-Feb-18 15:14:07

Good topic! I have a glass of water, empty mug, pile of magazines, phone, glasses, 2 paperbacks, and a knitting pattern. DH has two empty mugs, glasses, lots of paperwork, headphones and a table lamp. We have a table each and every time he puts something on mine, I give it back!

Greciangirl Wed 07-Feb-18 15:03:25

I keep all my bits and pieces in a round wicker basket just beside my armchair.
Everything I need in there. Also a lot of stuff I don't need.

Remote control always resting on chair arm. Need it to turn of sound of the annoying ads on t.v. Also, a place mat to put my cup of tea on.