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Anniebach Sun 04-Feb-18 13:13:29

The inquest into my darling daughters death is on .Tuesday. I am not going. What can I expect? , have never attended one, didn't go to my husbands inquest . I am getting very anxious about it.

Crafting Tue 06-Feb-18 19:13:39

annie you loved your daughter and she loved you. I hope you can find some peace now. ((Huggs)) flowers we all wish there was more we could do to help.x

MawBroon Tue 06-Feb-18 19:11:52

Anniebach my heart goes out to you. This is such a distressing ordeal for you to go through and I truly wish there could be an end of it and you and your family can grieve in peace. ??

Anniebach Tue 06-Feb-18 19:04:20

I am fully aware I have posted things which make it easy for me to be traced, I don't care.

The link I posted, same mental health team, same police, same coroner. My darling daughter lived for several years next door to Graham, she comforted him, phoned several times when he said he was going to end his life, I use to talk to him , it was pitiful . When I broke the news of his death to my daughter she sobbed and said they all knew he wanted to die so he could be with is mother .

SueDonim Tue 06-Feb-18 18:56:59

Oh Anniebach. sad

Is this something your SIL wants to challenge? I imagine you'll need a lawyer to help. It seems utterly bizarre, as does the other report you linked to. I can make head nor tail of the comment about that poor man's shoes.

Morgana Tue 06-Feb-18 18:44:27

Only just found this thread. So sorry Annie to hear about the difficult time you are having. I am glad that our good wishes are helping. Like many others I am sure, I sobbed and sobbed when I read your initial post about your daughter's death. You have been so brave. We shall continue to be here for you.

Cherrytree59 Tue 06-Feb-18 18:25:17

Annie Love to you and your family.
I wish we could all give you a Gransnet group hug. xxx

Anniebach Tue 06-Feb-18 18:20:21

www.brecon-radnor.co.uk/article.cfm?id=105076&headline=Coroner%20says%20reason%20why%20man%20drowned%20in%20river%20Usk%20%27a%20mystery%27§ionIs=news&searchyear=2017

kittylester Tue 06-Feb-18 18:05:14

Just more love and hugs Annie. I don't have any words.

Luckygirl Tue 06-Feb-18 18:00:39

Let them write what they will on their bits of paper annie - you know your own DD and she will always be in your heart. flowers

1974cookie Tue 06-Feb-18 17:56:21

My heart goes out to You and your Darling Daughter Annie.
Thinking of you both. ??????

Fennel Tue 06-Feb-18 17:44:53

Annie - flowers
No words.

M0nica Tue 06-Feb-18 17:34:50

Oh, Annie, how terrible for you, especially as I told you that I thought the most likely verdict, in the circumstances, would be 'took her life while the balance of her mind was disturbed'.

You have been badly let down by your Mental Health services, much as your DD was, and indeed by the Coroner, who seems to have lacked any compassion or indeed any critical faculty to wonder why the MH authority said she had no mental health issues, when she had been an in patient so many times. Probably covering their backs because they knew they had failed her and were worried about any repercussions.

callgirl1 Tue 06-Feb-18 17:24:36

I`ve been thinking of you most of today Annie, hoping that you will eventually find peace and solace.

Squiffy Tue 06-Feb-18 17:13:09

Oh Annie sad I know nothing about how inquests work, but can the decision be overturned?

Anniebach Tue 06-Feb-18 16:38:23

Thank you all x

Son in law just phoned - verdict Suicide

There was alcohol in her blood but coroner dismissed it because her tolerance level was unknown

Her GP gave the date when he first started treated her, said she suffered much anxiety , agitation and was depressed.

The psychiatric hospital said she had no mental illness . This beggars the question , why did they admit her five times in seven years , the last time just a few weeks before she died. There was no report that she had taken an overdose several times , no mention she self harmed to the extent she had stitches on more than three occasions .

Seems taking Valium and anti depressants does not mean mental health problems.

Son in law spoke out, said he and I saw the changes in her after the birth of their third child which concerned us.
Her wild shopping sprees, her taking the keys out of the doors at night incase one of their children unlocked a door , went into the garden and drown in the pool. Nothing from the psychiatrist who told me he though she had bipolar , he is no longer working in that hospital.

They are sending me a full recording of all that was said.

No one from the local rag there , I wonder if they can ask for a transcript . I will now have to wait a week untill it is publish and see if they do print anything about the inquest.

Luckygirl Tue 06-Feb-18 16:01:29

A long day indeed; but we are all by your side.

midgey Tue 06-Feb-18 15:59:24

Thinking of you Annie, flowers

kittylester Tue 06-Feb-18 15:14:36

Sending hugs Annie. The waiting must be awful.

farview Tue 06-Feb-18 14:54:02

this is a long long day for you Annie..?x

grannyactivist Tue 06-Feb-18 14:37:31

Annie, I imagine you will soon hear from your son-in-law as to the findings of the Coroner - I hope your questions will all be answered and that you will then be able to find a measure of peace.

Crafting Tue 06-Feb-18 14:33:16

Even with all the troubles you have annie you still take the time to offer comfort and support to others.

We all feel for you. Hope the outcome of today doesn't cause more upset for you flowers xx

Jalima1108 Tue 06-Feb-18 14:10:26

Just wondering how you are
flowers

loopylou Tue 06-Feb-18 13:27:55

God bless you Annie.
I've been thinking of you all along, just sending love and a big hug x

SueDonim Tue 06-Feb-18 13:24:32

Thinking of you, Annie. Xx

annsixty Tue 06-Feb-18 12:58:50

Just flowers and loving thoughts for you Annie