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Can I take the decorations down now?

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Teetime Tue 26-Dec-17 09:25:49

I know its traditional to take the decs down on 12th night but I really couldn't bear that. I always have them down by 1st Jan - but I'm very tempted today- might do a bit of thinning out tomorrow with the usual Wednesday clean through.

Jalima1108 Tue 26-Dec-17 20:11:05

Can I take the decorations down now?
No you may not Teetime
(after all, mine have only just gone up - well, a few days before Christmas!)

tchwink
see - I'm still wearing my Christmas hat.
I'll allow you to do it next Monday at the earliest.

NannyTee Tue 26-Dec-17 20:09:59

Exactly . Each to there own. There house, there decorations. It's not a big deal.

kittylester Tue 26-Dec-17 19:10:34

That's the point really, isn't it paddy, each to their own.

I'm sorry to hear about your daughter - I must have missed it if you have mentioned it before.

paddyann Tue 26-Dec-17 18:40:53

she's COPING .dont know whats going on with this keyboard

paddyann Tue 26-Dec-17 18:40:07

we had a lovely day yesterday with our D and family she's just been told she can expect to be in a wheelchair by this time next year,we'll make sure the kids and she enjoy every minute of this christmas ,twinkly lights and tree may well stay up longer IF the kids want it to.She's coping remarkably well ..in public so anything that keeps a smile on her face will be the order of the day

Iam64 Tue 26-Dec-17 18:19:55

I'm just back from a walk in the dark with the dogs. I'm pleased to report that the majority of houses are still lit up brightly. I'm not criticising folks who get fed up with all the razzmatazz, the cooking cleaning tidying up dogs children relatives c* tv but - I'm so pleased not everyone feels like that.

Cherrytree59 Tue 26-Dec-17 18:00:34

Teetime I'm not grumpy either however ours decs will be down soon.
I will leave some nice candles out.

But like you would love some fresh flowers although I do have a couple of white and pink (one of each) Amaryllis which are blooming quite splendidly at the moment.

I am looking forward to the scent of a lovely bowl or two of hyacinthsunshine

rascal Tue 26-Dec-17 16:47:16

They will come down on 2nd January here. Life is not the same now, it's a struggle since my beloved husband died a few years ago. tchhmm

Menopaws Tue 26-Dec-17 15:39:46

In years gone by when I suffered PMT I would rip the decs down before twelfth night esp as children back to school by then so it felt wrong to have them up and I had had enough and wanted to feel normal again but now we have minimal decs to please the grandchildren so they will come down the day after their visit

Teetime Tue 26-Dec-17 14:57:03

Thankyou for the support. We havent had any visitors this year so it is just to suit DH and I. I shall proably take them down at the weekend as we arent expecting anyone then either. I shall then fill several vases with fresh flowers, restock the fridge with lovely fresh food buy some more wine, spring clean the house and look forward to spring.

cornergran Tue 26-Dec-17 14:38:12

Depends when they are installed maybe? Ours arrive at the beginning of December. By this week they start to look a bit dusty so gradually they are cleaned and packed away. Outside lights go on New Years Day. The trees and lights stay the longest. We have some battery lights that are in various items all year round to brighten dark corners. Each to their own I say.

lemongrove Tue 26-Dec-17 14:37:31

Ours will be up until 6th Jan ( then sadly packed away) they look so lovely, especially all the green garlands and lights,
But each to their own, as to duration.

NannyTee Tue 26-Dec-17 13:01:57

I am glad that I didn't put up as many this year though. I was always sorry when it came to the taking down and packing away. tchconfused

loopyloo Tue 26-Dec-17 13:01:09

Yes Teetime, you can take the decs down whenever you like. Its entirely up to you. Just enjoy your home and have it the way you want it.

humptydumpty Tue 26-Dec-17 12:49:03

mcem lighten up, what about some Christmas cheer yourself to other GN posters instead of moaning!

MissAdventure Tue 26-Dec-17 12:09:36

Mine will be coming down soon. It'll be nice to have room to move!

kittylester Tue 26-Dec-17 12:03:07

Maybe Teetime's visitors have gone for this year or, maybe, she hasn't had any at all!! tchsad

phoenix Tue 26-Dec-17 11:36:53

We have an artificial olive tree in hall which has fairy lights on it all year round, not turned on in the Spring and Summer months, but very cheery in the Autumn and Winter.

Niobe Tue 26-Dec-17 11:31:33

2nd or 3rd of January for me. By then they will have been up for two and a half weeks so I am happy to pack them away.

mcem Tue 26-Dec-17 10:56:06

'Twinkly bright and cheery' or 'obsessively tidy'???
Wonder which sums up a little seasonal cheer?? Wonder which option my GCs would prefer as they visit over the next week or so??
Given that this was the first this thing I saw on GN today I'm afraid my first reaction was not 'oh what a pleasant lighthearted thread'.
Each to their own!!

GracesGranMK2 Tue 26-Dec-17 10:51:42

I thought it was perfectly reasonable too Teetime. After all you were not being judgemental (or only about your own decs) and you were not telling anyone else what to do.

I shall do whatever makes me feel comfortable at the time but I had little chance to put much up this year so it isn't annoying me yet.

Feelingmyage55 Tue 26-Dec-17 10:38:46

Ooooooooops family arriving today so mine are going up as other people's coming down - like escalators. Today is the day for us! Didn't have the oomph until we knew they were on their (long) way. Happy times!

Teetime Tue 26-Dec-17 10:24:38

Thank you kitty it was meant to be jokey - like have you put the sprouts on yet. Got my Goat!!!

kittylester Tue 26-Dec-17 10:20:37

Flippin' heck is all I can say.

What unwarranted nastiness from some people. I thought Teetime had started a fairly light hearted thread and certainly not a grumpy one!

NannyTee Tue 26-Dec-17 10:18:11

My DD puts hers up on the 1st of December. Our 18month old DGC still revels at it every morning like its the first time she's seen it haha .