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I'm going to burst if I don't tell someone!

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Icyalittle Sat 02-Sept-17 10:09:50

Definitely needs a nice anonymous forum, this! My daughter-in-law is pregnant! 11 years married to my DS, both very workaholic career people, she's now 42. I knew they had tried and it hadn't happened, but I had thought that was it, no children for them. She's just coming up to 12 weeks and they haven't told anyone other than us yet, so I can only share on here. Now I am so, so happy for them, and just very anxious that nothing goes wrong. Thank you, you may now clap.

dogsmother Sun 03-Sept-17 16:14:46

Thrilled for you, I'm the child of 41 year old who then had another at43 and this all almost 60 years ago ? It will be a piece of cake and they will remain forever young too, keeping up with the trends.

Denrog Sun 03-Sept-17 15:28:58

Our 41 year old daughter just had her first baby, our first grandchild and we are over the moon. Mother and daughter doing well!

sylviann Sun 03-Sept-17 15:21:53

Congratulations very happy for you xxx

willa45 Sun 03-Sept-17 14:52:08

My heartfelt congratulations!! Our own niece had her baby girl at age 45! Becoming a grandma is a joy like no other, so how not to share your wonderful news?! All the best to you and your family

ruthjean Sun 03-Sept-17 14:40:47

lovely news, and all should go well if she is compliant with her ante-natal checks!

glynis1234 Sun 03-Sept-17 14:32:38

This is the best news, congratulations to you all. Hope all goes well. x

SusieB50 Sun 03-Sept-17 14:14:59

Congratulations ! I'm sure all will be well and she will have special attention . My sister had two at 41 and 42 with one ovary ! My DD had her second at 41+ It was an easy pregnancy and a bouncing boy of nearly 9 lbs arrived in a great hurry !

LynW Sun 03-Sept-17 13:55:47

So pleased for you - can totally understand your bursting pride and joy. My daughter-in-law also expecting at 42 - albeit it's a second baby. Always a worry but one has to trust in the experts. Pleased for you too.

adaunas Sun 03-Sept-17 13:20:36

Congratulations. Hope it all goes well for all of you. My mum was 39 when my sister was born and 41 when my brother arrived. She said she got a lot more care than she had with me, years earlier, but everything went well.

SparklyGrandma Sun 03-Sept-17 13:12:40

Well done your DS and DiL, Icyalittle.. a close friend of mine had her first child at 42, her second at 44....both children now healthy teenagers.

Misha14 Sun 03-Sept-17 12:29:50

Wonderful news. I'm smiling for you, too.

villy Sun 03-Sept-17 12:04:19

Wonderful , wonderful news. My daughter was 39 and had quite given up . She went to the doctors with a tummy upset , her 'tummy upset ' is 6 years old now and is the delight of our lives .

Icyalittle Sun 03-Sept-17 11:57:35

Oh wow, such lovely stories and thank you all for your positive thoughts. I feel as if I have had a whole GN baby shower already! StKilda definitely no need to give up hope, hang in there and who knows? So many successful older mothers mentioned on here. I have never pried or asked, because I didn't know if it had become choice or chance with them. Granny23 my DD doesn't know yet, but she and her husband are going there for the weekend in 2 weeks time, so that will be when they get to know. (Yes, I'm babysitting!) You are so right, it has been difficult for her, knowing that her older brother and his wife were struggling.

Skyandblossom Sun 03-Sept-17 11:40:49

Congratulations! ? I had my youngest at 44. He was fine.

Granny23 Sun 03-Sept-17 11:30:32

Does your DD know yet? She too will be more than delighted as there is always a slight cloud over your own happiness in your children when you know that your sibling is trying but failing to achieve the same blessing.

vickya Sun 03-Sept-17 11:30:29

#1 daughter had her second child at 42, when the first was 9, and #2 daughter had her first at 41, after a miscarriage the year before, and her sister had one too before the second child. Second daughter's was born at home in a birthday pool with 3 midwives there, 2 to assist and one to take photos, of which there are more detailed ones that I wanted to see!

Both late birthed offspring seem fine, if hard work for an ageing granny. I was thought old for it when I had daughters at 28 and 30! Now with the gap I'm in my early 70s and love looking after grandchildren, having wanted them for so long.

Congratulations Lyca and all best wishes for the whole family. Start knitting?

Bellanonna Sun 03-Sept-17 11:26:27

Glad you posted your excitement! Great news. One of my DDs had her son at 42. Perfect little specimen, and no problems. It will be lovely when you can "come out" about this good news.

Musicelf Sun 03-Sept-17 11:16:06

Icyalittle - just wanted to add my congratulations; I can well imagine how excited and thrilled you must be! I'm sure all will go well and we will all be checking back to read about your new grandchild before we know it.

Meer13511 Sun 03-Sept-17 11:13:12

Congratulations
My daughter was 41 years and 2 months old when she had her first baby. All was well.
Best wishes to you all.

Speldnan Sun 03-Sept-17 11:11:04

Brilliant news! A lady in my reading group recently had her first baby at 40+ after they'd given up hope of it ever happening. The pregnancy and birth all went well and they have a beautiful, perfect little girl!
Fingers crossed this is how it will be for your DIL.

Sheilasue Sun 03-Sept-17 10:56:03

Great news, enjoy being a gm. X

Daisyboots Sun 03-Sept-17 10:51:54

Delighted for you and them. Friends of mine reached 40 with no sign of a baby and didn't seem bothered and then suddenly she was expecting twins conceived naturally.

GrandmaMoira Sun 03-Sept-17 10:50:41

Congratulations.

Craftycat Sun 03-Sept-17 10:49:08

I'm so pleased for you all. Enjoy your wonderful new grandchild.

LouLou21 Sun 03-Sept-17 10:47:58

A mere youngster my mother had twins at 46 and my brother at 48. Congratulations a whole world of happiness is coming your way x