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Conflict between DH & Mother

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Baggs Sun 20-Aug-17 19:15:08

Oh wait, the 'ptoblem' is that you want to bring them together. I"ve no suggestions there but the thank you thing is easy enough.

Baggs Sun 20-Aug-17 19:13:54

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Baggs Sun 20-Aug-17 19:13:41

Move on, as your mother seems to have done. Why isn't a letter or phone call by you sufficient to cover the thanks of both of you? Or, if your DH objects to being included in the thanks, just thank your mother yourself and leave it at that. Enf of problem.

Luckygirl Sun 20-Aug-17 19:06:57

Keep all the money for yourself!! grin

Sheian57 Sun 20-Aug-17 19:03:27

Around 3 years ago my DH and Mother fell out and resulted in DH refusing to visit her or allow her to visit our home. I want to bring them together and put the conflict away. My mother s recently gifted us a sum of money addressing it to both of us, but DH refuses to phone and thank her. What do people suggest I do now. Am in the middle.