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Why do you come to Gransnet?

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 20-Jul-17 15:52:30

Aside from the virtual cake obviously... grin

It would be really helpful for us to know what you like about Gransnet, and what draws you to the site? Is it the general chatter and social aspect, the advice, the competitions, the word games, the articles, the webchats. If you were to pick your top three (or if you can't think of three then just one will do!) reasons for logging on, or what keeps you coming back, what would they be?

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 19:39:56

Well it could Blinko but don't you think you would have to think really hard about whether GN was the right place for you if that happened? I really don't think it is likelyhmm. No one, should it be possible and GN agree, which I actually doubt they will, has to use it but those I really don't think those people who don't want such a thing should dictate to those who might.

durhamjen Sun 30-Jul-17 19:47:22

It would be good to hide the meaningless posts.

Darnsarf Sun 30-Jul-17 21:10:35

It certainly would! grin

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 21:19:44

The thing about the 'hide' is you get to choose not to see those which are meaningless to you. Everyone who finds them meaningful can continue to read them and they can hide the person they think makes meaningless comments. It could be you or me (I know that's difficult to believegrin) but we would never know and the occasional person we decide to hide wouldn't know either but they would stop winding us up.

durhamjen Sun 30-Jul-17 22:17:36

By meaningless, I mean literally those that have no meaning, not those you just disagree with; those posts by people that add nothing to the discussion, but feel they have to make a comment, otherwise people will forget they exist. A bit like trump's tweets as opposed to Obama's.

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 22:24:53

grin

Darnsarf Sun 30-Jul-17 22:26:16

The arrogance of your post is simply breathtaking. Almost funny. But not.

durhamjen Sun 30-Jul-17 22:27:44

Is it arrogant to explain what I mean? I don't think so.

Tegan2 Sun 30-Jul-17 22:34:34

I do sometimes question why granset don't allow things that other forums do eg 'hide' and 'edit'. If other forums didn't allow them I'd understand but I feel that they don't think we're capable of using such facilities correctly sad.

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 22:34:55

It was only 1a grin Darnsarf. Some people are offended by very small things

Darnsarf Sun 30-Jul-17 22:36:55

Who are you to decide who's posts are meaningless? What gives you the right to decide that they add nothing to a discussion? When you own your own website or forum you will be able to decide who does,and who doesn't post their comments. Until then you'll just have to get used to everyone having the same rights to post their comments, however inane you may find them, whether you like it or not.

durhamjen Sun 30-Jul-17 22:41:34

I can decide what I think is relevant to any discussion and can decide to ignore that person if I want. It has nothing to do with anyone else.
Just saying a hide button would make it easier. Nothing wrong with that.
Who are you to tell me whose comments I should or shouldn't read?
I haven't said everyone doesn't have the same rights to post, have I?

Anniebach Sun 30-Jul-17 22:44:52

No post is meaningless, they mean something to the person who wrote them.

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 22:46:14

That's just meaningless Darnsarf. Anyone can have an opinion about a post being meaningless. We are talking about one person choosing not to see another persons posts. Perhaps you haven't read the rest of the thread but just decide you want somewhere to be angry but, as an example, me not seeing your post would not stop anyone else seeing it unless they decided they didn't want to interact with you - all individual decisions. You will be suggesting we have to read every thread next - people don't you know.

Marydoll Sun 30-Jul-17 22:46:25

Good point, Anniebach

Darnsarf Sun 30-Jul-17 22:46:31

I do hope that GNHQ bring in the hide button. The sooner the better.

durhamjen Sun 30-Jul-17 22:48:27

You wouldn't have said that if what you had read was meaningless, would you?

Darnsarf Sun 30-Jul-17 22:50:12

It would depend entirely on who had said it .wink

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 22:50:14

Angels on the head of a pin Annie. You are hardly likely to hide your own posts from yourself are you?

Anniebach Sun 30-Jul-17 22:54:49

But no post is meaninless

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 22:56:56

It may well be meaningless to the reader Annie. You can keep saying 'no post is meaningless' but that doesn't make me believe that I am allowed to decide, in my own mind, that one is.

GracesGranMK2 Sun 30-Jul-17 22:57:16

not allowed!

durhamjen Sun 30-Jul-17 22:57:33

I wish I did emoticons, gracesgran.

Jalima1108 Sun 30-Jul-17 23:02:46

That's just meaningless Darnsarf. Anyone can have an opinion about a post being meaningless

"I think that's just meaningless Darnsarf. Anyone can have an opinion about a post being meaningless"

Darsnsarf's post could be very meaningful to someone else though, so it's wrong to say that it is meaningless. It is a matter of opinion - or semantics.

Shall I do an emoticon? I can only do the ones on here, not the clever ones that other people seem to do.
grin

Jalima1108 Sun 30-Jul-17 23:05:11

my post meant a lot to me anniebach
But no-one had to read it if they didn't want to
wink
(another emoticon, please note)