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What motivates you?

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LadyGracie Wed 19-Jul-17 20:27:38

Fortunately Imperfect the iPad helps me out blush. My spelling is not as good as it used to be, too many gadgets!

Imperfect27 Wed 19-Jul-17 20:02:24

Ooer LadyGracie and oh dear - teacher / spelling mistake! grin

LadyGracie Wed 19-Jul-17 19:51:12

A compère with a sweaty top lip and hot sweaty hands .........

Imperfect27 Wed 19-Jul-17 18:59:46

Ha ha - gillybob at least you have avoided being leered at by a creepy compare!

gillybob Wed 19-Jul-17 18:47:55

Forgot to add my desire for world peace Imperfect27 wink

Nice thread (for a change) though.

Imperfect27 Wed 19-Jul-17 18:43:31

gillybob grin

For motivators you could also read drivers/ positive energisers / what makes us want to respond in life ...

Didn't mean this to sound priggish / virtuous - I just found it interesting to have to think it through for myself.

gillybob Wed 19-Jul-17 18:20:34

I am motivated mainly by my desire to look after my family. I am generous with my time and happy to share anything I have.

Feels like I am being interviewed for Miss World grin

although with this ugly mug I wouldn't have got through the first heats

Cherrytree59 Wed 19-Jul-17 18:13:18

I am motivated by my family and the weather.

My values are the 10 commandments taught to me as a young child by my father.
I am not a practising Christian but I suppose something that has been instilled from such a young age sticks.

LadyGracie Wed 19-Jul-17 17:55:22

My OH motivates me, I'm lazy by nature, give me a book or some knitting and I'm happy. But if he's busy say gardening, I'm out there.

My core values are similar to all that others have mentioned too.

ninathenana Wed 19-Jul-17 17:17:31

I agree with N&G for me core values and motivation are different things. Basically I'm not a motovated person and never have been. I've always just rolled along letting it happen.
My core values are all that others have mentioned.

Greyduster Wed 19-Jul-17 17:10:37

I have no idea what motivates me either; before I retired it was just to be the best I could be at whatever I did and I hoped that my children would embrace the same philosophy. As for core values, they are what my father instilled into me, and I have tried to instil into my children:
Love of country,
Loyalty,
Compassion,
Integrity,
Respect for others.

NanaandGrampy Wed 19-Jul-17 16:16:05

I think there can be a difference between core values and what motivates you.

I think core values are the tenets you live by such as kindness, respect but things that motivate you can be quite different.

When I was still working I would have said my motivators included recognition , power, knowledge etc but I wouldn't say any of those things are my core values.

I think my core value could be summed up by the title of an old Enid Blyton book ' Mrs Do as you would be done by'.

Great question OP>

kittylester Wed 19-Jul-17 16:11:50

Am I peculiar, shallow or dim? (No need to answer).

I don't really understand the question.

I have no idea what motivates me - I have never thought about it. I just am and do!

I look forward to other people's answers.

grannysue05 Wed 19-Jul-17 16:09:46

Truthfulness
Honesty
Work
Freedom
Fairness

M0nica Wed 19-Jul-17 16:04:44

Justice - it includes all the others

Hipsy Wed 19-Jul-17 09:47:12

compassion
forgiveness
generosity
faith
honesty

who am I kidding?

Imperfect27 Wed 19-Jul-17 09:40:53

Here's something to stir the grey matter... and maybe not to be answered quickly ... I was recently challenged to think about what my core 'values' are. For years I have worked in church schools and to build Christian ethos, we have been tasked with choosing and promoting 5 values, such as 'respect'. 'forgiveness', 'kindness' ... By promoting these values, the thinking is that they become adopted and become 'drivers' - frames of reference to live by.
My top 5 ... rather fluid and in no particular order, but I think they are:
respect
service (in community)
kindness
thankfulness
integrity (which involves courage!)

Just something to have a bit if fun and reflection with...