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Nanabilly Fri 16-Jun-17 17:47:34

Well!
Just had a quick read of a respectful parenting website..basically it's treating your children like adults,letting them choose what to wear ,what time to go to bed,how to have their hair, if they want to eat dinner or not. They make the choices of how to live their little lives.ok in some things I suppose but what about when they start nursery or school the poor things will be so confused when they are being told what to do .what about when you take them to a wedding for example of a restaurant or shopping centre.??? Nothing about holding hands though and cuddles.
Did anyone see the little brats on tv with Ruth and eamon holmes where the parents had no control and the kids were wild. Reported heavily in the papers and magazines..in my opinion if it's not done right it will be chaotic if it can be done right at all. rod and own back are the words that spring to mind
Not sure I would go along with it

Nanabilly Fri 16-Jun-17 17:32:48

I am going to have to Google this but it sounds American to me .wacky!!
Can't imagine there being much living and cuddling going on . Asking for trouble later in life in my opinion.

ninathenana Fri 16-Jun-17 17:04:19

So are you being a respectful parent by sticking to their rules or are they being respectful parents to your GC ? confused
Where is love in all this.

MawBroon Fri 16-Jun-17 16:52:34

Oh dear, another loopy fad.
Of course nobody wants "disrespectful" parenting but this does sound like another snowflake recipe for "little emperor" disasters.hmm
Hard to keep the lip buttoned but I suppose you will have to.
My sympathies.

HildaW Fri 16-Jun-17 16:43:34

Have never heard of 'respectful parenting' is it something from the U.S.?

Tiggersuki Fri 16-Jun-17 16:39:37

Anybody have children practising respectful parenting with your grandchild? I am not allowed to pick up my grandson, am not trusted to look after him or be alone with him in case I am insufficiently respectful. He is two and a half now and I have never been allowed to babysit or have him to myself.I might give him an unsolicited hug!