Aw, thank you all so much, it's lovely to be back with friends again. 
I did sleep in the house before moving into my son's room, lol, so he now has my old room although at the moment he has granny flowery paper to contend with and a new single bed instead of his big double one he left, which got took to the tip! 
It would be good to try to get this operation sorted for over the summer months, about August maybe when my son is home for the summer break. That way he can be with me while I'm in intensive care and then look after Maggie, Lily, Graham and T.C. when I get on a ward. I have a friend who will look after them meantime. Other than that, if it is longer than that, then it will have to be over Christmas when he can be home again.
ann Thank you so much, it would be lovely to see you. I did go into going elsewhere but decided that the MRI was the best place for this type of operation. So it will be great to meet you in person and have some girly company. How are things going with you? How are you coping with things? Are you getting some time off?
Well, I've put some food on, not ate much yet at all. How are you all doing on the healthy eating? So I'm off for some late tea. Take care, chat soon. Xxx