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The expression "I'm good"

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thatbags Mon 06-Mar-17 10:13:59

There have been discussions before on Gransnet about the expression "I'm good". I liked Minibags's explanation of it back then as simply an alternative way of saying "I'm fine" when someone asks how you are: there's not much difference, when all's said and done, between "I'm feeling fine" and "I'm feeling good", it's just that we miss out the word feeling.

But yesterday I learned of a new meaning. Because I had to fork out some extra money for Minibags to buy xmas presents for her pals, I said she had to repay me in car-washing. It's too easy to keep expecting to reach into the Bank of Mum and Dad without any responsibility.

Anyhow, she had a friend staying over on Saturday night and I was out for most of Saturday so the car-washing commitment was 'forgotten', as it has been a few times when she was conveniently 'busy'. I reminded her about it on Sunday while her pal was still around and said, in pal's hearing, that Pal might help. Evidently, Pal thought not. She said: "I'm good" and it meant "I have no intention of getting off my arse and helping Minibags with her chores. I am content to carry on with what I'm doing right now and let her do it herself."

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vampirequeen Mon 06-Mar-17 10:17:53

grin

hummingbird Mon 06-Mar-17 10:48:09

Well now you know, Bags, and you might find it a very handy way of getting out of the things you are asked to do for them ???

POGS Mon 06-Mar-17 11:12:10

So the next time Minibags wants a lift or a favour is mum going to say 'I'm good'. smile

rosesarered Mon 06-Mar-17 11:15:47

Or.....could it have meant that she ( the pal) was 'good' with the idea of helping wash the car?

Ana Mon 06-Mar-17 11:19:04

And if minibags asked for a lift and her mum said 'I'm good', might that not imply that she agreed (ie was fine with it)...? confused

POGS Mon 06-Mar-17 11:46:36

Flipping heck , no idea 'I'm good' with whatever is said.

thatbags Mon 06-Mar-17 12:38:52

When it comes to meaning, context and body language matter. It really was obvious what Pal meant smile

thatbags Mon 06-Mar-17 12:39:12

So Minibags went out and washed the car by herself.

Christinefrance Mon 06-Mar-17 12:50:41

I have heard it used in that context as well. When asked if she wanted a second helping of food my daughter said "no thanks I'm good"
I refrained from making any comment. smile

rosesarered Mon 06-Mar-17 14:07:40

Not much of a pal then bags grin

LadyGracie Mon 06-Mar-17 16:25:23

My SIL says I'm good to everything, it makes my hand itch! One day!

MrsPeel Mon 06-Mar-17 19:39:06

When someone approaches me in the street for a survey or to sign up to something or for money, I always say 'I'm good thanks' and keep on walking. I repeat as necessary. Seems to work.

Greenfinch Mon 06-Mar-17 19:52:48

Another expression that really bugs me is the response" no ,you're all right" to the offer of help etc.

Penstemmon Mon 06-Mar-17 19:59:06

I have heard it used that way thatbags in US films/TV shows.

I suppose it translates into "I am perfectly happy as I am and I am not keen to do anything else!" shock

SueDonim Mon 06-Mar-17 21:05:01

My dd uses 'I'm good' in that way, too.

sara4 Mon 06-Mar-17 21:07:49

And where did the expression 'back in the day'come from?. I've noticed lots of people on TV using it and hadn't noticed it before. Perhaps it is just me.

Jalima Tue 07-Mar-17 10:18:51

Little DGD says it and I am so tempted to say 'oh, that' good because sometimes you can be naughty'

I have heard it used as 'no thankyou, I am just fine as I am, i don't want to go out' or 'no thankyou, I don't want any pudding/a drink etc' by various younger people.

Jalima Tue 07-Mar-17 10:22:19

However, it is usually with the addition of 'thanks' so some manners still exist!

thatbags Tue 07-Mar-17 10:24:36

So, clearly, that's what it means in those situations. Language is not static. The expression I'm good means more than it used to mean.

Meant to put it in inverted commas but my iPad keyboard refuses to cooperate sometimes.

gillybob Tue 07-Mar-17 10:30:22

Yes Jalima my eldest DGD uses it in that way too. "how are you?" "I'm good, thanks".

The two eldest girls have a thing about the word "same".

On will say "I think this or that" and the other one will just say "same" (meaning I think, I agree???).

Jalima Tue 07-Mar-17 10:32:18

Language does evolve but not always for the better!

Jalima Tue 07-Mar-17 10:35:05

I'm good thanks = 'I am very well, thank you' or 'I am perfectly happy with the status quo, thank you'

gillybob Tue 07-Mar-17 10:38:48

Nowt wrong with that then Jalima.smile

Maybe the young people are practising a kind of language austerity. Why use 20 words when one or two will do?

gillybob Tue 07-Mar-17 10:40:16

As in.... "I would rather stay here and continue to watch the television. rather than help my friend wash your car"

becomes

"I'm good"

smile