What to eat

I'm the opposite. I love my meat and my husband moans if we have too much meat. He prefers fish, or just veggies.

Having said that, you could decide on about 10-12 different dishes which you know he likes and rotate them every two weeks, having your baked potato or risotto with a tiny portion of whatever he has. Men don't notice if the same food crops up again and again. And the extra pots of gravy in the freezer is a good idea, too!

You have full sympathy from one who's DH doesn't eat anything spicy no pasta or rice dishes, doesn't eat veg apart from carrots and peas, likes potatoes any which way thankfully.
So its pies, sausages,stews his with just meat potatoes carrots, onions and gravy, cook lots of veg separately and add to my stews and some days we cook two meals or he cooks himself something like sausage and mash or pie and mash or chips he cooks himself. A very unhealthy diet.

He is a nightmare if we go out somewhere other than a carvery but I love him and I'm used to his ways now. Sorry I don't have much advise other than let him do his own or grin and bear it..

He would get seven ready meals from the supermarket to heat in the microwave. There is no joy in cooking for fussy eaters.

You could make and freeze mini pots of gravy and sauces, that way you can both eat the same meal and he can douse his plate as he sees fit.

I know this a foodie thread and I want to keep it 'light' but he sounds like a pain. Even if you're at home and he's at work, it's a chore to be the one who is planning and cooking all meals. Made even worse that he then complains and you 'have words'!

Do what my DM did, and buy M & S Liver and Bacon for Dad to save retching as she handled liver!