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Ana Mon 06-Feb-17 11:08:28

Yes, agree, that's always gratifying.

ninathenana Mon 06-Feb-17 11:07:18

MawBroon yes I can get slightly miffed by it. I've probably done it myself.
Apologies to anyone if I've ever made you feel slighted.

Anya Mon 06-Feb-17 10:56:38

There again, I do get quite a glow when someone says they agree with me - especially when the post was quite a bit back in a thread. Ah ha! Someone actually took the time to read and digest what I wrote wink

Ana Mon 06-Feb-17 10:49:30

I hate the idea of a like button. What if you never got any 'likes'? And I do think it makes some people play to the audience so you're never sure who means what...

NanaandGrampy Mon 06-Feb-17 10:46:20

I blame the platform GN uses. If you go an any other forum like this I suspect you will find a like button. Then we wouldn't have to say I agree with x.y or z , we can simply like their post - or how about lets get radical and have a Like and an Agree button !!!

felice Mon 06-Feb-17 10:42:16

DD does this all the time to me and I used to just ignore it, now I point out that I already suggested such and such and if she listened she would hear.

gillybob Mon 06-Feb-17 10:41:14

This happens to me a lot too MawBroon . Sometimes I hope someone might disagree with me just to get a reaction!

I must admit to not always reading really long threads from beginning to end and I wouldn't be offended if anyone said "I said that three pages ago" smile

Our WI recently had a quiz night and although I am not the brightest of buttons academically I am pretty good at (often) useless facts. In every walk of life you get the "bossy boots" the one who has to "hold the pen" or "fill the answers in" etc. and on this occasion "she" insisted that her answers were the final answers. I was beyond angry when my answers were ignored but admit to having a sly grin when the quiz master read the correct answers out at the end"

Gloat? Moi? grin

MawBroon Mon 06-Feb-17 10:33:17

Oh jalima blush
Fat Finger Syndrome!!! Should have been CHAT!!

Jalima Mon 06-Feb-17 10:24:14

I am wondering why this is under the 'Charities' heading
Is it because we should all be more charitable to each other, as someone tried to suggest recently?

Jalima Mon 06-Feb-17 10:21:53

Yes, [sigh] but I am quite used to it. DH does it to me all the time - my suggestions always go over the top of his head until Joe Public down the road suggests the same thing.

And apologies if I have done it to others - Ana I know I am guilty - it may be that sometimes some threads are tltr all through and great minds think alike.
wink

Jane10 Mon 06-Feb-17 10:21:08

Is there anybody there?
grin

Ana Mon 06-Feb-17 10:05:52

Yes, it happens to me quite often on here. Usually someone will come along who hasn't bothered to read the whole of the thread and adds their two penn'orth which is virtually what I suggested several posts ago.

Whether others agree with that poster or not, it's still irritating!

MawBroon Mon 06-Feb-17 10:00:43

Does anybody else feel like bouncing up and down like an over enthusiastic Labrador and saying "Me too!"?
The scenario
You comment on a post, possibly agreeing with a previous poster and suddenly everybody is saying "Absolutely, yes, you are so right X, Y, and Z" (but not YOU)
Or in a group (like my book club) when somebody is trying to remember a character's name or maybe an author (we are quite forgetful).
You say it.
They carry on agonising and discussing then, Eureka moment, somebody else says " He/she was called X" and it seems churlish to sit and mutter "That's what I said 10 minutes ago"
What is the solution?
Speak up?
Shut up?
Of course if this is the only post on this thread and it disappears off the bottom of the page I know I am in fact invisible.