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Ruthyo Sat 21-Jan-17 14:05:08

We have had an invitation to a wedding evening reception in the summer. The couple to be married are in their 20's and the RSVP card to be returned says "I /We promise to dance if you play..................................." I'm interested to know how you would all fill in the blank?!

EmilyHarburn Sun 22-Jan-17 11:59:13

Whatever you think of go on Utube and you will see the song/music in action ie. Rock around the clock tonight, Gay Gordons etc. Then you can pick which one you feel fit to dance and put it on your reply.

Its a great idea. Have just had quite a party myself going though the options I can think of, and watching the dancing on the computer.

Lilyflower Sun 22-Jan-17 11:37:00

The Phil Collins' version of 'You Can't Hurry Love'. It's my DD's favourite and it got everyone on the floor at my sixtieth.

Riverwalk Sun 22-Jan-17 11:05:39

I think it's a great idea - love all the suggestions so far! Saturday Night Fever for me

Pinkshoes26 I've never been to a wedding where you had to buy your own drinks shock

Jalima Sun 22-Jan-17 11:00:33

We were asked for requests to be sent with our RSVP to a friend's DD's wedding.

There was a lovely range of music played from Sinatra, Bennett etc to more modern tunes.

Jalima Sun 22-Jan-17 10:58:42

We refused to go.
I wonder if you were missed?

BBbevan Sun 22-Jan-17 10:37:34

Wham, Wake me up before you go go, always fills the dance floor.

Harris27 Sun 22-Jan-17 10:32:17

We had same request it's just to get the music right and the dance floor filled don't worry just enjoy the day!

SusieB50 Sun 22-Jan-17 10:27:40

MY DD and SiL were in their late 30's when they married and had a small select party for the actual meal. Then there was an evening celebration and had asked for requests prior to the event.We had a great time and everybody danced ,the music was great as the requests ranged from the 60's (our era ) right through to modern day (teenage nephew and niece) .
Not everyone can have a huge flamboyant wedding and it's a way of ensuring as many people can join in the celebrations . Presents were not mentioned at all on the invites but I know they got cash and vouchers from many .

Nona4ever Sun 22-Jan-17 10:11:48

Pinkshoes26 - why are you trying to derail this thread? The OP was asking for friendly advice, not a rant.

Pammigran Sun 22-Jan-17 10:07:12

I've been to 2 weddings where this was done, it's a great idea, love it.

inishowen Sun 22-Jan-17 10:00:01

I don't like the evening do either Pinkshoes. I feel you're not good enough to go to the wedding but you're needed to make up the numbers in the evening. Not for me I'm afraid!

Jaxie Sun 22-Jan-17 09:59:14

How about " Is this the way to Amarillo" to encourage everyone to get up and do that daft march thingy. Or "It's so good to have a man about the house" or smooch to It's a Man's World" .

Crazygrandma2 Sun 22-Jan-17 09:50:51

Let's Dance - David Bowie

Nanna191729 Sun 22-Jan-17 09:49:53

It's Raining Men
Frankie Goes to Hollywood - Don't Do It (or whatever it's called)
Jeff Beck HeighHo Silver Lining
Sinatra New York all seem to work

Nvella Sun 22-Jan-17 09:35:42

Tutti Frutti - Little Richard

ninathenana Sun 22-Jan-17 09:32:25

Pinkshoes evening invitations are common. We had them at our wedding 42 yrs ago. H and I have had a couple and attended. Most people can't afford to cater all day for everyone they would like to invite. I find a free bar is the exception these days for the same reason.
The cash only request is a different matter but understandable if a couple have been cohabiting for a while.

I like the song idea, a good way to ensure the dance floor is full. 'I Wanna Dance With Somebody" ( if that's the title) would be my choice.

hicaz46 Sun 22-Jan-17 09:27:32

Definitely 'Dancing Queen' you can't beat some Abba

Teddy123 Sun 22-Jan-17 09:23:16

Black Eyed Peas "I got a feeling"

Nanna58 Sun 22-Jan-17 09:22:12

D.I.V.O.R.C.E by Tammy Wynette, only joking, I think it's a nice idea to get a mix of the music everyone likes.

sue1169 Sun 22-Jan-17 09:08:33

would not woyld ?

sue1169 Sun 22-Jan-17 09:07:50

.....woyld have to be Tamla Motown???

Craftycat Sun 22-Jan-17 09:04:29

Uptown Funk. I love it. Can't sit still if it is on. Or anything by TRex.

Badenkate Sun 22-Jan-17 08:55:53

Anything by the BeeGees ?

oldgaijin Sun 22-Jan-17 08:53:42

An eightsome reel or Strip the Willow, definitely!

granfromafar Sun 22-Jan-17 08:49:49

Same as KatyK (The Mavericks) plus All Right Now by Free - my all time favourite. Wish my DS and future DIL had done this but the invites have already been sent. Maybe they could put slips on the table an Great idea. ?