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dorsetpennt Sat 07-Jan-17 13:06:47

A customer recently complained to Tesco regarding people shopping in their pyjamas. I saw the article on a Facebook page and commented that I felt it was not the right attire for doing ones shopping. I was amazed at the response. Most of the commentators felt it was perfectly fine and I was being judgemental . I just felt standards are slipping to a new low . I remember my mother's disgust at women who shopped with their hair in curlers , what she'd say to this I dread to think. Is it o.k. to shop in your night clothes ?

stillaliveandkicking Sat 07-Jan-17 19:04:22

Just goes to show its a preference and good luck to anyone who doesn't feel the need to kit themselves out everyday. Im so glad Im over 50 and really rather un-noticeable when going about my business, whether its "stinking" due to not showering every morning or not. Good on them I say. If i see a pyjama clad person in sainsburys in the future I'll have a titter at the storm they've caused due to other pinched clean freaks smile

lesleylogan Sat 07-Jan-17 19:15:18

Cant say it is something I have done before, usually too cold.

TriciaF Sat 07-Jan-17 19:34:18

I once got out of the car at the supermarket and realised I was still wearing my slippers - that's the nearest I've got to it.

Jalima Sat 07-Jan-17 19:37:21

I didn't have a shower this morning shock although I did yesterday and I will have one tomorrow!
My hair is better if it is left for 3 days or so between washes.

But I don't wear my pjs all day either.

rosesarered Sat 07-Jan-17 19:49:03

Ana grin that was funny ( complaint to Tesco) and I liked the bit that said 'Tesco does not have a formal dress code ' ....so it doesn't have to be black tie then?
I do wonder when it became no biggie to wander about in sleepwear though.

Jalima Sat 07-Jan-17 19:58:07

Tesco have changed their policy then:
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/8484116.stm

I will let DH know that he doesn't have to put on a suit and tie any more before he goes to the local Tesco grin

and
[[http://www.birminghammail.co.uk/news/local-news/aldi-supermarket-bans-customers-going-5782913]
what's the rule on going topless now?

Jalima Sat 07-Jan-17 19:58:26

www.birminghammail.co.uk/news/local-news/aldi-supermarket-bans-customers-going-5782913

rosesarered Sat 07-Jan-17 20:05:26

Well Jalima the suit and shirt and tie are fine, but perhaps he could leave out the hat, gloves and silver topped cane.grin

Jalima Sat 07-Jan-17 20:08:26

And the tap dance down the aisles!

I went to see Top Hat last year, expecting too much now from DH!

annodomini Sat 07-Jan-17 20:31:39

I do have a pair of pyjamas in bright red fleece which makes them look like a leisure suit. I wear them over my nightie while I have breakfast. I suppose, at a pinch, I might put a coat on and go to the corner shop if there was something I needed urgently, but wouldn't make a habit of it.

harrigran Sat 07-Jan-17 20:54:58

Our town has a facebook page that posts photos of people in shops in their pjs and indeed any other unsuitable clothing. One photo yesterday showed washing on a line and it was disgusting, they even named the area where it was found grin

Ana Sat 07-Jan-17 20:57:17

What was disgusting about the washing on a line? confused

rosesarered Sat 07-Jan-17 20:58:47

Was it dirty washing being washed in public?grin

rosesarered Sat 07-Jan-17 20:59:38

I hope it was hung out on a Monday ( or Tuesday at a pinch) any other day is simply infra dig

Penstemmon Sat 07-Jan-17 21:22:57

I saw a facebook page discussing this too dorset Are you in the WI?

My view is that it is a 'fashion' trend and really, in the great scheme of things not very important. I would not personally shop in PJs and dressing gown but they are not hurting anyone! The less 'air' they get the less it will be a clever thing to do!

I stood behind two sweaty women the other day in Waitrose shock in their gym / jogging clothes as they were queuing for a free coffee..that was not any better/worse imo.

Maggiemaybe Sun 08-Jan-17 08:33:04

It's been an eyeopener to me that a daily bath/shower isn't the norm I honestly thought it was. It always has been for me even when we had a tin bath behind the door, and later a bath behind a partition in the kitchen, filled to a depth of an inch from a tiny boiler. I don't think my skin has suffered in any way grin Perhaps a whole new thread?!

downtoearth Sun 08-Jan-17 08:37:47

I can't function without shower and hair wash everyday my skin and hair are fine as well

Maggiemaybe Sun 08-Jan-17 08:38:28

And I'm sure I'd reek exude a faint aroma if I only showered every other day and lived in the same clothes for 48 hours. Yuck.

Penstemmon Sun 08-Jan-17 08:38:55

Daily bathing in temperate/cold climates is unnecessary! We are overly obsessed with cleanliness imo. Washing and bathing when dirty/sweaty is to be recommended but on an average quiet day ..no need! shock

downtoearth Sun 08-Jan-17 08:41:41

Antiperspirants last up to 48hours so they say on the can....really who smells that fresh after 48hours of not even a cats lick and a promise.....

downtoearth Sun 08-Jan-17 08:46:01

I know that there is no need, but my personal preference is to shower everyday otherwise I would just feel dirty and avoid contact with others

BlueBelle Sun 08-Jan-17 08:59:47

I don't do it as a need but I really enjoy a morning shower it wakes me up I have a sing song and I feel fresh and nice to start the day I don't feel dirty as such if I didn't just not fresh I would hate to not start the day that way

Christinefrance Sun 08-Jan-17 09:10:22

Think the FB thing smacks a bit of big brother but hey life is changing now.
Daily showers/baths are a personal preference not a necessity, some people would say it's not ecologically sound. There are arguments for and against but think we have been swayed by advertising etc. When I was a child a bath once a week was the norm. shock

chrissie211 Sun 08-Jan-17 09:21:42

On holiday in America it seems the done thing for whole families to turn up for breakfast in their PJs, some decent some def not, and it is spreading. Staying in a Mercure Hotel in Bristol last year a whole hen party came down in the morning dressed in their night attire, couldn't even be bothered to brush their hair. I say get room service or shop on line, I certainly don't want to see it.

harrysgran Sun 08-Jan-17 09:29:27

I would never shop in pyjamas but I find it unnerving that people feel they can randomly take photographs of others when they are totally unaware and put them into social media sites also I find it more offensive in the summer months when men and women shop in skimpy shorts vests and very little else