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f77ms Sun 25-Dec-16 08:53:48

I would take it with a large pinch of salt if it is in the DM ! If it is true , more fool the people who are prepared to pay £60 +drinks . I could do a very good meal for 8ish for £60 .

M0nica Sat 24-Dec-16 23:24:00

They have to pay up in advance! I am quite unashamed that I read the DM. One of the weirdo's the DM trawled up for this article even admits to making a profit on the family Christmas lunch.

I can understand a family where no-one can afford to do lunch for, say, 14, deciding to estimate the cost of the meal and all agree to contribute an agreed amount to the event organiser to cover the cost of catering, or share providing the meal around the family, one doing turkey another vegetables and another, pudding. But charging as if it was a restaurant and making a profit on it.....!!!!!

And the article made it clear, none of them needed the money, all had good sized family incomes.

Nelliemoser Sat 24-Dec-16 23:08:06

I assume she informs her punters of the costs in advance. I would not pay that. Far better to plan in advance and for a family christmas do share all the work and the costs.

LadyGracie Sat 24-Dec-16 22:41:21

I wouldn't go to a family dinner and pay for it, I would offer a contribution if it was DD or DS, from what I read the family seem to accept it, more fool them.
I enjoy the Daily Mail, take it all with a pinch of salt!

granjura Sat 24-Dec-16 21:28:40

So outrageous! But the question for me is- why would any one fall for it and go???

Alima Sat 24-Dec-16 21:14:49

Is there any chance that she may be raising money for charity or is it for her own sticky mitt?

Niobe Sat 24-Dec-16 21:07:55

f77ms as christinefrance said it was in the Daily Mail. Like most on here I am happy to contribute dishes, drinks, crackers etc and even cash but I would balk at being asked for that amount of cash per head. Like annsixty I am sure I could produce a great meal for 10-12 on £60! I have a group of friends who meet up now and then and we split the cost of the food and drink and take it in turns to host the event. It's up to the host to let the others know how much was spent. Never , ever has it been anywhere near £60 per head!

Ana Sat 24-Dec-16 20:50:09

Sharp intake of breath...! shock

Christinefrance Sat 24-Dec-16 20:47:18

Yes I read that too. It was £60 per couple but her Mum and sister were on their own and paid £60 each.
That didn't include wine either.
At the risk of upsetting some people it was in the Daily Mail.

Jane10 Sat 24-Dec-16 20:23:31

We've always contributed in kind -buying the turkey or providing the champers and pud and crackers etc. Whatever is needed really. Happy to do whatever the chef (SiL) wants. I'd give the cash if they'd accept it.

f77ms Sat 24-Dec-16 20:03:47

Niobe I haven`t seen the item but would like to , where did you see it ?

Grannyben Sat 24-Dec-16 20:03:37

I think there are many people who really struggle financially and in those circumstances I can understand everyone chipping in to pay for the Christmas day food. However, I understand this lady wasn't in dire need of the money. I believe an article said her and her husband had an annual income of over £80,000 so surely it wasn't necessary for them to make such a charge. I'm sure one woman even said she includes a charge for decorating her home.

Wobblybits Sat 24-Dec-16 19:57:23

We always contribute towards Christmas dinner at our Son's or Daughters, but it isn't mandatory, we usually have to twist their arms to take it.

annsixty Sat 24-Dec-16 19:35:11

I could cater for 12 for £60 and it would be good.

tanith Sat 24-Dec-16 19:31:34

Good grief whatever next confused

Niobe Sat 24-Dec-16 19:29:34

Anyone else see the item about the women who are charging family members £60 each for Xmas lunch at home ? Not including drinks! One even has the gall to boast that she makes a profit. I would have no problem with being asked to contribute a desert or side dish but cold hard cash seems a bit much. I don't think that the meal costs that much anyway.