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I must be bonkers!

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kittylester Sun 18-Dec-16 12:01:54

Some of you will know that I have been very worried about my SiL who has seemed very depressed. Her husband (DH's brother) has just had an operation on his back so we are using that as an excuse to go and visit them. SiL invited her daughter over for the day a couple of weeks ago but suggested they eat on the way as she didn't have the energy to cope.

So, we are going on Wednesday and taking all the food with us!!

So, if anyone sees me on here, shout at me and tell me to get on with the wrapping up which I have been threatening to do all week and won't get done at all otherwise!

nanaK54 Sun 18-Dec-16 12:08:19

Not bonkers - just a very kind and thoughtful lady.

Good luck with the wrapping, I have to start on mine too

kittylester Sun 18-Dec-16 12:11:15

Actually, not kind and thoughtful because I thought they'd say no! tchblush

nanaK54 Sun 18-Dec-16 12:12:20

Ah right well I didn't know that!!!

jollyg Sun 18-Dec-16 12:55:30

Sorry Kitty we all dont know what has happened.

It might be foremost in your mind, and I appreciate that, but sadly the crystal ball does not extend as far as my house.

If we could access easily previous posts from you all might be clear, however this site dont do so

bellsisabelle Sun 18-Dec-16 13:28:45

I think that's a very reasonable thing to do.Doesn't have to be anything amazing does it? I would go for something that cooks quickly and easily. Too near the big day for anything ott.

Indinana Sun 18-Dec-16 13:44:08

jollyg that's why Kitty said 'some of you will know'

bellsisabelle Sun 18-Dec-16 13:45:22

Actually it's all there in the OP. tchgrin

Indinana Sun 18-Dec-16 13:52:37

kitty, if you're bonkers, then so am I - 3 or 4 days ago I volunteered to make a Christmas dress for my GD, because the dress my DD thought she'd be using was a bit too small. So a quick dash to the fabric shop on Thursday, pre-washed the fabric and made a start on the sewing yesterday. WHY did I have to choose velvet, a tricky sew, and a particularly fiddly pattern, complete with lining, peter pan collar and invisible zip?
Oh, and I've got three 20" x 16" photo prints to put in frames for my DS as he hasn't got time.
And I want to visit a friend who recently lost her DH.
And I've got all the food shopping to do yet.
And no, I haven't done my gift wrapping yet either. Heaven only knows when that will be done. Roll on Boxing Day grin

rubylady Sun 18-Dec-16 21:32:25

kitty How lovely of you. If it were me I'd be taking take away menus! grin

Taking it easy here, like the Cadbury's Caramel bunny!

I am down with a bad chest infection though so that's my excuse to do not very much indeed, apart from enjoy. I have been told to rest off my cardiologist too so I'm not one to argue with a big man! Feet up, crack open the chocs, good tele, doggie cuddles, (antibiotics, pain killers, inhalers etc., etc.)sorted. tchhmm

cornergran Sun 18-Dec-16 23:17:20

Bonkers is catching kitty. Always take food and cook it when we visit our poorly friend, or prepare it the day before and take it with us to re-heat. So far it's survived the one and a half hour journey and no one has been poisoned. There is time tchsmile.

Jalima Sun 18-Dec-16 23:43:53

ruby get well soon, it's a so and so isn't it. Why does a virus make your legs shaky too? Every time I try to do anything I have to go and sit down after a few minutes so nothing is getting done here.

kittylester if I send my address would you like to come to me complete with food etc - what a lovely thing to do!
And decorate the tree? Make some mince pies?
All on my list.
At least most things were wrapped a little while ago.

DaphneBroon Sun 18-Dec-16 23:51:48

Not bonkers kittyl just the kind person we know you are. ?
Virtue is its own reward, but I hope Santa is paying attention and bings something nice in your stocking.
(You have my full permission to leave this out and open so DH Santa takes the hint!! )

Skweek1 Mon 19-Dec-16 12:09:09

Wrapping presents is the Xmas Eve morning ritual over a mug of Mulled Wine or Cider.

Hope all you lovely people have a great Fesve Season and that 2017 will bring everyone everything they seek for themselves and family.

Love and peace!

Crafting Mon 19-Dec-16 12:11:18

You are kind and thoughtful kitty, as usual. Why not buy (or make) something in foil trays that can be thrown away recycled to save on the washing up. That's what I do when I visit my SIL (lazy I know blush). Now get on with that wrapping! tchgrin

Nelliemoser Mon 19-Dec-16 12:27:38

Kitty I have just popped in here for a cup of tea and a sit down. Then it's back to straining damson gin, making wine gravy.

Yesterday I suggested OH could finish my round of carpet cleaning by doing the hall carpet. He put it off for about three hours then ran out of time before he went off playing carols.
The vax machine is now out of the bath and with me in the dining room as I type. Does anyone want to lay bets on when he might actually start and finish? Last seen on his computer at 12:35 hrs. angry

Nelliemoser Mon 19-Dec-16 17:01:32

Job finished at about 15:30 hrs just when I got back from the shops. I have just stuck the machine and it's bits in the Wendy House and I will sort it all out in the light in the morning.
OH decided he was going out to the shops but I insisted I was going to Aldi anyway. Without that he probably would not have got it done.

NfkDumpling Mon 19-Dec-16 18:43:03

What a compliment that your SiL trusts you and wants you there when she's in a bad way. It just shows what a lovely person you are. Hoist with your own Whatsit flowers

(Hope you feel better soon Ruby. flowers for you too)