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Gransnet today....Just my opinion.

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merlotgran Sun 27-Nov-16 11:43:46

Don't want to completely hi-jack the 'Christmas in four words' thread so I've started this one. Feel free to shoot me down. I don't do flouncing. grin

Some time ago, the 'What does Gransnet mean to you?'thread developed into a 'Bring back jingl' campaign. Despite this, it has become clear that we are not entitled to an explanation as to why she is still shackled to the naughty step

We inhabit a goldfish bowl which must be respectable to the outside world looking in on an ageing cyber community. Old people are only expected to be curmudgeonly in books and TV nonsense. Manufactured threads about growing old disgracefully are perfectly acceptable so long as they fit the approved template which has been set by people who are NOT as old as we are.

All well and good until a situation causes a ding-dong. We must be ever mindful that Gransnet is a business relying on advertising revenue. Swearing is tolerated on Mumsnet because it's acceptable in the young and feisty whereas the 'one foot in the grave' club have to leave all that behind and remember our opinions don't really count any more.

The political threads are argumentative because that's politics. You can't put a straight jacket on a well informed if opiniated point of view which is as it should be. Folk who hide behind the sofa when all hell breaks loose should know better than to get caught in the cross-fire.

So....We're allowed to moan about Brexit, complain about our aches and pains and chat about telly dramas/adverts/music. We willingly offer support to complete strangers even though it often comes back to bite us. I'm not the only one who can spot a set-up. Above all, we must remain bland!

There were two members who railed against this. One is sadly no longer with us and the other has been kicked into touch for being too outspoken. Unsurprisingly, they rarely saw eye to eye but that's LIFE!

I'm off to put the joint in the oven. I might even start a thread about it. hmm

Only joking!

winifred01 Sat 03-Dec-16 16:55:08

Mardy, yes! What about being described as a nesh carrot?

rosesarered Sat 03-Dec-16 16:51:55

Carpet slippers

Katek Sat 03-Dec-16 15:49:52

Baffies are known as 'carpets' here!

Jane10 Sat 03-Dec-16 15:36:29

PS we'd see a smirr of rain.

Jane10 Sat 03-Dec-16 15:35:51

Oh I love my baffies, even though I am hirpling about these days. I usually keep them ben the lobby press. wink

Elegran Sat 03-Dec-16 15:18:28

gilly At Moray House in about 1960, our music teacher was a great advocate of teaching primary children local folk songs instead of poncy English tunes. He got his class of future teachers singing things like "The craw kill't the pussy, oh" from which I can add that the past of "greet" is "grat" - The mammy cat sat doon and grat.

I think he must have been a fan of Robin Hall and Jimmy McGregor, because he had us singing "Brochan Lom, Tana Lom" too (next one on Youtube after "The craw kill't the pussy, oh")

Charleygirl Sat 03-Dec-16 15:00:44

Katek I come from Fife originally and I was also used to hearing the word "mirr". A word I hate and it was used by my Fifer grandmother was baffies for slippers and also calling me hen.

kittylester Sat 03-Dec-16 14:25:27

Have you moved * nightowl*? grin

My lancastrian nan used starved for cold, siding the table, mizzle for misty rain and mardy!

Katek Sat 03-Dec-16 14:17:31

My Edinburgh granny used 'mirr' to describe that sort of shimmery air when it wasn't quite raining. I still use it but only with DH

rosesarered Sat 03-Dec-16 14:01:02

My Grandmother came from Lancashire, and she used very different words.

rosesarered Sat 03-Dec-16 13:59:56

Not to me, but then never heard anyone use mizzle either.I think it depends on where you lived, and how rural /city etc.

Gagagran Sat 03-Dec-16 13:42:46

Another Yorkshire term for being hungry is clemmed as in "I'm fair clemmed" (fair =very). Familiar anyone?

rosesarered Sat 03-Dec-16 13:39:35

Good for you Night-owl I suspect that you still live in Yorkshire( or the North) which explains it ( or do you?) A lot of us moved away years ago, so these phrases fell out of usage.I remember my late MIL being bewildered by the starved comment and also siding the table.

daphnedill Sat 03-Dec-16 13:38:32

There's a word in North German dialect 'miseln', which means a fine rain - the sort when it's misty and the air is damp, but it's not actually raining. I would guess that's where the word 'mist' comes from. It's obviously a very old word - perhaps Anglo-Saxon.

nightowl Sat 03-Dec-16 13:33:56

I still use all those expressions - starved with cold, mizzling, and frame. And I always mash the tea.

gettingonabit Sat 03-Dec-16 13:26:35

Jane Austen used mizzle for light rain. I've never heard it used otherwise.

rosesarered Sat 03-Dec-16 13:21:43

Ooh yes, 'frame yourself !' had forgotten that one, how about 'side the table' as well.Meaning clear the table.Not forgetting to mash the tea.tchgrin

Christinefrance Sat 03-Dec-16 13:15:13

Does anyone remember the expression 'mizzling' used in Yorkshire for fine rain. Also used to tell my children to ' frame ' when I wanted them to do something properly

thatbags Sat 03-Dec-16 09:44:22

My mum used to use that expression, roses. She grew up in Yorkshire.

rosesarered Sat 03-Dec-16 09:41:24

Another Northern expression is being 'starved' meaning freezing cold, not hungry.

rosesarered Sat 03-Dec-16 09:39:46

Yes, gilly the loo....there have been so many pennies dropped! grin

gillybob Sat 03-Dec-16 08:49:08

Thank you for the explaination re "chapping" . It makes perfect sense now grin

The story about the lady "greeting" made me giggle Anya . I have heard that expression so many times and the penny has just dropped. "Stop yer greetin' woman" actually means stop crying bloomin' heck I would have never worked that one out!

Roses the loo? grin

dorsetpennt Fri 02-Dec-16 20:56:38

I'm sure jingle is still on GN , she changed her name often enough. I don't mind outspoken I just didn't like nasty. One reason I kept away for a long time, I only submit now periodically until she raises her head over the parapet. I was one of the earliest joiners, I got a prize for it, I loved it and chatted back and forth. Became friendly and had private chats with two members who have left. I can't blame it on one person but there was a lot of nastiness back and forth.

Nelliemoser Fri 02-Dec-16 20:25:14

I like the term "the messages" it seems to cover all the different little things you need to do when you go out.
I might have misinterpreted that though. I am only an English woman.

thatbags Fri 02-Dec-16 15:03:44

Glad you enjoyed it, Day6. I checked and it's actually "Good Manners for Nice People who sometimes say F*ck". Fab title, I think.

My daughters, all three of them, know I use so-called swear words more now than I used to, mainly "as fillers, as padders, as emphasis adders". It's my rebellion (I didn't in my teens; was a right goody goody, daft wee bugger that I was) against erosions of liberty that are happening in society now, you know, being told how we should behave, what we should eat, blah, blah.

And talking of that, I was listening to a very good discussion between Dave Rubin (American comedian turned interviewer of interesting people) and Joanna Williams who is the author of "Academic Freedom in an Age of Conformity". Link here should you be interested in listening.