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Gransnet today....Just my opinion.

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merlotgran Sun 27-Nov-16 11:43:46

Don't want to completely hi-jack the 'Christmas in four words' thread so I've started this one. Feel free to shoot me down. I don't do flouncing. grin

Some time ago, the 'What does Gransnet mean to you?'thread developed into a 'Bring back jingl' campaign. Despite this, it has become clear that we are not entitled to an explanation as to why she is still shackled to the naughty step

We inhabit a goldfish bowl which must be respectable to the outside world looking in on an ageing cyber community. Old people are only expected to be curmudgeonly in books and TV nonsense. Manufactured threads about growing old disgracefully are perfectly acceptable so long as they fit the approved template which has been set by people who are NOT as old as we are.

All well and good until a situation causes a ding-dong. We must be ever mindful that Gransnet is a business relying on advertising revenue. Swearing is tolerated on Mumsnet because it's acceptable in the young and feisty whereas the 'one foot in the grave' club have to leave all that behind and remember our opinions don't really count any more.

The political threads are argumentative because that's politics. You can't put a straight jacket on a well informed if opiniated point of view which is as it should be. Folk who hide behind the sofa when all hell breaks loose should know better than to get caught in the cross-fire.

So....We're allowed to moan about Brexit, complain about our aches and pains and chat about telly dramas/adverts/music. We willingly offer support to complete strangers even though it often comes back to bite us. I'm not the only one who can spot a set-up. Above all, we must remain bland!

There were two members who railed against this. One is sadly no longer with us and the other has been kicked into touch for being too outspoken. Unsurprisingly, they rarely saw eye to eye but that's LIFE!

I'm off to put the joint in the oven. I might even start a thread about it. hmm

Only joking!

Youarerightornot Mon 28-Nov-16 23:13:31

I am surprised you have time to communicate, but carry on grin

Bellanonna Mon 28-Nov-16 23:05:48

Thanks !

Youarerightornot Mon 28-Nov-16 23:05:10

Enjoy your night Bella grin.

Bellanonna Mon 28-Nov-16 23:01:26

My DH is feisty (or so I've just learnt) ?

Youarerightornot Mon 28-Nov-16 22:58:13

As you know DB, many have been. You have been in the past, but that does not mean it is right.

We are not all grey haired old women who humph our tits up in disapproval like Les Dawson depicted.

DaphneBroon Mon 28-Nov-16 22:40:42

I am not aware of GNHQ bothering to edit posts and frankly don't believe they do.
The phrase you quote is not unheard of among expat Scots and to start flinging accusations of racism about is bollocks out of order.
How many "feisty members exactly, have been shut down?
Aye, right.

Penstemmon Mon 28-Nov-16 22:39:02

youarerightornot so true my Scottish pals say. "Aye, too fucking right" wink

Candlefran Mon 28-Nov-16 22:33:34

shock ! The buggers!

Youarerightornot Mon 28-Nov-16 22:28:23

Having just read all this,and the defefence from GNET, all I can say is well done OP. So many feisty members have been shut down. So many posts have been edited, such as "aye right" becoming.. "as they say in Scotland, aye right". Nobody from Scotland would ever say that, but Gransnet staff did. Racist website!

rosesarered Mon 28-Nov-16 22:21:56

moon
Who knows what tomorrow may bring.

rosesarered Mon 28-Nov-16 22:21:04

Merlot wine your thread has descended into farty feisty dogs.....

merlotgran Mon 28-Nov-16 22:02:37

Actually, I've got two but thankfully one is less farty than the other.

Luckygirl Mon 28-Nov-16 21:57:24

Let's be glad this is online grin

merlotgran Mon 28-Nov-16 21:48:42

I've got one of those grin

Ana Mon 28-Nov-16 21:47:03

Farty then? A small and aggressive farty dog? grin

Penstemmon Mon 28-Nov-16 21:44:39

grin farty gransnetters... c'mon own up you trumpers wink

thatbags Mon 28-Nov-16 21:41:08

Feisty is apparently derived from an old US dialect (old US?) word 'fist' meaning a small aggressive dog, which itself comes from Middle English fisten: to break wind.

Ana Mon 28-Nov-16 21:15:47

Perhaps we'll just have to wait for some wittier and more feisty new members then to restore the balance. And a good sense of humour would help...

Grannyknot Mon 28-Nov-16 21:10:09

Yupp.

Luckygirl Mon 28-Nov-16 21:05:28

glassortwo - the new members ARE Gransnet as much as the more longstanding ones. With every new member the forum changes its nature a bit - that's fine. Looking back is pointless - as with life, things move on.

Grannyknot Mon 28-Nov-16 21:03:28

I've decided that I am a highly adaptable person. Shapeshifter, that's me.

DaphneBroon Mon 28-Nov-16 20:59:39

Why on earth be so bl**dy rude shanma?
I cannot imagine what you have got against kittylester but it seems you are including janea in your broadside, better include me as well if being obnoxious having a
go at people is what floats your boat.

Shanma Mon 28-Nov-16 20:30:24

Janeainsworth, Have a go at Kittylester?? Sorry who IS that?, ah yes must be that irritating person that I have used my personal ignore button on ( As GNHQ refuse to give us one).

merlotgran Mon 28-Nov-16 20:29:01

Yes, I do feel like we're going round in circles, glass

Without witty and feisty posters Gransnet will soon become Grannynet where they all died of boredom.

glassortwo Mon 28-Nov-16 20:05:25

Thank you merlot for that OP well said.

This had done a full circle and is back to where we were a few weeks ago and all that was said on that post about Jingles banning and how GNHQ look upon the members here as delicate beige wearing folk that need protected.

I very rarely venture over here these days, I can stay at home to be bored...
I know all the new posters are going to bristle over this but what has happened to Gn over the last few years hmm did it have anything to do with the loss of greatnan that the stuffing had been knocked out of us all?
Is it down to losing posters like Jingle and others who were passionate about the threads they posted on, yes Jingles ruffled a few feathers but there are also the posters who stir just as much but slide under the HQ radar!
At the end of the day its down to us all to make GN as strong a community as MN but the members who are over quick with that report button need to look at the damage they are doing.