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That was a hard three weeks

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Rigby46 Sat 29-Oct-16 20:35:19

Although I'm a fairly regular poster on MN, I lurked for quite a while here before I joined about three weeks ago. In that time I've been called a precious snowflake; accused of having a fit of the vapours ; being incredibly snobby, being satisfied to have something at which to take offence, creating a storm in a teacup, sniping, jumping in on one side or the other straightaway ( as a new poster) but you know the one thing that has really cut me to the quick was being accused of only knowing about 'six quid bottles ( of wine ) from the supermarket'. Anyway, will be having a break now for a few days and when I come back, I promise to behave better and to have drunk some more expensive wine

POGS Sun 30-Oct-16 12:02:21

hummingbird

You sure did miss something. 1000 posts in fact.

Look at Site Stuff. 'OK Cari' to find out about jingle.

hummingbird Sun 30-Oct-16 11:57:34

Does anyone know what happened to Jingl??? I miss her acerbic wit and straight talking! (Forgive me if I've missed something!) ?

POGS Sun 30-Oct-16 11:47:39

Oh dear!.

What songs can be applied to GN lately?

Another one Bites The Dust.

Here We Go Again.

Life Goes On.

With A Little Help From My Friends.

Stansgran Sun 30-Oct-16 11:34:50

I'm pondering on whether or not I belong to a clique. I drink expensive wine but mainly because I'm given it. I shop at Waitrose in Hexham as a major treat. I have a cleaner who is also my therapist. I bet on the Grand National. I would like DH to wear a flat cap but he won't and he flatly refuses to keep a ferret in his trousers. Like Harrigran we Oop North are actually posher than posh and set the standards for the rest of the country. I would like to be a clique but don't really know how to set about it.

Casawan Sun 30-Oct-16 11:18:10

Think of it as therapy folks....all that angst out in the open. Enjoy it and feel better.

Anya Sun 30-Oct-16 11:16:44

I'm going to stick my head above the parapet and say that those who habitually pick at and shoot down new posters, should expect a few arrows to rebound in thei direction.

I'm getting increasingly annoyed at the cliquishness (pedants, I don't know if such a word exists but I'm sure you get me drift) of some old posters who are exhibiting all the signs of those who 'need to get out more'.

I'm not sure if this is a forum I want to be part of any more.

Yes Jane I am flouncing off, not in a huff but in a puff of frustration. And no, I'm not necessarily leaving GN, but I am going to ponder whether there are sufficient like-minded people on here to converse with or whether it's been taken over by the grumpies, the pick-pickets, the gullible and those too frightened to speak up.

I shall ponder this while I'm making Blood Soup, cooking Dragon Bones, making dead-men's fingers and bats-eye jelly thlgrin

if of course this bl***y post will actually post

grannylyn65 Sun 30-Oct-16 11:11:15

Wish we had a Waitrose

janeainsworth Sun 30-Oct-16 11:07:36

I didn't say the OP had attacked Daphne.

Anya Sun 30-Oct-16 11:03:09

There was no personal attacks on DB in the OP. Am I missing something? I've read it over and over again.

janeainsworth Sun 30-Oct-16 10:56:27

I have a cleaner. I shop at Waitrose.
I live up north.

And Gransnet at the moment is seriously getting on my tits.

There is no need for personal attacks on DB or anyone else, or attacks on anyone who is deemed to have more material possessions than some other people, or assertions of 'cliques'.

I'll leave you all to it.

That's not a flounce. I'm just going to put some bulbs in.

harrigran Sun 30-Oct-16 10:53:51

Not true Casawan about having to live in the SE and drink fine wines. I live in the deprived north east and drink only pink champagne and dine at the finest restaurants, but do wear a flat cap and keep ferrets so as not to appear too posh grin

Im68Now Sun 30-Oct-16 10:53:09

KatyK that's incredible, but I tend to use Chardonnay as a mixer for the gin, and have felt guilty, but at that price.

Just a silly question but have you ever woke up on a Sunday morning and OH said that He had a bloody marvelous night, and for the life of me you can't remember what you got up to.

Casawan Sun 30-Oct-16 10:52:11

Not just Saturday, judthepud2. Sadly, I am about to go out to visit my very elderly mother. It's so ill-mannered to stayed glued to the iPad while there so will have to pass for a while. Just when things were warming up again.....

Casawan Sun 30-Oct-16 10:48:19

Yes, have just checked and I joined 2 years ago last month. I tried posting, politely, at that time but was shot down, mostly by the same people who are complaining here. I was told, like someone has just suggested, that as I was new, I should stay silent. I was thoroughly discouraged and lurked but didn't post. Then I gave myself a good talking too, decided not to be intimidated and have recently started posting again. My past unhappy experience of this site was what prompted me to reply in support of the OP here.

Judthepud2 Sun 30-Oct-16 10:44:27

Just taking a moment out in my little thatched cottage from digging my potatoes, feeding the pig in the kitchen, making soda farls and chatting to the local leprechaun to say that I do love a good glass of wine of an evening. It's my little weakness!

No cleaner, we don't have Waitrose here, and I wish I had the time and freedom to travel round the world.

Well....back in the wellies to dig a bit of turf for the fire.

I hope you enjoyed your Saturday night's entertainment Casawan .

Ana Sun 30-Oct-16 10:28:06

I thought you'd been around for some time, Casawan, I've certainly noticed your posts before, not just this last few weeks.

KatyK Sun 30-Oct-16 10:26:40

Im68Now Yes I can do better than that. For some unknown reason (and I'm not complaining) a supermarket near me is selling bottles of Jacobs Creek Chardonnay and Hardy's Stamp white and red for £2.75!! Needless to say we have stocked up smile

DaphneBroon Sun 30-Oct-16 10:04:28

grin
Poor kittylester you didn't deserve that. Naughty iPad predictive keyboard grin

Casawan Sun 30-Oct-16 10:01:13

What sweeping statements, kittylitter? Do my posts have to meet with the approval of everyone? How long do you feel I should wait before being qualified to post? (Don't make it too long....I am an OAP after all; wouldn't want to pop my clogs before meeting whatever qualifying period you have in mind).

Charleygirl Sun 30-Oct-16 10:00:49

Nobody should have to serve an apprenticeship, they should be able to dip their toe in the water whenever they fancy but the venom directed atDB by the OP I thought was totally uncalled for.

Anya Sun 30-Oct-16 09:54:50

Kitty you are one of the nicest people on GN and I'd like to think we'd meet up one day as we don't live too far apart.

Yes, the apology was somewhat mixed, but I do think she was apologising, not for the actual post itself, but for the fact she got it wrong by misjudging the mood of some of us.

I admit to having a warped sense of humour so it actually appealed to me, the over-done stereotype of the average 'in' GNetters.

There's too much disapproval around at the moment of the new member who just jumps in and says it as it is. Like the OP. Why should they have to serve an apprenticeship?

Bring it on I say. We can take it (can't we?)

Im68Now Sun 30-Oct-16 09:50:57

Prosecoo £6.99 at our local Sainsbury, I try and buy one a week. At the local social club it's £9 in a ice bucket.
OH buys a pint of larger at £3.

Anyone do better that that ?

Ana Sun 30-Oct-16 09:45:50

There do seem to be an awful lot of members with their fingers hovering over the 'report' button these days...

kittylester Sun 30-Oct-16 09:45:34

As you say Anya, it's not like me. The apology was somewhat mixed though.

Anya Sun 30-Oct-16 09:42:40

After all our long-lost jingl was feisty too.