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That was a hard three weeks

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Rigby46 Sat 29-Oct-16 20:35:19

Although I'm a fairly regular poster on MN, I lurked for quite a while here before I joined about three weeks ago. In that time I've been called a precious snowflake; accused of having a fit of the vapours ; being incredibly snobby, being satisfied to have something at which to take offence, creating a storm in a teacup, sniping, jumping in on one side or the other straightaway ( as a new poster) but you know the one thing that has really cut me to the quick was being accused of only knowing about 'six quid bottles ( of wine ) from the supermarket'. Anyway, will be having a break now for a few days and when I come back, I promise to behave better and to have drunk some more expensive wine

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 22:41:14

Bonkers!

Ana Sat 29-Oct-16 22:43:59

Shall I decide to take umbrage/offence at that remark, wot?

No, I certainly won't! grin

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 22:45:08

Bonkers is good! Not like nasty posters who disappear after they've upset people.

Ana Sat 29-Oct-16 22:47:23

I was joking, wot, of course I know bonkers is good. We've been mates for years...grin

Casawan Sat 29-Oct-16 22:49:23

Wot - who? Me? Nasty? No, just having fun - Saturdays can be so boring.
Actually, not heard that particular saying for a long time. Getting a nostalgia hit now.

Casawan Sat 29-Oct-16 22:53:34

Anya. Ha ha, very funny. But you forgot cheering on the local rugby league team. Not a true northerner unless you're prepared to do that. Oh, and it always rains in here too. smile

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 22:54:47

Ana, and we were the champions of the music threads!

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 22:55:08

I miss them.

Ana Sat 29-Oct-16 22:57:11

Only in Manchester, not the outer bits. And don't forget the ferrets and flat caps. And the pigeons.

Ana Sat 29-Oct-16 23:00:22

wot yes, perhaps we could start another one nearer to you-know-when smile

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 23:01:07

I used to have two ferrets as pets. Cor, they Doan arf pen and ink. Very intelligent though.

Hilltopgran Sat 29-Oct-16 23:01:59

I thought we were all like those Cheshire football wives in North west, spray tans, botox and champers!

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 23:04:51

Ana, yes!

Charleygirl Sat 29-Oct-16 23:09:14

I appear to tick all of Casawan's original boxes.

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 23:16:09

Nothing wrong with that, Charley.

Casawan Sat 29-Oct-16 23:21:22

Football wives, Huh, we should be so lucky. Judging from the racket coming from the pub nearby - newly refurbished hang-out for the 'university' off shoot just down the road - it's a bit more 'Shameless' than that. Sounds a bit like the dregs of Ladies day at Aintree.
I once got bitten by a ferret, or pole cat - not sure of the difference. Anyway, the wild variety which had been caught by one of our cats. It was truly beautiful - the ferret, not the cat which was a bit of a manky mutt - so I took pity on it and rescued it. Little bugger bit me to the bone. These northern critters have no sense of gratitude at all!

Casawan Sat 29-Oct-16 23:23:24

Charleygirl - then I am moderately jealous. We don't even have a Waitrose up here.

wot Sat 29-Oct-16 23:34:57

Ferrets have got a vicious bite. They have to be handled a lot when young. They are so inquisitive and have no fear. Very energetic.

Hilltopgran Sat 29-Oct-16 23:45:45

Casawan, my favorite supermarket for a treat started I think in Preston, just had a week in the Lakes and shopped at Booths. We used to go to Ladies night at the races, so I can sympathise, but it was good entertainment to see just how badly people can behave, tinged with sadness that so much money was being wasted.

Shanma Sun 30-Oct-16 00:30:46

Hmm there is alot of sarcasm, and nit picking back biting goes on here, but it goes on everywhere, in " Real Life" too. Amongst the silly, snobby, precious or whatever stuff there are some gems of information, shared experiences, funny stories and the like.

I tend to do what I do in " real Life", which is to ignore the ones I don't like. and join in with the ones I think are ok, even if I don't agree with the point being made, after all we don't all hold the same opinions on things, which is what makes it interesting, as long as it doesn't bring on a personal attack .

One thing I do think would be good if GNHQ are listening??? Don't be so quick off the mark to delete a post, that is so annoying to log in and find a few posts missing. I am sure we are all adult enough here to cope with a not so nice post now and again? What I would like to see is an ignore button so if someone upsets us, and we don't wish to see or communicate with them again, we can press that, it is then our decision and not that of a faceless person at head office. Perhaps we can un ignore at a later date when things have calmed down. Would anyone else like to see something like this?
Sorry this is a bit of a long post, but anyway better off my chest, and on here grin

suzied Sun 30-Oct-16 04:41:22

Cassawan - I thought you had to be a teetotal northern dweller who owns a dog to be in the club?

grannypiper Sun 30-Oct-16 06:58:15

Rigby, i feel your pain. I will Stick to Hock cheapest of the cheap and lovely.I but a grand total of 1 bottle a year

kittylester Sun 30-Oct-16 07:20:50

A few points-
Some people do get terribly upset by nasty comments
We are not all women or even grandparents.
Most of us have little time on our hands to cause trouble.
GN is not normally bad tempered (or it wasn't) and is full of lovely, friendly people.

I'm sad about the way it is developing.thlsad

DaphneBroon Sun 30-Oct-16 07:28:30

Especially your final comment kittylesterthlsmile

If being rude and/or aggressive winding people up is an acceptable way to "have fun, Saturdays are so boring" that is not the GN I joined.
In the same way that it is now recognised that racist/sexist/ageist jokes are NOT "banter" perhaps they should think again.

Anya Sun 30-Oct-16 07:33:12

Think GN would be a better place if dodgy posts were ignored in the first place. Some are just too quick to jump in and turn a thread into something worse.

Glad to see lots of GN humour on here never-the-less sunshine