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(1001 Posts)Here we are again...
happy as can be
all good friends and jolly good company.
Never mind the weather,
never mind the rain,
as long as we're together...Woops she goes again.
A big, warm welcome and please continue to enjoy the companionship.
and
until I return tomorrow. x
NanaandGrampy kitty and Lona the photos have put a big smile on my face. The children are adorable. The costumes (slightly scary)
We watched a comedy/horror type drama last night. It really spooked me. I also noted the MacS looked slightly uneasy. Did anyone else watch it? It was about a haunted lighthouse somewhere in Scotland.
ann I shall not cease to remind you that us lot would be mightily relieved if you were to take the first step (discussing the problem you're battling with) that may very well make a huge difference to your quality of life. We do care. 
Wobblybits Ha! Those ducks seem to have taken a liking to you. On our honeymoon, we stayed in a lovely hotel at Lower Slaughter in the Cotswolds. When we awoke, we looked out of the window to watch a long convoy of ducks paddling along the stream. It was a special memory.
Daphne Those little boys must have raised a smile. Sugar overdose! Nah!
The poetry cheered up our pal in the care home. I've promised to search for a few more favourites. Each week we can add to his personal selection.
It's a perfect autumn day. Clear blue sky and just a hint of a chilly breeze.
My next door neighbour's little boys wore identical outfits to N&G's DGC. William, the elder is quite skinny so looked fine in his skeleton suit, but George (3ish) is shall we say, slightly roll poly (?) and fitted his pumpkin outfit rather snugly
he looked much too sweet and cuddly to scare anybody.
Too many Haribos left over so DH and I (well mostly I) finished them off.
Woke with a crashing headache -sugar overdose?
Great news CG, I suspected it was just a setup problem, but your cleaner beat me to the punch 
Lona love her outfit, like the other children she would frighten me if she appeared at my door!
Chapter 13 of my TV woes. My cleaner came today and said that she knew how to get internet connection and using her SMART phone she said that I had a reasonable connection and immediately after a few taps on my handset, it is up and running- such a pity I do not have the first clue how it works but I have promised to sit down and play with the handset while reading the instruction manual.
I wonder if JL would like her as a trouble shooter? She has saved me money because I do not need to buy an extender as I thought.
Wobbly you may understand what she did, I have not a clue.
Wobbly 
Kitty She's clearly going to be a trendsetter! 
My gd went trick or treating for the first time and really put her heart and soul into it!
We are near Lowestoft. Woken by someone knocking on our door at 8:00. Two ducks tapping on the glass with their beaks. I did have duck pate last night, but they didnt take the hint.
Good Morning all !
Its a grey dull day here ! I don't like winter much but love a good bright crisp autumn day but today isn't shaping up for that.
Today the will writing man is coming as we need to make new wills now we have retired . It should be quite straight forward ( I hope) but we had to have a discussion about who gets Sam
Of course we plan on outlasting the little chap but best be prepared ( I wasn't a girl guide for nothing !!)
Then this evening its a few hours babysitting for our eldest 2 while Mummy and Daddy work. I am taking Miss Laura to karate . We are struggling on for a bit to try and regain her previous enthusiasm .
AND....look away now I'm going to use the C word...... I wrapped all my presents yesterday !!
I am an early starter because I LOVE Christmas and everything about it and go totally overboard . So if I don't start early I couldn't get it all done in time ( or afford it ).
Ann hope your little walk out yesterday lifted your spirits a little.
Corner I think we only see ours usually as we have sweets lol but this time we did a quick supper and it was lovely to actually get time for a chat .
Right time to head off ( ps I loved the duck story WB ) sending you all cake, and a cuddle if needed !
Love the style, kitty. Why be like everyone else?
wobbly the only time we had ducks anywhere near our room was in Milton Keynes, don't suppose you are there? If there's duck in the menu tomorrow best keep yours safe 
Sounds a great evening n&g, we don't get to see ours in action so make do with photos, including the littlest with his sweet bucket on his head 
Fireworks next I guess.
Night night everyone
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Fantastic kitty she looks wonderful 
Kitty she is having a great time- I think that she may have borrowed her mother's shoes?!
What style Kitty I see a future in fashion for that little one !
NanaandGrampy the fellows are having a great time- they are exceptionally lucky they have such good parents and grandparents. I do like their outfits.
Wobbly hopefully you could shoo the duck out quickly before it left its mark in your room. It sounds as though you have a super view.
ann tomorrow please make a decision to get the ball rolling- we are all behind you.
ann my brother is a very quiet person. He hated the one day he spent in a day centre and got very angry about it. He too said he had no need of anyone to sit with him and got very shirty with my SIL when she suggested it. I know exactly the trouble you are having with your DH. He may not need someone to sit with him but you do!
My brother was totally against the idea and sulked and kicked up a fuss but we persevered and in the end he became very comfortable with the woman who sat with him. She became a good friend to my SIL as she had loads of experience and advice on how to help those with Alzheimer's. Please don't give in. Contact the council or whoever runs the carers services where you are and get some help. My SIL was so relieved that she stuck to her guns and got some help as it allowed her to keep some sanity and cope better.
No soop thank goodness , their mummy got them.
Just recovering from a lively evening of bangers and jacket potatoes and soooooooo many sweeties !! It was lovely!
ann please do consider what all your friends on here have suggested. If you don't get help you will become ill and then it may not work out the way you would have chosen. Your husband can't be the only person to say they don't want to go to a day centre, so I'm sure that they will be able to get round that problem.
Yes a real duck. We overlook the lake and I guess people feed them. Came in via open patio doors.
Kitty's post and soop's comment has reminded me of a neighbour who reacted in a very similar way. He finally agreed to be visited at home and then after getting to know the visitor agreed to go once, just to prove he wouldn't like it. Well, he loved it, its made a huge difference to him and to his wife. Worth thinking about for your husband, ann? Sorry, don't mean to nag, just hoping it might work.
ann I've just read kitty's message to you. She is right. Please consider contacting the Alzheimer's Society. It would be a big step in the right direction. It's true...you do deserve a life too. With the right support your quality of life (together with your husbands) will surely improve.
When I was last visiting our pal in the care home, he asked did I know the words of the poem - 'Cargoes'...we then moved on to - 'I Remember,I Remember', 'The Listeners' and 'The Lake Isle of Innisfree. I've copied these poems and others out in large, bold print. He will enjoy reading through his own preferred selection. I can then add to it. Had I given him the book of poems, he would not have easily found what he wanted (he's had several strokes) and when he did, the print would have been too small for him to read.
I'm logging off until after the visit tomorrow. My thoughts are with all our Granspals in need of comfort. 
Ann, just to say that, from my Alzheimer's sessions with carers, most people living with the disease say that they don't want to go to a day centre but love it when they do. The experience my friend had when someone came in and befriended her (very reluctant) husband, was that he loved having someone new to talk to. Please contact the Alzheimer's Society to see if they can suggest anything for your husband and at least come and see you. You deserve a life too!
from me too.
Tegan We've relatives in Australia (Perth)...two of MacS's sisters and husbands and all the children and grandchildren. They wouldn't wish to live anywhere else. MacS would never even consider moving away from Scotland. Not even for a holiday. 
NanaandGrampy Those two really know how to have a lot of fun. The costumes are super. Did you make them?
Wobblyb Really? Are you having us on? How very odd.
Lol I feel like I've been mugged !!
They are soooo excited especially the youngest Cooper. Whenever he sees a pumpkin now his indoor voice deserts him and he yells ' Hawoeeeen '!!
very scary n&G 
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