Simple task scares you?

Absolutely nothing else, love heights, anything like that but loathe, detest, abhor flying! I used to love it but a bad experience ruined it for me.

All these posts make me feel a lot happier about my own bugbears. I live on a single track road by a river, so if someone is driving the other way I am forced to back up. Since I am useless at reversing ( once I nearly ended up in the river, another time I got jammed in a neighbour's metal bridge trying to turn round and bashed my car up) I send up prayers every time I have to stop outside my house to unload shopping, praying I won't meet some stroppy bas-- d who doesn't even live on my road coming at me the other way. It's very comforting knowing others share these fears.

I have a fear of going into a cafe or restaurant on my own. I would go all day without food rather than eat on my own. Since being a child I have had a fear of being near tall trees. We used to visit Dunham Woods (Cheshire) when I was small and I hated it (but never said anything).

Any where there are crowds.

I have no problem with spiders at all, and will happily handle one, I adore snakes, lizards etc however large which my Partner cannot get his head around.
However, heights reduce me to jelly. Even watching a film that shows a scene looking down from a building or anywhere high makes my legs go wobbly and my stomach starts churning. I have to look away. Several years ago, my Partner, who cannot understand my fear of heights tried desperately to persuade me to go on the London Eye.
"You will love it " he said.
"You will forget about the height once you are up there, because the view is so amazing".
I could not make him understand that the only view that I would see ( that is if I were STILL conscious) would be the floor of the pod as that is where I would be laying with my eyes closed tight fighting off the nausea and the fear.
He still believes that I would love the experience, so I made a deal with him.
I want to see you let a Tarantula walk over you, and I want to see you handle a snake.
Guess what Ladies????????
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Juney64 - Well done for conquering your fear! I was exactly the same as you when I first started a couple of years ago. But I took the bull by the horns and managed to overcome my self-doubt. Now there's no stopping me!

I hate with a vengeance travelling 'blind' on buses, i.e. in an area I don't know,not being sure where I have to get off. Especially when the person who has given me directions airily says 'You can't miss it'. Oh yes I can! Thankfully,it's not something that I have to do very often.

Crikey! I'm feeling like superwoman here and almost embarrassed to say there's only one thing that I NOW won't do ..... Replace the light bulbs simply because we have very high ceilings and with advancing age I find I literally get vertigo and go wibbly wobbly on approx the 6th step. I find this very frustrating because I used to paint 2nd floor windows up and down the ladder like a monkey etc .... I now have to wait for my son to visit.

My DH has literally never figured out how to replace a light bulb!

Face your fears .... Apart from ladders!

I dunno - I am glad when I get OFF a minor road and ON to the motorway. Especially when in the UK and I keep having to remind myself to drive on the left. There is nothing between me and the traffic coming the other way and I think 'only one of us needs to have a twitch and veer on to the wrong side of the road'. Why is everyone scared of motorways?

Roller coasters and bridges were no problem when I was younger. Nowadays I don't see the point of fun rides and if I'm in a cable car or on an open bridge (isn't the Millennium Bridge like that?) I just get on with it. Eyes shut if necessary.)

Selling on e-bay. Though why it should scare me I can't imagine. Every New Year I promise myself that this will be the year I crack it and every year I fail.

I use a foot pump which has a built-in pressure gauge. I also have one which works off the battery but am terrified of draining all the power.
My worst fear of the air line on a forecourt is letting all the air out, which I have heard happens sometimes.
Every time I wash my car (at home) I check all fluid levels and tyres. They rarely need topping up, apart from screen wash.

They should check your tyre pressure when you get your service done, or take it in to quick fit or tyre shop and ask them if they can check them and then put them at the correct pressure.

Don't like glass floors or rope bridges they make me feel ill.

Kim19 what about something like this: www.halfords.com/workshop-tools/garage-equipment/tyre-inflators-pressure-gauges/michelin-high-power-tyre-inflator
haven't tried myself as we an air compressor in our workshop and use that.

Thanks Shysal. I haven't seen any witches thank goodness:-).

Thanks Tizliz - it's good to know it's not just me. I'm still wearing Gran 'L' plates. First GC is 4 months and I've yet to meet him (lives in Spain). I joined GN wearing my 'I'm a Gran' badge with pride lol. Some posts I've read have been amazing- others bring out the 'yikes'! GN sure is interesting!

Going to strange places without first checking the route and junctions on Google Earth Street View, and using the Sat Nav too; going into a pub on my own - I wait outside until my friend(s) arrive. I am also terrified of arriving late to collect G'dtrs from school - I live in a town that has a large ship canal running through it. When the bridges close to let the ships through the main roads I need to use snarl up for 30 mins or more. In five years of school and nursery runs I have only been delayed twice and have never actually been late. Nevertheless I leave a full hour early for a journey that usually takes 15mins. One the plus side, I usually get more than half an hour of calm 'my time' when I can park up and read in peace.

I am scared of driving at all. I didn't learn until my 30's and didn't have my own car for a while after that. I always felt I wasn't a good driver and was very nervous. When I went through the menopause my self confidence took a dive about anything and everything and I gave my car to my son. I now think it was one of my biggest mistakes and am paying for my 2 17yr old GC to learn.

Right Gs help required please. What are my options for putting air in the tyres other than self help? I seriously dislike doing it but....... there's only me.

I am relieved that many people are nervous or non drivers. Inever drive at night now and not too happy in the daytime! My DH will take me anywhere but is also keen for me not to lose confidence in my driving & limiting my activities. I was recently diagnosed with PD which was devastating and has knocked my confidence. I have a VWBeetle which I love but feels too big & powerful now. I may change to a smaller car but will lose a lot in the changeover.

Crafting oh I thought it was compulsory to join soop with her G&T at 6pm

My list of fears has been covered in most of the driving posts. I am surprised how many have a fear of motorways and roundabouts too. I also have a dreadful sense of direction so get scared of getting lost too.

Oooh Tizliz, you are awful. Fancy suggesting we kitcheners like the odd tipple . Pop in Juney64 you'd be made most welcome especially if you bring a nice big cake.

Juney64 I have been here for a number of years and I still write posts and then delete them. I think other people aren't interested in my opinion, or I don't know enough about the subject. Can I recommend Soop's kitchen here: www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/1230180-Soops-Friendly-Kitcheners-and-well-behaved-pets
no politics allowed, think fluffy kittens, lots of wine tea and cakes, sympathy and laughs.

Congratulations Juney! You have conquered that fear! Now the world of Gransnet is your oyster. We are not all witches!

Voicing an opinion on GN - scares me to death (seriously). I've seen a few posts which mention 'newbies' in a negative way. I've also typed a few posts and have 'chickened out' when it came to hitting the 'post' button. plucking up courage - here goes ...