Sentimental songs I can cope with, but for my dad's funeral, MY husband (who loved my American dad very much, as he had lost his when he was in his 30s) asked for:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=8h1am4_3fyQ
John McDermott- The Old Man (LIVE)
I have the CD of the Irish Tenors as we first heard it in the 90s after seeing that concert on TV. I know all the words by heart and it gets me every single time. It will be played at my husband's funeral some day along with, of course, Abide With Me. His sons have instructions should I go first. (Welsh DH)
These are the lyrics, and it does not matter if you are a daughter.
"The Old Man"
The tears have all been shed now
We've said our last goodbyes
His soul's been blessed
and he's laid to rest
And it's now I feel alone
He was more than just a father
A teacher my best friend
And he'll still be heard
In the tunes we shared
When we play them on our own
I never will forget him
For he made me what I am
Though he may be gone
Memories linger on
And I miss him, the old man
As a boy he'd take me walkin'
By mountain field and stream
And he showed me things
Not known to kings
And secret between him and me
Like the colours of the pheasant
As he rises in the dawn
Or to catch a fish and make a wish
Beside the holly tree
I never will forget him
For he made me what I am
Though he may be gone
Memories linger on
And I miss him, the old man
I thought he'd live forever
He seemed so big and strong
But the minutes fly
And the years roll by
For a father and a son
And suddenly when it happened
There was so much left unsaid
No second chance
To just say thanks
For everything he's done
Oh, I never will forget him
For he made me what I am
Though he may be gone
Memories linger on
And I miss him, the old man
