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At what age did you become a grandparent?

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Flossieturner Fri 07-Oct-16 15:38:54

My first GC was born when I was 45. The most recent when I was 67. I was just musing about other grans and grandads. I think I have been more involved in helping with the ones that have come along since I retired than the ones born while I was working. But I do not think the 22 years have made much difference to how I am as a granny. Anyone else feel the same?

silverlining48 Sat 08-Oct-16 09:13:18

61, with 2 grandchildren now 6 and 3. now 68 husband nearly 70, and both starting to feel more tired. wish i was l0 years younger. still, I wouldnt be without them.

Humbertbear Sat 08-Oct-16 09:16:13

Going back to Flossieturner's original posting, my oldest GD is 11 and I have done the school run more times in the last 11 years than I ever did when my own children were at school. By the way, I was 56 when I became eligible for Gransnet but my mother was 52 and her mother 45. I suppose that demonstrates changes in society.

Morgana Sat 08-Oct-16 09:18:14

69. Makes me sad that I won't see her grow up.

Butterflykisses Sat 08-Oct-16 09:18:56

I had my eldest daughter at 21 and four in 9 years.... I remarried and had my last son when I was 42! My second daughter had her first child at 21, so I was a granny at 45. I am 55 and have 6 gorgeous grandchildren now, including twins. I work full time and have an almost 13 year old ... I look after the twins on Saturday mornings and see no1 daughter's children regularly. My other grandson is on the mainland, so don't see very much of him?.... love them all!!!!

crazygranmda Sat 08-Oct-16 09:20:46

58 and again at 61. If all goes accordingly to plan there will be more to come from son. Best job ever :-)

hulahoop Sat 08-Oct-16 09:22:13

57yrs we were late starters so was kids wish I'd had them earlier as energy not as it was we have another to arrive in March that will make 5 altogether we are very lucky
Loopy loo I was a great aunt before a grandma as well ?‍?‍?‍??

pollyperkins Sat 08-Oct-16 09:22:57

60, eldest is now 12. I now have 6 , youngest just turned 1 and there may be more to come, who knows?

Maggiemaybe Sat 08-Oct-16 09:26:40

loopylou, I was still in my 30s when I became a Great Aunt grin It does sound a lot older than Nana.

Lyndie Sat 08-Oct-16 09:28:10

49. I now have 6 grandchildren.

meandashy Sat 08-Oct-16 09:28:38

I was 38, dd only 16 when she she had dgd. Very emotional. I wish I was in better health to do stuff with dgd now she's 5 . She lives with me ?

Pagzy Sat 08-Oct-16 09:30:37

The same age as Prince Charles -64. DGS will be 2 next month.

Zengran Sat 08-Oct-16 09:34:41

I was 55 when our one and only was born. Adore her (of course) highly unlikely there will be any others to join her. Our boys (42 and 40 respectively) don't want children and DD isn't going to have more.

Matilda53 Sat 08-Oct-16 09:48:17

I was 48 and still with a 10 year old at home! It can be really strange switching between roles and sometimes it all merges and I'm answering to mum from my grand children who are now 2 and 6. My third from my eldest son is due at any time and I can honestly say I am enjoying every single moment of being a grandma and being mum to a teenager!!

Legs55 Sat 08-Oct-16 09:50:41

I became Step-Nanny at 40, 2nd Step-GC at 43 who I was very close to as children. 2 other Step-GC not very involved with. hmm

Became "proper" Nanny at 54 when DGS born - very close even though we don't see lots of each other. We adore each other, he is special as he is my DD's, had thought she might not have children although she loves children but circumstances seemed to be against her having her own. smile

My DM was 81 when she became Great Granny which she loves, again a day she never thought she'd see as I was an only child as is DD smile

gillyknits Sat 08-Oct-16 09:53:49

I was 63. Amazing to see how many Gransneters were under 50!

luluaugust Sat 08-Oct-16 09:57:12

49 for first DGS now at Uni, youngest DGS now 6.

Grannygrumps60 Sat 08-Oct-16 10:04:18

I am a new grand mum at the age of 60. Gorgeous little boy born 7 weeks ago. I hadn't minded whether or not I had grandchildren and the strength of my love for him has completely taken me by surprise. It's as though he's always been one of the family.

oznan Sat 08-Oct-16 10:06:00

Don't be sad Morgana,you may still be around for years yet,we never know!
I was 43 when my first grandson arrived-he turned 18 on Thursday.

michellehargreaves Sat 08-Oct-16 10:06:23

I was 64. DGS1 will be 5 on the 20th of this month. 2DGDs since then, and awaiting birth of DGS1 who is 11 days late today. Beginning to get anxious!?

michellehargreaves Sat 08-Oct-16 10:07:27

DGS2 ..that should be above!

Shesanana Sat 08-Oct-16 10:11:06

I was 63 and she is 2 smile

MammaN Sat 08-Oct-16 10:12:53

I was 56 and 58, they're now 12 and 10 - still waiting for the rest, though not looking promising wink

I was 28 when I had DD1 and she was 28 when she had her first son.

DS and DD2 not making any moves in that direction at 39 and 37 respectively.

woo69 Sat 08-Oct-16 10:26:10

I was 47 when the first one came along and 3rd has just arrived 8 years and 51 weeks later, they are sisters and have a boy cousin inbetween. I have also just become a great auntie at 56.
I am the eldest sibling and my mum had said no grandchildren until she was 50, my first was due 4 days before her 50th but was born 4 weeks early. She was 25 when she had me and I was 25 also. Her (and my dads) great grandchildren have doubled from 2 to 4 in a matter of weeks, they are both 82 now but seem to do more childcare than I do.

Granpe Sat 08-Oct-16 10:27:39

I became a granny at 67 - thought it would never happen. My GD is now 2years and I take care of her a couple of days a week. I absolutely love the time I spend with her and she keeps me young. I have every intention of seeing her grow up.

marionk Sat 08-Oct-16 10:28:05

58, my DD had many years of IVF to get her 2 beautiful girls, they are now 3yrs and 18mths.